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Title: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 27, 2011, 06:56:18 PM
I have posted this at a few other forums and it always turns into a big fight and ends up getting locked. I know you guys arent so sensitive so Im bringing up a really tough subject for me.

Ive never really been attracted to anyone but white, jewish, or spanish men. And I dont know why. I love black people ! I have a lot of black friends and native american friends and all kinds of friends.

I do not think anything ill of any race and genuinely think all men are created equal.

Then what the hell ? I have always been bothered by this. It is not that I think they are "unattractive" I am just not really into it. IDK why. Not only that but I dont really like blonds or redheads or guys with muscles either. So I like skinny dark haired boys and that is it. Why ?

Is this racist ? I hope not. I dont think I am but there must be something about my wiring that makes me like this.

would you date outside of your race ?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Squidusa on August 27, 2011, 07:13:17 PM
It's only racist if you actively discriminate by saying , you wouldn't date them because they are black and beneath you, or stuff like that.

The fact that you don't date black guys is a matter of taste , the fact you aren't as attracted to them as you are white guys.
I'm the same my cousin is the opposite , she pretty much ONLY likes black men but we both agree on asian men. :laugh:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 27, 2011, 07:16:50 PM
Yes I think it is just what I find esthetically pleasing.

When I was 12 I had a black boyfriend for like a week and sometimes we would smile at each other and we held hands once :D

Does that count ?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: 'Butterflies' on August 27, 2011, 07:21:00 PM
No. I dont think its racist. I am attracted to certain races more than others. This doesnt mean I would rule out a relationship with the races Im not attracted to, and it certainly doesnt mean I wouldnt be friends with those people.
Being attracted to certain races is no worse than prefering blondes over brunettes.
I like white people, as well as asian, and obviously Jews and Hispanics. I like lighter black people,but not so much very dark blaxk people.
For some reasonIm very attracted to Indian/Pakistani people, alrhough, obviously without the religion.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Parts on August 27, 2011, 07:32:23 PM
OMG you racist :zoinks:

There is nothing wrong with the way you feel it's not racist it's sexual preference.  It's not like you wouldn't be their friend or associate with them you just don't want to have sex with them
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Psychophant on August 27, 2011, 07:37:08 PM
It isn't racist, it's personal preference.  What attracts you??  Racist is a whole other ball of wax. 
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 27, 2011, 07:42:18 PM
what attracts me. hmm, being scrawny, punk rock, with pale skin and dark hair.

I guess if I like found a person of a different race that fit those criteria I would go for it. Like I would date an Armenian or something like that. Maybe arab if they were very pale.

The smallness is really more important though. I found a pair of Jeffs pants and the size said "16" and that confused me, so I asked a male friend and he said that means they were little boys sizes :D 
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Osensitive1 on August 27, 2011, 08:07:34 PM
Agree, personal attraction isn't racism.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Trigger 11 on August 27, 2011, 08:08:56 PM
It's just your preference. Like CBC said! I have had the opportunity to date black women, but I am just not interested. For some reason, I always end up with short brunettes, but have also dated (not slept with) and am attracted to tall blondes.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: bodie on August 27, 2011, 09:20:22 PM
No it's not at all racist.  I am not really attracted to some races either   -  and i ain't gonna
bother dating them just to appear to be non racist.  Fuck that!
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 27, 2011, 09:34:46 PM
phew ! Im alright I guess 8)

It really did bother me, though. I always wondered why I am like this. But it is true, I only like skinny dark haired boys. It's not like I am "racist" against blonds I suppose.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on August 27, 2011, 11:08:10 PM
It's just your preference. Like CBC said! I have had the opportunity to date black women, but I am just not interested. For some reason, I always end up with short brunettes, but have also dated (not slept with) and am attracted to tall blondes.

 I hadn't posted yet but that's what I *would* have said.  ;)  All my crushes are on white guys, that's just how it happens.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: renaeden on August 28, 2011, 01:02:33 AM
I like pale skin, dark hair and dark eyes. And I got that with GA. :)

I guess if you didn't want to talk or associate with other races, that would be considered racist. But you are not racist. Makes me wonder what was said on other boards to get the threads locked?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Al Swearegen on August 28, 2011, 01:08:58 AM
Yes I was waiting for someone to spell out what I was thinking and Bodie did this.
If someone was to tell someone else that un less they slept with a member of a designated subset then they were not  bigotted then this would be ridiculous.
"You don't hate old people do you. I think you are a bigot against old people. No......prove it...sleep with one"
Take out the old people and slot in whatever you like and it will still read badly.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: The_Chosen_One on August 28, 2011, 02:41:42 AM
I personally don't think there is any problem; you date who you want. I know of whites who go out with darkies (the males are gin-jockeys if the woman is black. Dunno the term for the reverse).

Among muslim men/women people have become racist because of the hatred toward them brought on by the war on terror and all that shit. But as far as dating or screwing other races, and whether you do or don't, it's mostly up to whoever is involved.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on August 28, 2011, 02:51:51 AM
No, it's not racist.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Frolic_Fun on August 28, 2011, 04:58:25 AM
It's personal preference. The people who say it's racist are up their own arseholes, these are the kinds that are trigger-happy when using the word anyway.

What pisses me off though is that SO MANY fucking people use the word completely wrong. Due to this there's so many innocent people afraid of being labelled racist because they say the wrong thing or do things such as affirmative action (which is ironically racist). To be a racist you have to actually consider yourself superior to another race and show intention of that when speaking and doing actions. Cracking a few jokes or saying words like nigger without any racist intent != racism.

That said, it is human nature to fear differences and change, so we all *are* racist in some form. Even when you try not to, there's always that superstitious bastard in the back of your head that makes you nervous around certain people and so on.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Buzz Killington on August 29, 2011, 02:53:38 AM
To be a racist you have to actually consider yourself superior to another race and show intention of that when speaking and doing actions. Cracking a few jokes or saying words like nigger without any racist intent != racism.

Thank you!  General prejudice goes under the name "bigotry", racism is reserved for actual racial superiority.  If all it took was using racial slurs, nearly every kitchen I've ever worked in was literally crawling with racists, especially the minorities.  Now if you ever want to learn some new racial slurs, ask a black waiter about who tips and who doesn't; you'll hear words you never even knew existed for various peoples before...  :LOL:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 29, 2011, 03:09:09 AM
Here is this test I found on the Harvard website. It is a test to see if you are racist but not by asking questions. You have to click on the words associated with flashing questions. Dont do it drunk, or they will say you are a bigot for sure.

https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/Study?tid=0

I have two friends that are black and they make lots of really racist slurs against black people. They are cousins so I know it is just something about that strange family. She calls herself a tarbaby. Sweet girl, tho. . I was raised to be tolerant and lots of my friends even prefer black men so it is just my personal preference of perfect pulchritude. I just wonder why people are they way they are. Sober living has got my brain working overload.

Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Phallacy on August 29, 2011, 11:28:03 AM
Yes, it IS racist!
















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Just kidding! :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Peter on August 30, 2011, 06:53:58 AM
I prefer light-skinned women with northern European features.  I'm somewhat less interested in eastern Asian women, not particularly attracted to Indian and Middle Eastern women and very seldom attracted to black African women. 

Humans have an instinct to seek partners who're genetically similar (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_sexual_attraction) enough to not cause compatibility problems in the offspring, and an instinct to seek partners who're genetically dissimilar enough to provide the offspring with a diverse immune system and to prevent homozygous occurrences of detrimental genes.  The balance of the two, along with a complex mix of other factors, contributes to an individual's racial mating preferences.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: midlifeaspie on August 30, 2011, 08:57:56 AM
I have never heard of mixed race babies having genetic compatibility problems.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Al Swearegen on August 30, 2011, 09:00:20 AM
I have never heard of mixed race babies having genetic compatibility problems.

I thought it was the mongrels like my good self which are resilient
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: midlifeaspie on August 30, 2011, 09:01:27 AM
I have never heard of mixed race babies having genetic compatibility problems.

I thought it was the mongrels like my good self which are resilient

Me too.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: 'Butterflies' on August 30, 2011, 09:16:47 AM
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Humans have an instinct to seek partners who're genetically similar enough to not cause compatibility problems in the offspring, and an instinct to seek partners who're genetically dissimilar enough to provide the offspring with a diverse immune system and to prevent homozygous occurrences of detrimental genes.

I dunno  :dunno:

My tastes are pretty diverse. I'm attracted to lighter skinned black people, but not so much to darker skinned black people. I'm attracted to Indian people, but less so to Chinese/Japanese. I'm attracted to Native Americans, but not so much to Eskimos.

