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Title: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 28, 2013, 09:09:44 PM
Would you join the mix or be disgusted by the prospect?
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: P7PSP on August 28, 2013, 09:16:49 PM
I would take the be disgusted option McJ.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Icequeen on August 28, 2013, 09:17:49 PM
What if all the "fuck buddies" he chose were pretty much disgusting?
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 28, 2013, 09:18:11 PM
What if was a same sex partner?
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Queen Victoria on August 29, 2013, 04:23:34 AM
Two of the reasons I chose to marry PA is that I was sure he wouldn't screw around on me or sexually abuse a child.  And yes, I know nothing is a certainty.  These were important qualities for me. 
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: P7PSP on August 29, 2013, 04:42:00 AM
What if was a same sex partner?
No. Any woman that wants to fuck ANYONE else is not mine. YMMV.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Al Swearegen on August 29, 2013, 04:47:48 AM
What if was a same sex partner?
No. Any woman that wants to fuck ANYONE else is not mine. YMMV.

sounds fair, I agree
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: bodie on August 29, 2013, 05:13:44 AM
He has one already.  His wife.   :o
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 29, 2013, 06:29:59 AM
I was expecting this monogamy talk from Americans, but I thought Europeans were a little less puritanical when it came to sex.  A little more open minded?
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Al Swearegen on August 29, 2013, 06:40:35 AM
I do not have any real problems with people deciding mutually for menage a trios to spice things up or in uncommitted relationships or in pre-decided multi-partnered arrangements. But that is not the same as saying "We would you cop to that, yourself?"
To me it is like saying, "So you have no problem with people being gay, right?" Nope. "Well then would you screw a bloke?" Nope.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Pyraxis on August 29, 2013, 06:57:50 AM
From the little I've seen, when one member of a couple gets really close to someone else, that someone else often has some opposite traits to the partner and they really don't get along. I've speculated that it's because the second person is filling whatever gaps in their life that the partner can't fill. If they can't get along out of bed, I don't see it being likely improved by getting in bed.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 29, 2013, 07:18:31 AM
From the little I've seen, when one member of a couple gets really close to someone else, that someone else often has some opposite traits to the partner and they really don't get along. I've speculated that it's because the second person is filling whatever gaps in their life that the partner can't fill. If they can't get along out of bed, I don't see it being likely improved by getting in bed.
you are probably right. But it can be lots of fun.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 29, 2013, 07:20:32 AM
I do not have any real problems with people deciding mutually for menage a trios to spice things up or in uncommitted relationships or in pre-decided multi-partnered arrangements. But that is not the same as saying "We would you cop to that, yourself?"
To me it is like saying, "So you have no problem with people being gay, right?" Nope. "Well then would you screw a bloke?" Nope.
i think that being gay is an attraction to the same sex.  Having sex with another bloke, might just be having sex with another bloke. 
I wouldn't rule it out.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Icequeen on August 29, 2013, 08:15:33 AM
Honestly the older I get the more I envy CBC.

I could have avoided a hell of a lot of stress in life by keeping my legs crossed. :LOL:
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 29, 2013, 08:20:29 AM
Honestly the older I get the more I envy CBC.

I could have avoided a hell of a lot of stress in life by keeping my legs crossed. :LOL:
condoms. The pill. Anal.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Icequeen on August 29, 2013, 08:22:31 AM
Honestly the older I get the more I envy CBC.

I could have avoided a hell of a lot of stress in life by keeping my legs crossed. :LOL:
condoms. The pill. Anal.

I was talking about the inlaws and the father, not the kid. He's the least of my troubles. ;)
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 29, 2013, 08:30:10 AM
Honestly the older I get the more I envy CBC.

I could have avoided a hell of a lot of stress in life by keeping my legs crossed. :LOL:
condoms. The pill. Anal.

I was talking about the inlaws and the father, not the kid. He's the least of my troubles. ;)
haha. 

Wait. You don't have to have sex with the in laws.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: RageBeoulve on August 29, 2013, 08:30:29 AM
What if was a same sex partner?

Depends on how they met, and if I just walked in on such a thing. I don't like THOSE kind of surprises and would be pretty upset.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: TheoK on August 29, 2013, 08:31:58 AM
I was expecting this monogamy talk from Americans, but I thought Europeans were a little less puritanical when it came to sex.  A little more open minded?

Sara had seven other lovers though one at a time.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 29, 2013, 08:32:45 AM
What if was a same sex partner?

Depends on how they met, and if I just walked in on such a thing. I don't like THOSE kind of surprises and would be pretty upset.
but they are already moist and waiting for your cock. 
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: RageBeoulve on August 29, 2013, 08:36:06 AM
What if was a same sex partner?

Depends on how they met, and if I just walked in on such a thing. I don't like THOSE kind of surprises and would be pretty upset.
but they are already moist and waiting for your cock.

I don't like lies or secrets, man.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Icequeen on August 29, 2013, 08:55:51 AM
Honestly the older I get the more I envy CBC.

I could have avoided a hell of a lot of stress in life by keeping my legs crossed. :LOL:
condoms. The pill. Anal.

I was talking about the inlaws and the father, not the kid. He's the least of my troubles. ;)
haha. 

