Advice to desperate aspie guys

[Pyraxis]

building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.

As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?

[El]

building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.

As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?

OHHHHH!!!!  BUUURNNNN!!!!!

sorry

[QuirkyCarla]

So i'm partially shallow and deserve to be alone?

You're shallow, but I recall you expressing some remorse for that, so you're partially excused.

[McGiver]

building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.

As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?

so you are sayging that i am feminie?

[odeon]

building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.

As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?

so you are sayging that i am feminie?

Just soft.

[McGiver]

building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.

As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?

so you are sayging that i am feminie?

Just soft.

yeah, well, i got something hard for you.
come to papa.

[odeon]

Oooohhh. Big daddy.

[thepeaguy]

Oooohhh. Big daddy.

:p

[Teejay]

The other end of the spectrum annoys me too. I've seen some of the aspie guys on wp post about how they're unattractive, overweight slobs and yet they won't settle for anything less than than a hot girl with a great body. These are some of the same people who whine about not being able to get a girlfriend. Those guys are shallow and deserve to be alone if that's all they care about.

That is interesting consider given they are so lonely and desperate 

[El]

The other end of the spectrum annoys me too. I've seen some of the aspie guys on wp post about how they're unattractive, overweight slobs and yet they won't settle for anything less than than a hot girl with a great body. These are some of the same people who whine about not being able to get a girlfriend. Those guys are shallow and deserve to be alone if that's all they care about.

That is interesting consider given they are so lonely and desperate 

If you're lonely and desperate you should atke what you can get.  Find another lonely, desperate, unattractive person and go to weight watchers together or something.

[Nomaken]

What sucks is being lonely despite knowing that i am specifically declining to have a girlfriend or a mate until i finish with college and get a good job.  I have to wait for years before i will even consider it.  And I can't decline to be lonely upon making this decision.

[McGiver]

What sucks is being lonely despite knowing that i am specifically declining to have a girlfriend or a mate until i finish with college and get a good job.  I have to wait for years before i will even consider it.  And I can't decline to be lonely upon making this decision.

find a woman after college, but before the good job.

whatever happend to women finding the Alladin types; diamonds in the rough.

if you get the good job first, then you'll never know.

[El]

What's so wrong with dating in college?

[Nomaken]

For one thing i have almost no money.  I want to be able to buy her things, treat her to dinners and shit.  I don't want to buy her exactly, but i'd like the freedom that money gives.  Another thing is that I don't want to find a girl then get a job which puts me out of convenient driving distance, or have her get a job somewhere that i have to move to.  And lastly, i can't even imagine finding someone outside of a working environment.  I figure once i get a job, i will have the money to blow on trying to find her, because i can't think of any cheap, easy ways to find people with a certain personality, intelligence, and goal in life.

[Randy]

Do all that you can and you have no reason to be mad at yourself, if you can't get what you want.