I'm not sure if the people I'm attracted to are any more genetically compatible than the people I'm less attracted to.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: midlifeaspie on August 30, 2011, 09:38:45 AM
 :penis: + :booty: = compatible  :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Peter on August 30, 2011, 10:07:57 AM
Modern humans are all too closely related for genetic distance to cause problems, but you'll get nowhere if you try mating with a bonobo, and in the past, interbreeding between homo sapiens and other closely related hominids would likely have been a hit and miss affair, with many pairings producing sterile or unhealthy offspring or no offspring at all. 

It's something that all sexually reproducing organisms have had to deal with; the behavioural adaptations that animals have for finding a healthy balance between inbreeding and outbreeding are imperfect and variable, and can cause an animal to be attracted to a member of another species when there isn't the slightest chance of genetic compatibility, or they can cause an animal to fail to be attracted to perfectly suitable mate, but on average they work out so that most members of a species are more attracted to more genetically compatible mates.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: 'Butterflies' on August 30, 2011, 10:16:07 AM
but you'll get nowhere if you try mating with a bonobo,

OMG Peter. Please tell me you're not speaking from personal experience here  :viking: :viking:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Psychophant on August 30, 2011, 10:42:38 AM
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Humans have an instinct to seek partners who're genetically similar enough to not cause compatibility problems in the offspring, and an instinct to seek partners who're genetically dissimilar enough to provide the offspring with a diverse immune system and to prevent homozygous occurrences of detrimental genes.

I dunno  :dunno:

My tastes are pretty diverse. I'm attracted to lighter skinned black people, but not so much to darker skinned black people. I'm attracted to Indian people, but less so to Chinese/Japanese. I'm attracted to Native Americans, but not so much to Eskimos.

I'm not sure if the people I'm attracted to are any more genetically compatible than the people I'm less attracted to.

Mine too.  My girlfriend is half native american.  I've been attracted to asian, black and others.   You desire what you desire.   
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Peter on August 30, 2011, 10:43:31 AM
but you'll get nowhere if you try mating with a bonobo,

OMG Peter. Please tell me you're not speaking from personal experience here  :viking: :viking:

Fortunately not, although crossing humans and chimps has been attempted (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Humanzee).
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Peter on August 30, 2011, 11:02:09 AM
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Humans have an instinct to seek partners who're genetically similar enough to not cause compatibility problems in the offspring, and an instinct to seek partners who're genetically dissimilar enough to provide the offspring with a diverse immune system and to prevent homozygous occurrences of detrimental genes.

I dunno  :dunno:

My tastes are pretty diverse. I'm attracted to lighter skinned black people, but not so much to darker skinned black people. I'm attracted to Indian people, but less so to Chinese/Japanese. I'm attracted to Native Americans, but not so much to Eskimos.

I'm not sure if the people I'm attracted to are any more genetically compatible than the people I'm less attracted to.

Mine too.  My girlfriend is half native american.  I've been attracted to asian, black and others.   You desire what you desire.

Some people desire goats, others desire their siblings.  Most people are somewhere in-between.  Fortunately for humans, anything less related than a close family member or more related than a bonobo is fine, but we still have instincts from a time of high genetic diversity and small geographical ranges when it paid to be a bit more selective about who you slept with.  Even back then, a bell curve of human sexual exploration would have allowed new genes to trickle into a population from a few sexually adventurous individuals who cast their nets further afield and be assimilated without swamping the gene pool with maladaptive genetic combinations.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: 'Butterflies' on August 30, 2011, 11:16:18 AM
Humanzee. That would be so cool :lol:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Peter on August 30, 2011, 03:15:16 PM
The downside of sex with Neanderthals (http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/blog/2011/aug/25/neanderthal-denisovan-genes-human-immunity).
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: 'Butterflies' on August 30, 2011, 03:42:06 PM
Its hard to imagine there could possibly be  a downside to sex with neaberthals ;)
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Psychophant on August 30, 2011, 03:43:01 PM
As long as it's good for both of them!!!   :eyebrows:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Queen Victoria on August 30, 2011, 04:47:16 PM
My race is the rocking chair race (Olympics, 2000) and even I won't date the guys in there. 
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Callaway on August 30, 2011, 08:45:23 PM
The downside of sex with Neanderthals (http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/blog/2011/aug/25/neanderthal-denisovan-genes-human-immunity).

Interesting article, Peter.

I would have thought the downside would be giving birth to a baby with an enormous head, but autoimmune diseases make sense.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 30, 2011, 08:50:54 PM
I remember when I was about 20 there was this very nice young man that my mom and brother really wanted me to date. But he was black, and well I just wasn't attracted to him. My mom was kinda disappointed in me, thinking (or knowing) I wouldnt go out with him BECAUSE he was black. I didnt look or feel too good at the end of that day. They didnt come out and call me racist but , well...
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Scrapheap on August 30, 2011, 10:29:57 PM
I only date blonde haired, blue eyed women of Germanic ancestery!!!  :autism:   :hitler:    :autism:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Queen Victoria on August 30, 2011, 10:31:06 PM
I only date blonde haired, blue eyed women of Germanic ancestery!!!  :autism:   :hitler:    :autism:

So, I guess that means you won't be dating General Razorbeard?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 30, 2011, 10:39:40 PM
I only date blonde haired, blue eyed women of Germanic ancestery!!!  :autism:   :hitler:    :autism:

well I am 2/3ds of that. That must explain my predicament ;)
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Trigger 11 on August 30, 2011, 10:43:51 PM
My first name is either black or gay. My last name loves to hang out in German mountains. :headbang2:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Queen Victoria on August 30, 2011, 10:46:44 PM
Not exactly on topic, but close enough.

My father would occasionally make the comment, "That's what I like, cream in my coffee,"  when he would see a light-skinned, attractive black woman.  That used to annoy me, but he was my dad and criticizing him was a no-no.  One day I saw a gorgeous, coal black, giant of a man.  Out of my mouth unexpectedly popped, "That's the way I like my coffee, strong and black."

Dad never made his comment again.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Queen Victoria on August 30, 2011, 10:48:42 PM
My first name is either black or gay. My last name loves to hang out in German mountains. :headbang2:

Your real name is Ebonie Bergbewohner? 
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 30, 2011, 10:52:54 PM
Not exactly on topic, but close enough.

My father would occasionally make the comment, "That's what I like, cream in my coffee,"  when he would see a light-skinned, attractive black woman.  That used to annoy me, but he was my dad and criticizing him was a no-no.  One day I saw a gorgeous, coal black, giant of a man.  Out of my mouth unexpectedly popped, "That's the way I like my coffee, strong and black."

Dad never made his comment again.

In New Orleans, in the next few decades after the Civil War, the light skinned black women were considered a delicacy and were high class prostitutes and even would have "'quadroon balls" and have fancy dances, where a 1/4 black woman would be seen as a great beauty...but never marry.

I think these women probably were very beautiful , because their mothers were slaves and the fathers would be the rich white men that owned them. When a man owns slaves, I am assuming he rapes the most beautiful ones. So thats why I think these girls were exceptionally pretty and so sought after.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Queen Victoria on August 30, 2011, 11:02:46 PM
That is an extensive topic.  Note that they were not usually prostitutes, but were kept women whose children were usually freed.  The girls were kept at home a la "Gigi" and the boys sent to Paris for education.  Again, it's an extensive topic.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: 'andersom' on August 31, 2011, 02:07:51 AM
A sexist, that is what you are Eris. I don't see you dating women.  :hitler:

Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 31, 2011, 02:12:56 AM
A sexist, that is what you are Eris. I don't see you dating women.  :hitler:



Ive fooled around with a few different girls in my life. I wasnt really into it that much except for the first time.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Scrapheap on August 31, 2011, 05:42:52 AM
My first name is either black or gay. My last name loves to hang out in German mountains. :headbang2:

Maurice Von Dem Berge??
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Scrapheap on August 31, 2011, 05:51:20 AM
I only date blonde haired, blue eyed women of Germanic ancestery!!!  :autism:   :hitler:    :autism:

well I am 2/3ds of that. That must explain my predicament ;)

Hydrogen Peroxide is all it takes.  ;)
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 31, 2011, 12:05:11 PM
I only date blonde haired, blue eyed women of Germanic ancestery!!!  :autism:   :hitler:    :autism:

well I am 2/3ds of that. That must explain my predicament ;)

Hydrogen Peroxide is all it takes.  ;)

to make my eyes blue ? OUCH
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: 'Butterflies' on August 31, 2011, 12:19:50 PM
My first name is either black or gay. My last name loves to hang out in German mountains. :headbang2:

Trevor Mountain Goat?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: 'andersom' on August 31, 2011, 01:27:43 PM
My first name is either black or gay. My last name loves to hang out in German mountains. :headbang2:

Trevor Mountain Goat?

