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« Reply #105 on: April 07, 2008, 05:18:20 PM »
Why does it matter to you that gender is now considered to be a social construct? what do you want it to be defined as?

Because it conflicts with what is biological reality. Read up the story of David Reimer whom after a circumcision gone wrong, the doctors decided he should be raised as a girl.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Reimer

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Re: Father-Daugther incestous couple have come out
« Reply #106 on: April 08, 2008, 05:28:36 AM »
YUCK YUCK YUCK YUCK YUCK YUCK  nah nah nah I'm not listening anymore
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Re: Father-Daugther incestous couple have come out
« Reply #107 on: April 08, 2008, 11:32:10 AM »
Why does it matter to you that gender is now considered to be a social construct? what do you want it to be defined as?

Because it conflicts with what is biological reality. Read up the story of David Reimer whom after a circumcision gone wrong, the doctors decided he should be raised as a girl.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Reimer

I think that's so sad, what happened to him.  I think that I saw his story on television as well.

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« Reply #108 on: April 08, 2008, 11:34:06 AM »
they shouldn't need to be "raised as a girl" or "raised as a boy" anyway IMO. although i know no one will agree with me. they should be raised as individual kids, regardless of what gender or sex they are

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« Reply #109 on: April 08, 2008, 11:42:29 AM »
they shouldn't need to be "raised as a girl" or "raised as a boy" anyway IMO. although i know no one will agree with me. they should be raised as individual kids, regardless of what gender or sex they are

I absolutely agree with you, Soph.

Sometimes, it's tough doing that, though.

Like with my daughter, I tried to have just as many "boy" toys for her when she was little as "girl" toys and I had as many gender neutral toys as possible.

How you dress kids can be a problem for some parents, because there are not many unisex choices for children older than babies. 

I dress her as a girl but I try to take any preference she has into account. 

For example, she tends to like comfortable clothes because of her sensory issues, so most of her clothes are cotton knit fabric.

She hates black and white striped things and bar codes, so she does not have any clothing like that.

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« Reply #110 on: April 08, 2008, 11:46:33 AM »
they shouldn't need to be "raised as a girl" or "raised as a boy" anyway IMO. although i know no one will agree with me. they should be raised as individual kids, regardless of what gender or sex they are

I absolutely agree with you, Soph.

Sometimes, it's tough doing that, though.

Like with my daughter, I tried to have just as many "boy" toys for her when she was little as "girl" toys and I had as many gender neutral toys as possible.

How you dress kids can be a problem for some parents, because there are not many unisex choices for children older than babies. 

I dress her as a girl but I try to take any preference she has into account. 

For example, she tends to like comfortable clothes because of her sensory issues, so most of her clothes are cotton knit fabric.

She hates black and white striped things and bar codes, so she does not have any clothing like that.
yeah i understand the clothing and stuff.
i mean if i had a son, i wouldn't make him wear skirts and stuff :P
but i wouldn't treat a child one way, if i would have treated them differently had they been a different sex. it sounds obvious not to do that, but a lot of parents do it without realising, from what i've seen. they expect their daughters and sons to be different, and if they're not, they treat them as if they've done something wrong.
that just leads to insecurities and problems when they're older IMO.

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Re: Father-Daugther incestous couple have come out
« Reply #111 on: April 08, 2008, 11:59:53 AM »
Yes, but what if he actually wanted to wear skirts?

Some dads, especially, have a problem if their sons want to dress like a girl because they know how much teasing it will cause them to face.

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« Reply #112 on: April 08, 2008, 12:04:12 PM »
yeah I would definitely worry about teasing
But I wouldn't have a problem with it at all, if they were older
If they were very young I don't know what I would do tbh, as I know it would cause a lot of problems for my brother (at school and stuff) if he wanted to wear skirts. Maybe i'd let them wear skirts at home and try and encourage them not to when they go out. but then why should a child have to be forced to act differently to another (otherwise the same - same age etc) child, based solely on his sex? it's not right. that's why it pisses me off. it's socially messed up

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« Reply #113 on: April 08, 2008, 12:18:38 PM »
well i dont see what the big deal is, adam and eves children had to have fucked each other otherwise the majority of us wouldnt be here ;)

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« Reply #114 on: April 08, 2008, 12:26:26 PM »
That is if you believe in Adam and Eve.

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Re: Father-Daugther incestous couple have come out
« Reply #115 on: April 08, 2008, 12:28:51 PM »
Well for that matter if you believe in them Eve was made out of Adams rib so it was the ultimate in incest he fucked himself :laugh:
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« Reply #116 on: April 08, 2008, 12:30:41 PM »
Wouldn't that be masturbation?  :laugh:

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Re: Father-Daugther incestous couple have come out
« Reply #117 on: April 08, 2008, 12:37:36 PM »
Yes god should have stuck him down for that
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« Reply #118 on: April 08, 2008, 01:09:44 PM »
i would let my kids wear what they like.
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Re: Father-Daugther incestous couple have come out
« Reply #119 on: April 08, 2008, 01:31:03 PM »
i would let my kids wear what they like.

Even an open-assed gimp suit?
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