I would strongly suggest waiting before you try again SG. Sometimes when you think you've gotten over the worst feelings about this sort of thing, they come up when you least expect it. Counselling is a good idea.
You know I'm starting to think that. I have been fighting the urge of taking my doll out, I did yesterday but kept it in my husband's bag and left it in the car and I am also fighting myself to not post so much miscarriage stuff on Yahoo Answers because then I just feel like an attention whore. I have already gotten this far and I still want to talk about miscarriages. So far no lady has contacted me from yahoo answers to talk about miscarriages and I have in my profile I am looking for other ladies to talk to about it who has had one. The miscarriages forums I visited are not very active so it's useless and I have already received two PMs from the mod there because of the way I was talking about miscarriages. So now I am speechless on what to say. I don't know what other behaviors there are unacceptable. I don't even know if asking women about how many times they miscarried before their first baby is okay or not. I probably should ask the mod. I also tried looking for support groups in my area but found none. I'm going to pick up the phone tomorrow and call to see what counselors there are.
But the good news is I've learned that some charities donate dolls to hospitals for moms to take home when they lose their baby and in some cultures when women miscarry, they are given a wooden doll.
Why do people need to recover first before they try again? Does it make it harder for women to get pregnant again?