Zachary Berger?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on August 31, 2011, 01:52:45 PM
I always thought it was (not) funny when people think they can start with the racial slurs and jokes just because everyone in the room is white. It seems cowardly to me

I personally don't think there is any problem; you date who you want. I know of whites who go out with darkies (the males are gin-jockeys if the woman is black. Dunno the term for the reverse).

I know that a few decades ago a white woman that dated a black man was called a Cherry Bomb. Currently, among the really racist hillbilly fuckers from my area, they call them Nigger Diggers :S
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Scrapheap on September 01, 2011, 01:15:41 AM
I only date blonde haired, blue eyed women of Germanic ancestery!!!  :autism:   :hitler:    :autism:

well I am 2/3ds of that. That must explain my predicament ;)

Hydrogen Peroxide is all it takes.  ;)

to make my eyes blue ? OUCH

Why did I think you had blue eyes?

I gotta lay off of the shitty, low grade crack.

The expensive stuff don't fuck up yer head as bad. :stoned:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: ZEGH8578 on September 02, 2011, 10:24:44 PM
sexual preference isnt part of any political -ism.

i dont wanna fuck fat people.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Scrapheap on September 03, 2011, 12:54:17 AM
sexual preference isnt part of any political -ism.

i dont wanna fuck fat people.

Mass discriminator!!!  :hahaha:

Bulge bigot!!!  :hahaha:

Figure Fascist!!!  :hahaha:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: midlifeaspie on September 03, 2011, 08:51:36 PM
sexual preference isnt part of any political -ism.

i dont wanna fuck fat people.

I believe they call that sizeism.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Squidusa on September 03, 2011, 09:16:32 PM
sexual preference isnt part of any political -ism.

i dont wanna fuck fat people.

I believe they call that sizeism.

Sizeism would be refusing a job to someone because they are too fat / skinny for example.

Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: midlifeaspie on September 03, 2011, 09:23:13 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: The_Chosen_One on September 03, 2011, 10:26:57 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on September 03, 2011, 11:31:02 PM
ok. with sizeism . Lets say someone wants to be a cop but they weigh 400 ponds DO yo really think they could do the physical demands of that job ? IDK, I dont know how that is sizeism.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Calavera on September 04, 2011, 10:00:27 AM
In response to the original question, yes, it's racism to the extreme. You should really be ashamed.

...

Just kidding, please don't kill me. :autism:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Callaway on September 04, 2011, 11:03:32 AM
ok. with sizeism . Lets say someone wants to be a cop but they weigh 400 ponds DO yo really think they could do the physical demands of that job ? IDK, I dont know how that is sizeism.

If the hypothetical candidate could physically do the job, then I think he should be allowed to do the job.  I don't believe that absolute weight limits are fair because that would be sizeism.

I know a woman who was a fire fighter but she was a tiny bit over the weight limit at a weigh-in and I think that was unfair for the department to fire her if she failed to lose the weight as long as she could still pass the physical requirements of the job.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Scrapheap on September 04, 2011, 01:31:47 PM
I know a woman who was a fire fighter but she was a tiny bit over the weight limit at a weigh-in and I think that was unfair for the department to fire her if she failed to lose the weight as long as she could still pass the physical requirements of the job.

The military does the same thing. You can't fuck around with physical fitness when lives are at stake.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Squidusa on September 04, 2011, 01:34:54 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Osensitive1 on September 04, 2011, 02:28:54 PM
Agree certain jobs do have physical requirement and not really sizeism; that's more likely seen in things like sales and reception positions.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 05:41:21 AM
sexual preference isnt part of any political -ism.

i dont wanna fuck fat people.

 But, but, but WHY NOT?!?!?!  :bigcry:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 05:43:14 AM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: 'andersom' on September 14, 2011, 07:43:57 AM
sexual preference isnt part of any political -ism.

i dont wanna fuck fat people.

 But, but, but WHY NOT?!?!?!  :bigcry:

You want to fuck ZEGH?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Squidusa on September 14, 2011, 08:00:46 AM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:

It took you 10 days to think of that for a reply?  :hahaha:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: midlifeaspie on September 14, 2011, 08:51:18 AM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:

It took you 10 days to think of that for a reply?  :hahaha:

She was on vacation for much of it.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Squidusa on September 14, 2011, 03:32:12 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:

It took you 10 days to think of that for a reply?  :hahaha:

She was on vacation for much of it.

That's no excuse for a postwhore.  :P
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Osensitive1 on September 14, 2011, 03:33:07 PM
That's a great thing about the internet conversation. Often times in real life, by the time input for participation is formulated the conversation has moved on.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 05:10:09 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:

It took you 10 days to think of that for a reply?  :hahaha:

 I was away having a fantastic vacation, duh, just read that post this morning.  :P
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 05:11:41 PM
sexual preference isnt part of any political -ism.

i dont wanna fuck fat people.

 But, but, but WHY NOT?!?!?!  :bigcry:

You want to fuck ZEGH?

 No, I like ZEGH, what upsets me is the rejection of lovable dumpling people like myself.  :smashviolin:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Squidusa on September 14, 2011, 05:12:09 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:

It took you 10 days to think of that for a reply?  :hahaha:

 I was away having a fantastic vacation, duh, just read that post this morning.  :P

You are an embarrasment to postwhores.  :M
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 05:12:37 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:

It took you 10 days to think of that for a reply?  :hahaha:

She was on vacation for much of it.

 See, Squid?  SOME people were actually paying attention to my activities.  :M
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 05:14:43 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:

It took you 10 days to think of that for a reply?  :hahaha:

 I was away having a fantastic vacation, duh, just read that post this morning.  :P

You are an embarrasment to postwhores.  :M

 With limited internet access while on my GLORIOUS VACATION, I had to prioritize, i.e., post about said vacation
 while ignoring the lesser contributions of certain smartass members who shall not be named here.  :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Squidusa on September 14, 2011, 05:19:16 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:

It took you 10 days to think of that for a reply?  :hahaha:

 I was away having a fantastic vacation, duh, just read that post this morning.  :P

You are an embarrasment to postwhores.  :M

 With limited internet access while on my GLORIOUS VACATION, I had to prioritize, i.e., post about said vacation
 while ignoring the lesser contributions of certain smartass members who shall not be named here.  :zoinks:

Prioritising OVER postwhoring?  :o :o :o :o :o

Who are you and what have you done with the weeble? :GA: :GA: :GA :GA:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 05:23:59 PM
Not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a fat person.

I couldn't agree more?

I think he meant "not being attracted to a fat person is as discriminatory as not being attracted to a skinny person".

But we won't tell him that, will we.

Yeah sorry my brain was derping.  :autism:

 With all those tentacles hogging the blood supply, the brain gets a bit shortchanged.  :zoinks:

It took you 10 days to think of that for a reply?  :hahaha:

 I was away having a fantastic vacation, duh, just read that post this morning.  :P

You are an embarrasment to postwhores.  :M

 With limited internet access while on my GLORIOUS VACATION, I had to prioritize, i.e., post about said vacation
 while ignoring the lesser contributions of certain smartass members who shall not be named here.  :zoinks:

Prioritising OVER postwhoring?  :o :o :o :o :o

Who are you and what have you done with the weeble? :GA: :GA: :GA: :GA:

 I AM the Weeble, I just had to take full advantage of all my opportunities for sightseeing and target shooting!  :litigious:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: eris on September 14, 2011, 05:31:33 PM



You want to fuck ZEGH?

 No, I like ZEGH



hahahahah OMFG that was hilarious :rofl:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 05:39:53 PM



You want to fuck ZEGH?

 No, I like ZEGH



hahahahah OMFG that was hilarious :rofl:

 You removed the rest of my quote.  I'm suing you for quoting me out of context!  :squiddy:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Psychophant on September 14, 2011, 07:38:38 PM
I smell a callout............ :autism:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 07:48:17 PM
I smell a callout............ :autism:

 Nice try, but no, what you really smell is this lovely PIE!   :pie:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Osensitive1 on September 14, 2011, 09:13:37 PM
Stop being so racist.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 14, 2011, 09:16:19 PM
Stop being so racist.

 I'm not, I love all flavors of pie!  :autism:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Calavera on September 14, 2011, 11:21:33 PM
PPK, what did you do to CBC, man. She's ... different ...
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 15, 2011, 12:44:00 AM
PPK, what did you do to CBC, man. She's ... different ...

