Oh LOL Eclair,
Guess I should not be writing in the peanut gallery any more. You brought me in.
First, I'm a woman who is treated more than right by Sir_Les.
Second, he can and will do his own battles, and doesn't need me for that. And he will not see this post before it is posted here.
Third, I have no issues with Kit.
So, why did I answer Kit in the peanut gallery? Because of her melting down? TBH, I read that post so quickly, that I missed the word meltdown. But, browsing AFF I saw she had a fresh thread mentioning her having problems with how people read her too. And I remembered her posting similar things before.
I do not often post on AFF. Sometimes I say hi to Pika there, or something like that, but that's it. And here on I2 I had an example of text I could use in my answer. I hope that for her it is a helpful answer. If not, so be it.
In reading her closely, I noticed that she was probably answering Skyblue with her post, though, to me, the tone would more suggest her answering Richard. So, I asked her about it. And, her answer was clear enough.
Why was I before in this thread? Clarifying something to Kit, stemming from before the call-out in that the Zach thread, and venting, because I did get very reactive in a feminist way about Phlex bringing in Kit's pregnancy. And would have been just as reactive if it was someone else calling out Kit.
There have been 6 replies while I wrote this. I am not going to read them before I hit the post button.