Yeah but you missed my point- do parents in conventional relationships feel the need to tell their kids what they do in their sex lives?
It's not the parents job to describe their sex lives to their kids, no matter if it's conventional or not! What matters is that you give the kid(s) the knowledge and confidence to make their own decisions about what they want....period! The only exception I can think of is, say, if Amber asks me point blank to my face, "Do you do.....on mom" or does "mom do .......on you", I'll ask if she really wants to know and if she still does......I'll tell her and I know Carla would do the same.
BTW, I just read thru this thread for the first time, if we had a thumbs up emoticon, I'd post it here!
I didn't know you were that young and here I was, joking about me being your "boytoy".
More like me being your "old Geezer toy".!