 The shooting range must have changed me somehow!  The whole trip was a big confidence booster!   :2thumbsup:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on September 15, 2011, 12:42:00 PM
Stop derailing this thread!
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 15, 2011, 12:44:01 PM
Stop derailing this thread!

 You're just envious because I got to go to California and have fish and chips and get a penny pressed into a  :seal:  design!
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on September 15, 2011, 12:45:24 PM
Stop derailing this thread!

 You're just envious because I got to go to California and have fish and chips and get a penny pressed into a  :seal:  design!

Yes.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 15, 2011, 12:47:23 PM
Stop derailing this thread!

 You're just envious because I got to go to California and have fish and chips and get a penny pressed into a  :seal:  design!

Yes.

 And envy hurts, but admitting its existence is the first step toward releasing it!   :meditate:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on September 15, 2011, 12:48:45 PM
Stop derailing this thread!

 You're just envious because I got to go to California and have fish and chips and get a penny pressed into a  :seal:  design!

Yes.

 And envy hurts, but admitting its existence is the first step toward releasing it!   :meditate:

I have a different method. :litigious:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 15, 2011, 12:52:45 PM
Stop derailing this thread!

 You're just envious because I got to go to California and have fish and chips and get a penny pressed into a  :seal:  design!

Yes.

 And envy hurts, but admitting its existence is the first step toward releasing it!   :meditate:

I have a different method. :litigious:

 Have you shot guns before?  If so, isn't it kick-ass?  :headbang2:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on September 15, 2011, 12:55:32 PM
Stop derailing this thread!

 You're just envious because I got to go to California and have fish and chips and get a penny pressed into a  :seal:  design!

Yes.

 And envy hurts, but admitting its existence is the first step toward releasing it!   :meditate:

I have a different method. :litigious:

 Have you shot guns before?  If so, isn't it kick-ass?  :headbang2:

It really is. It's fun.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: The_Chosen_One on September 15, 2011, 08:14:30 PM
I know this thread is about dating outside of your race, but what about dating outside of your species?

Maybe Plank could fill us in on that.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: skyblue1 on September 15, 2011, 08:16:56 PM
I know this thread is about dating outside of your race, but what about dating outside of your species?

Maybe Plank could fill us in on that.
hmmmmm, Aspies date outside their species quite a bit, I imagine

I only dated bitches, myself
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Psychophant on September 15, 2011, 09:07:08 PM
I know this thread is about dating outside of your race, but what about dating outside of your species?

Maybe Plank could fill us in on that.

I kept putting off posting that question.     :zoinks:  But, no, I don't date outside of my species.     :sheeplove:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Osensitive1 on September 16, 2011, 04:30:29 PM
Stop being so human racist.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Psychophant on September 16, 2011, 07:27:41 PM
Sue me......   :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: P7PSP on September 17, 2011, 12:58:22 AM
Stop derailing this thread!

 You're just envious because I got to go to California and have fish and chips and get a penny pressed into a  :seal:  design!
:agreed: He is envious by nature. He got envious of me because I got a case of Stockholm syndrome and he didn't. He said the Swedes keep all the best Stockholm syndrome there and only export the crap.  :soapbox: He likened it to drinking fresh Hawaiian Punch in Waikiki instead of the canned stuff elsewhere..
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on September 17, 2011, 06:16:53 AM
I have a case of Göteborg syndrome.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 17, 2011, 06:18:27 AM
Stop derailing this thread!

 You're just envious because I got to go to California and have fish and chips and get a penny pressed into a  :seal:  design!
:agreed: He is envious by nature. He got envious of me because I got a case of Stockholm syndrome and he didn't. He said the Swedes keep all the best Stockholm syndrome there and only export the crap.  :soapbox: He likened it to drinking fresh Hawaiian Punch in Waikiki instead of the canned stuff elsewhere..

 Awww, I didn't know you were held hostage, I hope you feel better now.  :autism:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 17, 2011, 06:19:11 AM
I have a case of Göteborg syndrome.

 Have you ever had a case of Stendhal syndrome?   :orly:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on September 17, 2011, 07:58:24 AM
I have a case of Göteborg syndrome.

 Have you ever had a case of Stendhal syndrome?   :orly:

No, what is it?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: P7PSP on September 17, 2011, 12:19:08 PM
I have a case of Göteborg syndrome.
Now I'm envious.  :-\
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on September 17, 2011, 03:38:19 PM
I have a case of Göteborg syndrome.
Now I'm envious.  :-\

And so you should. Not many people get it and live to tell the tale. :P
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 17, 2011, 11:51:26 PM
I have a case of Göteborg syndrome.

 Have you ever had a case of Stendhal syndrome?   :orly:

No, what is it?

 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stendhal_syndrome (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stendhal_syndrome)

 I figured the site's travelers, like you and PPK, might have experienced moments of it along the way.  :venus:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: P7PSP on September 18, 2011, 12:02:24 AM
I have a case of Göteborg syndrome.

 Have you ever had a case of Stendhal syndrome?   :orly:

No, what is it?

 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stendhal_syndrome (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stendhal_syndrome)

 I figured the site's travelers, like you and PPK, might have experienced moments of it along the way.  :venus:
Slightly increased heart rate is the only one of those symptoms that has applied to me while viewing art. Not applicable here. Nyet! Non! No!
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on September 18, 2011, 12:05:16 AM
I have a case of Göteborg syndrome.

 Have you ever had a case of Stendhal syndrome?   :orly:

No, what is it?

 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stendhal_syndrome (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stendhal_syndrome)

 I figured the site's travelers, like you and PPK, might have experienced moments of it along the way.  :venus:
Slightly increased heart rate is the only one of those symptoms that has applied to me while viewing art. Not applicable here. Nyet! Non! No!

 Awww, you're all fluttery now, and you've broken out into a sweat.  Sit down and let us examine you.   :nurse:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on September 18, 2011, 01:42:08 AM
I have a case of Göteborg syndrome.

 Have you ever had a case of Stendhal syndrome?   :orly:

No, what is it?

 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stendhal_syndrome (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stendhal_syndrome)

 I figured the site's travelers, like you and PPK, might have experienced moments of it along the way.  :venus:

Yes, if it is applicable to music.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: McGiver on January 02, 2012, 07:40:12 PM
No.  It is anti racist.

Or what I like to call....survivor guilt.


I suppose that is why I have such a fascination with the gay community, even though I am straight.
I grew up in a christain home, and went to Christian private schools.
I was always taught that homosexuality is a sin and they are all going to he'll.

Then I WOKE UP.  And I realized that we shouldn't judge others for who they choose to love.
And now I think that gay liberties is one of the most important issues of our life tines.
People deserve equity and freedom.

Were you raised in a bigoted household?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on March 10, 2012, 01:34:04 AM
It is just a personal preference. If you didn't date outside your race because you felt they were "inferior" then it would be racist.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: ZEGH8578 on March 10, 2012, 12:03:52 PM
It is just a personal preference. If you didn't date outside your race because you felt they were "inferior" then it would be racist.

^
pretty much summed it up.

the same question could be posed for gingers or fat people. one thing is to get along w someone, accept them for who they are, and respect or even look up to someone. another is to do the penis-vagina-game with them.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Dexter Morgan on March 22, 2012, 09:13:59 AM
If we all admit that we are racist then racism will vanish.  Who wants to go first?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: BruceCM on March 22, 2012, 09:49:59 AM
I'd love to fuck a black/ brown girl!
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: skyblue1 on March 22, 2012, 10:40:12 AM
I'd love to fuck a black/ brown girl!
well, paint your hand black or brown and have at it. since it obviously is a fantasy
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: BruceCM on March 22, 2012, 11:19:57 AM
Gee, thanks! lol
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: vampslord on April 07, 2012, 06:08:52 AM
OMG you racist :zoinks:

There is nothing wrong with the way you feel it's not racist it's sexual preference.  It's not like you wouldn't be their friend or associate with them you just don't want to have sex with them

Exactly. Not wanting to sleep with people of same sex has you does not make you biggot or a homophobe. Not sleeping with a dog does tell that you hate them.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Kapkao on April 07, 2012, 10:10:27 AM
nope. I prefer celtic girlies out of habit.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Al Swearegen on April 07, 2012, 10:32:23 AM
nope. I prefer celtic girlies out of habit.

Yes Celtic girls wearing a habit could still be pretty hot too
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Kapkao on April 07, 2012, 11:48:57 AM
(http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y116/iamjooish/Smilies/th_018.gif)
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: cynara on April 07, 2012, 05:12:15 PM
nope. I prefer celtic girlies out of habit.


