If its PURELY age that stops you from fancying anyone, anyone at all that is,without specific reference to a specific person, don't let it get in your way. Some 'older' women are truly gorgeous. Like my stalker girl. Not together anymore but thats because of her not being a people-person nearly enough. The hellbitch of a former housemate always trying to get in the way (borderline cunt from hell she was/is, the housemate I mean) didn't help either. But this particular woman, nearly, and now probably 50-51 is one of the most stunningly beautiful women I have EVER seen in my entire life. she doesn't/didn't think so, but she obviously must have lived in a house, indeed city without one single reflective surface, because goddammit....wow..just...wow. Not merely sexy, but truly, astonishingly beautiful, inside and out. Never paid any attention to her age, aside from celebrating the fact that shes been on the face of the earth one year longer on her b/day, but had she been 70 I'd still have fallen deeply in love with her.She originally thought I wasn't being serious, or just being complimentary, until eventually I had to get so outright dirty and naughty in my descriptions of the thingss I'd love to do with her, that it left absolutely zero room for doubt that I MEANT what I was trying to tell her, and meant it with every last bit of me.