Oooh, I'm celtic..................................
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Kapkao on April 07, 2012, 05:31:22 PM
I'll bet... (http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y116/iamjooish/Smilies/th_064-1.gif)

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/2566_139513395283_518280283_6072290_6982645_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: cynara on April 08, 2012, 02:57:17 AM
I'll bet... (http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y116/iamjooish/Smilies/th_064-1.gif)

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/2566_139513395283_518280283_6072290_6982645_n.jpg)

ha, pick the most flattering one why don't you!  :facepalm2:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Kapkao on April 08, 2012, 10:29:27 AM
It isn't flattering?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: cynara on April 08, 2012, 12:08:08 PM
Being nekkid is what got me promoted in the first place  :lol1:

didn't stop me getting made redundant tho'  :thumbdn:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Joel Knox on April 15, 2012, 09:58:58 PM
I've never been sexually attracted to a black man in my life, and I've never really liked Asians either. I've always attributed it to the fact that I prefer light skin, light eyes and light hair and only the supreme Aryans have that. 
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on April 15, 2012, 10:07:57 PM
I've never been sexually attracted to a black man in my life, and I've never really liked Asians either. I've always attributed it to the fact that I prefer light skin, light eyes and light hair and only the supreme Aryans have that.

(http://i940.photobucket.com/albums/ad249/duckfetishgirl/thatsracist.gif)
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Joel Knox on April 15, 2012, 10:13:39 PM
Well, which would you prefer?

Trevor McDonald
(http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Media/Pix/pictures/2007/10/25/TrevorMcDonald460.jpg)


Or Alan Rickman
(http://handson.provocateuse.com/images/photos/alan_rickman_10.jpg)

Hmm?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on April 15, 2012, 10:18:30 PM
Well, which would you prefer?

Trevor McDonald
(http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Media/Pix/pictures/2007/10/25/TrevorMcDonald460.jpg)


Or Alan Rickman
(http://handson.provocateuse.com/images/photos/alan_rickman_10.jpg)

Hmm?

I think you already know the answer to that one. :laugh:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Joel Knox on April 15, 2012, 10:21:42 PM
 :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Burning One on April 16, 2012, 10:11:59 AM
I tend to scare away all races with my arms and there raised red scars...For some reason people find that unappealing  :apondering: Meh, it keeps the creeps away but keeps everyone away by the same token...Oh well...thats what  :vibe: is for
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Kapkao on April 16, 2012, 11:39:59 AM
[boorish=Kapkao]

/me slaps Hannah's ass

[/boorish]


 :headbang2:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on April 16, 2012, 12:00:12 PM
I tend to scare away all races with my arms and there raised red scars...For some reason people find that unappealing  :apondering: Meh, it keeps the creeps away but keeps everyone away by the same token...Oh well...thats what  :vibe: is for

Over time the redness disappears and turns white. I have some old scars that aren't as visible anymore.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Kapkao on April 16, 2012, 01:32:52 PM
Hannah may have Keloid scarring  :(
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on April 17, 2012, 04:43:56 AM
:zoinks:

 You laugh, but Alan Rickman's picture isn't showing up, he wants no part of this!  :P
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Dexter Morgan on July 28, 2012, 01:22:45 PM
They are usually not my type, but there are lot of beautiful black women at the Olympics.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: TheoK on July 28, 2012, 02:18:10 PM
I'm rarely attracted by black women, one exception being the US porn actress Sierra.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on July 28, 2012, 05:43:20 PM
Well, which would you prefer?

Trevor McDonald
(http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Media/Pix/pictures/2007/10/25/TrevorMcDonald460.jpg)


Or Alan Rickman
(http://handson.provocateuse.com/images/photos/alan_rickman_10.jpg)

Hmm?

Tbh, that's not a fair comparison. It would make more sense to have a black man I am attracted to.  Back in the early 80's, I had a big crush on Michael Jackson. He looked like this:
(http://i940.photobucket.com/albums/ad249/duckfetishgirl/michaeljackson.jpg)

When I first had a crush on Alan Rickman in 1992, Michael Jackson looked like this:
(http://i940.photobucket.com/albums/ad249/duckfetishgirl/michael-jackson-1992-foto-oficiala.jpg)

Now if you asked me who I liked better in the early 80's, I would have said Michael Jackson. If you asked me in 1990-present, I'd say Alan Rickman.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: RageBeoulve on July 29, 2012, 01:29:44 PM
I'm rarely attracted by black women, one exception being the US porn actress Sierra.

Implying attraction is initiated by seeing someone naked.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on July 29, 2012, 01:54:18 PM
I'm rarely attracted by black women, one exception being the US porn actress Sierra.

Implying attraction is initiated by seeing someone naked.

  When in fact it is initiated by admiration of the mind and soul.  :M :P
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Adam on July 29, 2012, 02:36:20 PM
I like Rihanna lately
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: bodie on July 29, 2012, 02:51:14 PM
Phhhwaarrr i have to admit to being strangely attracted to Spock

no,  not the old spock,  this one
(http://images5.fanpop.com/image/photos/29400000/Star-Trek-Onoing-6-zachary-quintos-spock-29473239-1073-1650.jpg)
 :eyebrows: :eyebrows: :eyebrows:

Naturally, i would demand a rather detailed analysis of the old vulcan sausage-meat before any inter planetary relations commenced ... you know,  just in case of any strange anomaly's :tard:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on July 29, 2012, 02:58:20 PM
I like Rihanna lately

I like her coloring, but find her facial feature looking too much like an alien. She'd be attractive with less of a forehead. I really always thought Gabrielle Union was stunning.

(http://i940.photobucket.com/albums/ad249/duckfetishgirl/gabrielle_union.jpg)

And also Hollis Wakeema

(http://i940.photobucket.com/albums/ad249/duckfetishgirl/wakeema_hollis-1.jpg)
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on July 29, 2012, 03:02:19 PM
Phhhwaarrr i have to admit to being strangely attracted to Spock

no,  not the old spock,  this one
(http://images5.fanpop.com/image/photos/29400000/Star-Trek-Onoing-6-zachary-quintos-spock-29473239-1073-1650.jpg)
 :eyebrows: :eyebrows: :eyebrows:

Naturally, i would demand a rather detailed analysis of the old vulcan sausage-meat before any inter planetary relations commenced ... you know,  just in case of any strange anomaly's :tard:

  Zachary Quinto is gay, and will not likely show you his sausage.  :P


  But I'm sure he would extend a hand to you in peace and felloship!  :vulcan:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on July 29, 2012, 03:06:47 PM
I thought Leonard Nimoy was hawt.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on July 29, 2012, 03:10:35 PM
I thought Leonard Nimoy was hawt.

  He has definitely aged more attractively than Shatner has IMO.  :apondering:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: bodie on July 29, 2012, 03:14:03 PM
Phhhwaarrr i have to admit to being strangely attracted to Spock

no,  not the old spock,  this one
(http://images5.fanpop.com/image/photos/29400000/Star-Trek-Onoing-6-zachary-quintos-spock-29473239-1073-1650.jpg)
 :eyebrows: :eyebrows: :eyebrows:

Naturally, i would demand a rather detailed analysis of the old vulcan sausage-meat before any inter planetary relations commenced ... you know,  just in case of any strange anomaly's :tard:

  Zachary Quinto is gay, and will not likely show you his sausage.  :P


  But I'm sure he would extend a hand to you in peace and felloship!  :vulcan:


What?  Gay?   :jawdrop:

AAAAAAAAGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
 :hair:

oh you have really just pissed on my fire cbc
 :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Bodie almost wishes she were a gay man too,  anything to handle
that sausage-meat!  :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on July 29, 2012, 03:16:41 PM
  I, too, have wished at times to be a gay man in order to win the heart of a crush.   :emosad:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: bodie on July 29, 2012, 03:23:04 PM
  I, too, have wished at times to be a gay man in order to win the heart of a crush.   :emosad:

are you building up to confess something :eyebrows: :eyebrows:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: "couldbecousin" on July 29, 2012, 03:28:30 PM
It's just your preference. Like CBC said! I have had the opportunity to date black women, but I am just not interested. For some reason, I always end up with short brunettes, but have also dated (not slept with) and am attracted to tall blondes.

 I hadn't posted yet but that's what I *would* have said.  ;)   All my crushes are on white guys, that's just how it happens.

  One exception:  About five years ago I developed a crush on Native American actor
  Graham Greene (Oneida, from Ontario), after having been told of possible Native ancestry
  on my mother's side of the family.  :apondering:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: midlifeaspie on July 30, 2012, 09:39:05 AM
She must have gotten over it  :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Genesis on July 30, 2012, 06:41:08 PM
I wouldn't know because I have had dated outside of my race :-/
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: RageBeoulve on July 30, 2012, 07:23:10 PM
I'm rarely attracted by black women, one exception being the US porn actress Sierra.

Implying attraction is initiated by seeing someone naked.

  When in fact it is initiated by admiration of the mind and soul.  :M :P

It isn't?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on July 30, 2012, 08:26:53 PM
What about your species?

Two women describe losing their virginity to a DOG! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxovoNevMt0#)
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Genesis on August 01, 2012, 01:49:57 PM
*shudders*
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on July 23, 2013, 11:44:41 PM
It's just your preference. Like CBC said! I have had the opportunity to date black women, but I am just not interested. For some reason, I always end up with short brunettes, but have also dated (not slept with) and am attracted to tall blondes.

 I hadn't posted yet but that's what I *would* have said.  ;)   All my crushes are on white guys, that's just how it happens.

  One exception:  About five years ago I developed a crush on Native American actor
  Graham Greene (Oneida, from Ontario), after having been told of possible Native ancestry
  on my mother's side of the family.  :apondering:


I think Jay Tavare is hawt. I'd rape him.   :dominatrix:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Semicolon on December 28, 2013, 09:24:34 AM
  I, too, have wished at times to be a gay man in order to win the heart of a crush.   :emosad:

are you building up to confess something :eyebrows: :eyebrows:

She never answered you. :P

Perhaps she has a confession to make about General Razorbeard. :orly:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Al Swearegen on December 28, 2013, 09:55:12 AM
What about your species?

Two women describe losing their virginity to a DOG! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxovoNevMt0#)

Holy shit. I dunno. Is this on the level?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on August 30, 2014, 02:11:50 PM
Eris is currently into beastiality. She fucks Buttcoffee without a care.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on August 30, 2014, 02:48:48 PM
Eris is currently into beastiality. She fucks Buttcoffee without a care.

Is buttcoffee not human? I thought buttcoffee was Chair.  :P
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on August 30, 2014, 02:54:12 PM
Eris is currently into beastiality. She fucks Buttcoffee without a care.

Is buttcoffee not human? I thought buttcoffee was Chair.  :P

Semicolon is chair
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on August 30, 2014, 03:01:56 PM
Eris is currently into beastiality. She fucks Buttcoffee without a care.

Is buttcoffee not human? I thought buttcoffee was Chair.  :P

Semicolon is chair

I thought Semi was CBC.  :GA:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Jack on August 30, 2014, 06:05:59 PM
Eris is currently into beastiality. She fucks Buttcoffee without a care.
Are they even still a couple?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on August 30, 2014, 06:21:34 PM
Eris is currently into beastiality. She fucks Buttcoffee without a care.
Are they even still a couple?


No clue  does he provide her drugs? Does she provide underage kids for him?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Jack on August 30, 2014, 07:12:13 PM
You said currently, so thought maybe you knew.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on August 30, 2014, 07:16:19 PM
Last I heard they were a couple and that was less than a year ago.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Bastet on August 30, 2014, 08:01:53 PM
Last she visited this site they were .  I am assuming they still are.




You said currently, so thought maybe you knew.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Gopher Gary on October 14, 2014, 07:53:01 PM
I only date pitchers aimed at the batter.  :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Semicolon on October 14, 2014, 09:58:09 PM
I only date pitchers aimed at the batter.  :zoinks:

Which side are you hitting for? :trollface:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on October 14, 2014, 11:03:31 PM
These sports metaphors are confusing. :tard:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Semicolon on October 15, 2014, 05:46:05 AM
These sports metaphors are confusing. :tard:

They're not confusing if you know about the wholesome American sport of baseball. :orly:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on October 15, 2014, 09:38:27 AM
You're-a-peein sports like soccer are boring.    :hahaha:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on October 15, 2014, 10:42:29 AM
I don't want football metaphors either.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Semicolon on October 15, 2014, 11:01:15 AM
I don't want football metaphors either.

What about soccer metaphors? :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Gopher Gary on October 15, 2014, 08:48:31 PM
These sports metaphors are confusing. :tard:

I still don't feel like I really get the original joke.  :lol1:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Semicolon on October 16, 2014, 03:42:16 AM
These sports metaphors are confusing. :tard:

I still don't feel like I really get the original joke.  :lol1:

I blame you. :orly:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Gopher Gary on October 16, 2014, 05:39:40 PM
These sports metaphors are confusing. :tard:

I still don't feel like I really get the original joke.  :lol1:

I blame you. :orly:

It doesn't matter because it's all your fault.  :orly:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on October 19, 2014, 03:37:30 AM
I don't want football metaphors either.

What about soccer metaphors? :zoinks:

Those are only for the American members here. :M
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: awiddershinlife on October 22, 2014, 07:46:50 PM
I have posted this at a few other forums and it always turns into a big fight and ends up getting locked. I know you guys arent so sensitive so Im bringing up a really tough subject for me.

Is it complexion or is it race? Most people like a type. Date whomever you're attracted to, eris - but if you bring up the race card, then you're gonna get the heat. It sounds like the heat is more attractive to you than whatever race it is you prefer.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Gopher Gary on October 22, 2014, 08:33:39 PM
She likes them gagged and frail.  :zoinks:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: awiddershinlife on October 25, 2014, 08:18:46 PM
She likes them gagged and frail.  :zoinks:

but not pale
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Jack on October 26, 2014, 09:44:28 AM
Likes them pale too; which was the point of this thread.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on March 24, 2018, 05:09:26 AM
I have posted this at a few other forums and it always turns into a big fight and ends up getting locked. I know you guys arent so sensitive so Im bringing up a really tough subject for me.

Is it complexion or is it race? Most people like a type. Date whomever you're attracted to, eris - but if you bring up the race card, then you're gonna get the heat. It sounds like the heat is more attractive to you than whatever race it is you prefer.

:GA:       :wanker:

I date chicks with blue/green eyes exclusively. Not too many Blacks, Asians or Hispanics that fit that type.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Minister Of Silly Walks on March 24, 2018, 05:54:22 AM
(https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSdLnTdalqNV84iNsteUe0awBhbpUQObC0g-ZEUwyWYgR_Ggi9l)
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: renaeden on March 24, 2018, 06:02:13 AM
I knew a very dark skinned Aboriginal boy in school who had blue eyes more vivid than mine. Very striking.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on March 24, 2018, 06:30:56 PM
MOSW, that girl is wearing contacts, I can tell.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Minister Of Silly Walks on March 24, 2018, 06:44:43 PM
MOSW, that girl is wearing contacts, I can tell.

So would you date her if she promised to keep her contacts in?

Would you date a black girl with real blue eyes?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on March 24, 2018, 06:47:35 PM
MOSW, that girl is wearing contacts, I can tell.

So would you date her if she promised to keep her contacts in?

No, for largely the same reason I don't like fake tits.

Quote
Would you date a black girl with real blue eyes?

Possibly, if she was my type, personality wise.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Minister Of Silly Walks on March 24, 2018, 06:50:09 PM
So if a chick has big natural tits, blue eyes, the sort of personality you like, and a penis, would you date her?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on March 24, 2018, 06:54:24 PM
Chicks don't have dicks.   :P
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Jack on March 24, 2018, 07:00:14 PM
I knew a very dark skinned Aboriginal boy in school who had blue eyes more vivid than mine. Very striking.
Dark people with natural blue eyes are very striking, but dark eyes with blue contacts creep me out. The blue never looks real so it makes them look like demons, plus the pupils are often slightly misaligned so they look like cross-eyed demons. :laugh:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: renaeden on March 25, 2018, 02:48:51 AM
Yeah, contacts have a habit of not lining up properly when it's light lenses on dark eyes. For a long time I wore grey contacts and they looked fine.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Lestat on March 26, 2018, 01:16:10 AM
I don't think its racist to not want to date outside your own race, if you are only attracted to your own race. I'm only attracted to other white people, its not because I see something else and think 'dirty *insert racial slur here*, its just that the attraction isn't there. If a girl is white, ideally very, very pale in skin tone and either (preferably) autie, or else aspie or Rett's, then they've got a chance. Otherwise, no. Call me picky if you want, sure, but racist is a whole 'nother kettle of fish.

As for contacts, I'd go full on Marilyn Manson if it wasn't for the rather nasty experience I had with contacts once. I had to dig one out of my eye with the toothpick in my knife. Not the nicest thing I've ever had to do, and an experience I really don't want to repeat. Its a bitch, because I'd rather like to be able to change my eyes at will. Its just the potential to get one stuck in my eye, little fucker got trapped up going behind my eye, and it was bloody difficult to remove it. Thought I might end up having to go to a hospital to have it removed, but I got lucky with the toothpick and a mirror.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Fun With Matches on March 26, 2018, 11:18:56 AM
There is a technique to removing trapped contact lenses, I can manage to get them out in about a few seconds.

As for coloured contacts, I would totally wear them if the prescription ones fitted my eyes properly. The base curve is 0.1 too much and they hurt my eyes. The only other option would be to wear them with glasses, but that would suck.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Lestat on March 26, 2018, 11:37:15 AM
Well it was a bit of an emergency measure at the time. I couldn't SEE too well, for one, and I was in acute pain. It had to come out, and it had to come out (from that time point of view) NOW!!.

You don't think I'd have used one of those sharp plastic toothpicks that are included in the side of some of the high-end swiss army knives opposite what in every case, are THE worlds worst, most gigantic piece'o'shite excuse for a pair of tweezers to physically dig a contact lens out of my eyeball do you? :P the damn thing had actually buried itself into my eyeball like a splinter. It hurt, badly, and I was in a hurry, with no time to fuck about trying to look up methods of removing the thing. It had gone from the front of my eye to moving up and to the back of my eye  where it was only just visible from my other eye, so I had to stick the toothpick up and round the back of my eyeball then dig it out from the top. I could barely get to it at all, so time was of the essence, lest it go and get itself digging at my optic nerve, and doing serious damage.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: renaeden on March 26, 2018, 07:35:31 PM
It would have hurt a lot if it was stuck on the coloured part of your eye - nerve endings there.

I once had a contact fold over and go up behind my upper eyelid. I had to be very careful getting that out.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Lestat on March 26, 2018, 08:46:30 PM
Ren my dear, you really do not need to tell me what parts of eyes hurt the most, what the worst things to get stuck in them are, or where there are nerve endings. (my vote goes to getting my cornea stuck in my eye, or whats left of a cornea after having it welded onto the rest of your eyeball and eyesocket for the record, followed by UV arc-eye a few days later. I'm pretty convinced that even had I floundered around the hospital with an belt-fed machinegun braced in one hand until I managed to grab a nurse and force-march her/him to each and every single CD lockup in the building and after taking a monster bolus initial IV dose of a mixture of whatever opioids felt most appealing at the time, dropping some bupivacaine in my eye and injecting some more around the regions of my face to perform a regional nerve block, then filling a pair of IV bags with a mixture of the most pleasing and the most potent as painkillers, then hanging one from each shoulder, right into my jugular before walking out with the rest of the hospital stock, plus a selection of general anaesthetics, that one would STILL have hurt like the fuckingest of motherfucking bastards from the most stygian of tartaruses with interest. Even out cold with enough to require a mechanical ventilator, that would still have hurt like a twat on toast)

Powder burn to the eye (and thats not forgetting the aluminium and magnesium oxides that go with flashpowder going off), plenty of random grit at random times in the eyes, a splinter once, chili in various incarnations. Accidentally got a trace of phenylacetone (P2P), and once of P2NP in my eye, plus being in and around gradually building acidic clouds that eventually made it through the little airholes that let one of my sets of goggles breathe, ammoniacal stenches that start to sting like a fucker eventually. And one contact lens. Although not all at the same time or in the same eye.

Yup, I know alright. Oh and a gunpowder backblast in the face from a DIY'ed grenade launcher as a kid where I'd somewhat....I guess you might say..overestimated..the propellant charge for the shell, although surprisingly that one wasn't as painful as you'd expect. I got kinda lucky in that respect, didn't need hospital treatment, I guess most of the hot vapors of the powder charge and the solids in the smoke were cooled and deflected by the vents in the rear of my launcher. Wasn't much fun though, and it didn't  half make me jump. (to say nothing of the sonic shockwave that came belting back the long tunnel it had been fired down that particular time, had just enough time, round about to yell several highly offensive terms of beohfuckingshittenment before the rest of said stream of horror, pain in the face and sudden shock got drowned out by the echoing backblast when the grenade detonated, a long way off but with a thump that knocked me sideways and left everything white, aside from my ears which it left ringing and my nose which it left...its best not described what it left my nose. Not all of it was powder, primer and nitroaromatics and what wasn't, as far as being spoken of, best isn't. But the moral of the tale is A-don't fire a grenade launcher down a tunnel when you don't know it only has one end and B-don't have the propellant charge too big in one of your homemade shells.

Although I suppose if I look on the bright side, at least it DID go off. Even if it was in my face from not very far off at all, sighting down the iron sights, because otherwise it'd be a torso typing this with a bent bit of rib poking out of the neckhole instead of a me typing it with my fingers.
(of which I still have my naturally allotted quota, somewhat surprisingly given the way I misspent my misspent  really early youth :autism:

(although the bits that didn't go awry in that direction WERE rather fun. Most kids knock conkers down from trees to battle with on strings. I used the grenade launcher. (to harvest the conkers, that is, not to take on the kids with their conkers on strings...that'd be just a teeny bit unfair..on the same level as whoever the first person to come up with the phrase 'the pen is mightier than the sword' was being to an awfully large number of seriously naive people facing murderous barbarians and general psychopaths, arseholes and thugs :autism: )

And the lens DID go over the iris, the bottom portion of it, ended up being the top bit and the top bit ended up being somewhere up and behind my eyeball. From whence I had to wiggle that toothpick around until I got the former top bit and manage to dig the thing underneath (thank fuck eyeballs are at least slightly squelchy :P)

I really don't recommend any of the above experiences.

Especially with your eyes Ren, they really are quite something afterall, very 'something' come to think of it, and the 'something' being a good sort of 'something' lest there remain any trace of doubt about it :) I'd say I'd be delighted to swap with you, if it wasn't for the fact you'd be getting second ra..err...bargain basement by now..goods. Or a good at least. Or a 'works better than the other shitty one' item of barter. I'd happily have the cute, but I wouldn't burden you with the  collection of blast injuries, powder-burns or pig-inflicted superheated corrosive alkali burns :spazz:
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: renaeden on March 27, 2018, 12:28:29 AM
My eyes aren't the best but they're ok with glasses on. I'd rather not swap with you, you have damaged yours quite a bit!
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: El on March 27, 2018, 05:25:18 AM
How are we defining racism?  If it's the modern definition of prejudice + [societal-level] power, I'd say that doesn't apply at the level of dating preferences.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on March 27, 2018, 07:07:14 AM
How are we defining racism?  If it's the modern definition of prejudice + [societal-level] power, I'd say that doesn't apply at the level of dating preferences.

:fp:

This definition is pure fiction.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Lestat on March 27, 2018, 08:12:57 AM
Absolutely. Although to PMSelle's  credit she wasn't claiming it to be factual. She said 'society's definition'. And there are plenty of fruitcakes out there.

And since when did power have anything to do with racism, other than in the context of exercising force against a minority on grounds of race, such as with slavery?

And societal level anything doesn't really come into relationships, IMO, relationships in the sense being spoken of (as I understand it to be meant in this context) being at their very heart, interpersonal, not societal.)

And racist for a person to want something, unless the something is itself explicitly racist, such as 'person A wants all niggers to die', its not, and even if someone DOES, then they are entitled to want it, just not to go about seeing to it, or throwing it in the black folks' faces. What they THINK, is both private domain, as much as a right to privacy can be HAD, what people *think* is sacred in that respect. To act otherwise sets up that handbasket right at the top of one very slippery, stygian slope. Thought police. Nobody wants them, nobody in their right mind at any rate. And they'd change their tune pretty fucking fast if they got thought police, the moment they  find out they are on the list and taking top position.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: El on March 27, 2018, 05:38:34 PM
So, if there was a different word being used for "societal-level power + prejudice," would you be more willing to acknowledge and discuss it?
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Minister Of Silly Walks on March 27, 2018, 07:09:00 PM
Saying "I don't want to date outside my own race" is a good way to appear borderline racist these days.

You might define your dating preferences in terms of physical characteristics if you want to appear less racist.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Lestat on March 27, 2018, 09:27:14 PM
Well if I said the former, its at least more general than framing the exact same thing as 'I don't want to date any blacks, any  far-eastern/orientals, any latinos, any indian-ethnic area decendents and bloody definitely nothing thats arab.'

It doesn't mean 'I hate niggers, gooks, wetback cunts, pakis and camelfucking sand niggers' but 'I'm only attracted to other white people' sounds better IMO. Irrespective of what it MEANS. Well maybe on the camelfucking paedophile-worshippers from anywhere within about a half a continent of islamistan. Can't stand the fucking things. And I certainly wouldn't fuck one if they were the last primate creature with a vagina on the planet, even if they were autistic.

But as for the rest, I'm just not sexually attracted to blacks, hispanics, orientals etc. etc.

Some eastern europeans, although I'd not date a romanian, not with the lot we have in the UK. It ain't pretty, the romanian situation here. Criminal organized begging gangs, and the ones with houses (begged from the bloody council in the first place) send out kids to aggressively beg, or outright pickpocket, or both. We get the romanians that romania wouldn't shit on it seems. Never been there, but its either the case or else they have more of the ones nowhere else would shit on. Never seen a romanian that doesn't need to be thrown into a woodchipper feet first.

I'm attracted exclusively to white, female people who are either autie/aspie/Rett's. Anyone else, just doesn't push the right buttons to open to door marked 'attraction'. It just wouldn't be appealing to find myself in bed with someone outside said category.

Doesn't mean I'm racist. Just means I don't want to fuck someone who isn't a white, spesh girl. Ideally a really pale, kinda willowy looking gothy type and both speshul and special as well as being the type who absolutely throws off sparks fit to set the ground she walks on on fire. Like my former fiancee (younger of the two, although she was curvy rather than willowy, kinda short and with a distinctly 'different' sounding voice, the kind of...whats the word for it...not accent..not vocal tone, just that kinda spesh way of sounding that you can definitely tell. That was super-sexy the way she sounded, oh me oh my was it ever, especially when we'd shout out from opposite ends of the road, far from each other, calling each other's names as we went cannonballing into each other getting ready to brace for impact and spin round in each other's arms to ensure that conservation of momentum did not turn into a bone-crunching thump, and instead turned into orbital momentum and a mutual bone-crushing snuggle of an exhilarated fresh meeting. The special, especially important, as is speshul, and white. Not gothy, thats alright, although I find the goth girl look most attractive. My ex fiancee, she was definitely gothy and spesh and very, very, very special. And fiery? girl was a fucking blowtorch on a pair of pretty legs with a gorgeous head and face and smile and eyes on top with a wonderful brain behind them all.

But say, black, or arab and NT, gods no.

Hell most white women I wouldn't be all that inclined towards dating. There are only a very small few who I would be that attracted to. My ex fiancee to be back with her, that I'd definitely be up for, ain't many around like cazzie. I can only think of maybe 4. perhaps 5 women who are both non-asexual (not that I think anything less of people who are, indeed I admit, I find a lady who is, very fanciable. But at the same time, I'm not asexual so that would make things difficult in that respect. I could easily love the person, I really like her, but the price tag of living out the rest of my days celibate is extremely high, even for a truly stunning, pretty, very smart, and inasfar as I know her, funny lass; the others aren't asexual, and they are all people I would be willing to spend until my dying day with, grow old with, have kids with in all but one case (one physiologically cannot do so again)

So its more 'really, really, really short shortlist of candidates, as well as white and autistic and fiery, strong in personality' and that happens to be what I am attracted to. And I guess I could end up attracted to others like them if I did meet someone like these very special ladies. Although its a really quite variable bag in its own way, the people who ARE on the shortlist of 'spend the rest of my days with, have kids with' kind of 'fall for' potential. Or fallen, as the case might be.

One's 53-54 looks late 20s, one's mid 30s kanner's autie looks 12, two are autie activists, one HFA or autie and the other Rett's, and another is right in the middle, afaik around my age give or take, looks it although looking good too, aspie girl from WV, US, and of all things, xtian. And compared to me, thats the polar opposite. I'm about as atheistic, skeptical and purely science-driven in that sense as its possible to fucking get. And the funny thing is, we get on like a full bathtub and a kilo-brick of caesium metal, as people, and a matching one of rubidium best of friends, did the long distance thing in fact at one point, although given neither could afford to get to the other, it wasn't to be. But we are still the absolute best of friends and we always manage to cheer the other up if one of us is feeling less than chipper.

Were the bathtub available, you can bet there would be not just sparks flying, but one almighty great cloud of hydrogen evolved in an instant, followed by one synchronized, if with different ingredients kablooey. The sort of thing that would make for a 'sodium party' (as hobbyist chemists sometimes call events of the sort that involve social get togethers, a body of water and barrels of sodium metal, a lot of cackling, beer flowing and hilarity, punctuated by various entertaining and ingenious delivery-mechanisms to introduce alkali metals in large kegs, blocks, bricks, catapulted or thrown lumps to lots of H2O. )

[although I confess....a kilo of rubidium or caesium, or all the more so, a kilo of each, that'd be worth its weight in gold to most hobbyist chemists. Actually, while I haven't done the math, a kilogram of caesium, given the alkali metals are very, very low-density, lightweight metals, it might BE worth as much as or more than its weight in gold, and rubidium stands a chance too possibly, because either are a good many whole orders of magnitude more scarce, and more monetarily precious than are lithium, sodium or potassium, especially Na and K which there are plenty of to be mined as minerals, to be set free from their salts or hydroxides using electrolysis or electroless, metallothermic 'thermite style' reactions and some clever solvent tricks to free the metals from the slag of magnesium hydroxide)

As for appearing 'borderline' racist, if someone is THAT fussy as to kick up a fuss and judge ME for it as a racist would judge their own personal target race, then I don't care to spend my time on them.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Fun With Matches on March 28, 2018, 07:19:10 AM
You’re a dick sometimes Lestat.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Grey Area on March 28, 2018, 09:06:52 AM
Dry fuzzy textures make me feel like I'm choking when I touch them. Any type of hair that even looks like it feels like that is a hard limit for me.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on March 28, 2018, 03:26:19 PM
So, if there was a different word being used for "societal-level power + prejudice," would you be more willing to acknowledge and discuss it?

No. The notion that all people of a particular skin color enjoy societal level power is, in and of itself, a racist notion.

The only laws on the books in the US that discriminate against people based on race, are aimed at discriminating against white people (affirmative action).
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on March 28, 2018, 11:38:00 PM
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/monkey-cage/wp/2017/02/15/do-voter-identification-laws-suppress-minority-voting-yes-we-did-the-research/?utm_term=.0d8cd65e3ab0
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: El on March 29, 2018, 05:58:16 AM
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/monkey-cage/wp/2017/02/15/do-voter-identification-laws-suppress-minority-voting-yes-we-did-the-research/?utm_term=.0d8cd65e3ab0
I've totally given up.  He just wants to be pissed off at people and ideas he doesn't like, and has no fucking interest in taking in any new information unless it confirms what he already believes.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on March 29, 2018, 08:09:28 AM
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/monkey-cage/wp/2017/02/15/do-voter-identification-laws-suppress-minority-voting-yes-we-did-the-research/?utm_term=.0d8cd65e3ab0
I've totally given up.  He just wants to be pissed off at people and ideas he doesn't like, and has no fucking interest in taking in any new information unless it confirms what he already believes.

I've noticed. This one was a bit bizarre, which is why I bothered to prove him wrong.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Jack on March 29, 2018, 05:51:31 PM
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/monkey-cage/wp/2017/02/15/do-voter-identification-laws-suppress-minority-voting-yes-we-did-the-research/?utm_term=.0d8cd65e3ab0
Both agree and disagree with this requirement. The requirements for obtaining a voter registration are similar to obtaining a state issued photo ID. The only difference is the fee. If photo IDs are required by law to vote then they should be obtainable for free.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on March 29, 2018, 05:57:03 PM
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/monkey-cage/wp/2017/02/15/do-voter-identification-laws-suppress-minority-voting-yes-we-did-the-research/?utm_term=.0d8cd65e3ab0

The one discriminated against demographic they leave out is dead people.

a LOT less of them vote when you require voter ID.

All that these tosspots have proven is that the Democrats still engage in voter fraud.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on March 29, 2018, 06:00:00 PM
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/monkey-cage/wp/2017/02/15/do-voter-identification-laws-suppress-minority-voting-yes-we-did-the-research/?utm_term=.0d8cd65e3ab0
I've totally given up.  He just wants to be pissed off at people and ideas he doesn't like, and has no fucking interest in taking in any new information unless it confirms what he already believes.

Posting in the mirror.

You and odeot are dead set on clinging onto your SJW victimhood narratives.

In the mean time, I have several white friends who can't get government jobs because they were born the wrong color...   ..and with a penis.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: Yuri Bezmenov on March 29, 2018, 06:02:54 PM
I've noticed. This one was a bit bizarre, which is why I bothered to prove him wrong.

All that the odeot has proven is that his thinking has become lazy as a result of indoctrination.
Title: Re: Is it racist to not want to date outside of your race ?
Post by: odeon on March 30, 2018, 01:53:47 AM
I've noticed. This one was a bit bizarre, which is why I bothered to prove him wrong.

All that the odeot has proven is that his thinking has become lazy as a result of indoctrination.

It's OK to admit you were wrong.