Wait. You don't have to have sex with the in laws.

No they're like an STD you get as a "reward"....kind of like herpes.  :zombiefuck:
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Jesse on August 29, 2013, 10:16:38 AM
I'm still trying to get a significant other, so I cannot answer your question.   :santa:
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 29, 2013, 10:21:34 AM
I'm still trying to get a significant other, so I cannot answer your question.   :santa:
maybe sky blue invited you over for sex, but he was already being satisfied by sir les?
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Al Swearegen on August 29, 2013, 10:25:14 AM
I'm still trying to get a significant other, so I cannot answer your question.   :santa:
maybe sky blue invited you over for sex, but he was already being satisfied by sir les?

Maybe not
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Jesse on August 29, 2013, 10:25:29 AM
Skyblue is too creepy to even think about having sex with. Sir Les isn't my type

Who is my type? someone who has a great haircut along with having a job. because, I value looks beyond anything else

:blonde:
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 29, 2013, 10:27:06 AM
I'm still trying to get a significant other, so I cannot answer your question.   :santa:
maybe sky blue invited you over for sex, but he was already being satisfied by sir les?

Maybe not
aw c'mon. Nothing better than make up sex....well, maybe grudge sex.  :lol1:
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: MLA on August 29, 2013, 10:56:06 AM
Gross
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: RageBeoulve on August 29, 2013, 12:59:47 PM
Gross

For once, we agree.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: MLA on August 29, 2013, 01:41:54 PM
Gross

For once, we agree.

We agree on more than you are willing to admit.  It conflicts with your persona of unlimited outrage at everything you see, but inside you and I have commonality.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: RageBeoulve on August 29, 2013, 01:45:00 PM
Gross

For once, we agree.

We agree on more than you are willing to admit.  It conflicts with your persona of unlimited outrage at everything you see, but inside you and I have commonality.

Again, I am completely mystified what you are saying. What -are- you saying? ???
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: MLA on August 29, 2013, 01:49:36 PM
 ;)
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: RageBeoulve on August 29, 2013, 01:53:34 PM
;)

(http://i.qkme.me/3r66jx.jpg)
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: MLA on August 29, 2013, 01:55:06 PM
You don't make friends easy, do you?  :-\
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: RageBeoulve on August 29, 2013, 01:55:59 PM
You don't make friends easy, do you?  :-\

OH MY GOD WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!


*runs through the door, screaming*
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: BadgerTom on August 29, 2013, 03:49:40 PM
Are you kidding Possum!? Rage's really friendly!

he has OVER 9000 friends!
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Pyraxis on August 29, 2013, 06:20:25 PM
He only yells at us because he luuuurves us.  :grouphug:
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: RageBeoulve on August 29, 2013, 06:21:55 PM
He only yells at us because he luuuurves us.  :grouphug:

Well shit. Thats right.  :)
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Semicolon on August 29, 2013, 06:33:15 PM
I was expecting this monogamy talk from Americans, but I thought Europeans were a little less puritanical when it came to sex.  A little more open minded?

Sara had seven other lovers though one at a time.

Who is Sara?

He only yells at us because he luuuurves us.  :grouphug:

Well shit. Thats right.  :)

Rage isn't >:D, Possum. He's just straightforward. ;)
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Pyraxis on August 29, 2013, 06:57:05 PM
Pyraxis loves to be  >:D.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Jack on August 29, 2013, 06:59:30 PM
Jack approves of Pyraxis' third person.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: RageBeoulve on August 29, 2013, 07:00:10 PM
Rage loves to DEFEAT EVILDOERS.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 29, 2013, 07:17:12 PM
Rage loves to DEFEAT EVILDOERS.
chanelling G. Dub Bush?
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: RageBeoulve on August 29, 2013, 07:20:05 PM
Rage loves to DEFEAT EVILDOERS.
chanelling G. Dub Bush?

(https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSCvGTXH2NW_0zwvQI4z-3bFBEPIPT6ZhXi7AVlLPTda9puYzjh)
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Pyraxis on August 29, 2013, 09:40:18 PM
Jack approves of Pyraxis' third person.

Pyraxis' third person is flattered.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: Jack on August 30, 2013, 04:56:19 PM
Jack approves of Pyraxis' third person.

Pyraxis' third person is flattered.
:laugh:
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: McGiver on August 30, 2013, 09:42:33 PM
:kapkao:
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: 'andersom' on August 31, 2013, 04:21:12 AM
Honestly the older I get the more I envy CBC.

I could have avoided a hell of a lot of stress in life by keeping my legs crossed. :LOL:
condoms. The pill. Anal.

I was talking about the inlaws and the father, not the kid. He's the least of my troubles. ;)
:laugh:
I knew this would be your answer. IQ, you rock.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: 'andersom' on August 31, 2013, 04:30:26 AM
Partner with another fuck buddie?


hypothetically:

Would not be able to stop the partner, I guess. Hope the partner would be having safe sex. Would insist on safe sex then myself too. There is no stopping a partner from falling in love, or being attracted. Would it work in a relationship? No idea, would depend on how deep the other relationship would grow, I guess, and on how it would affect the relationship.

I don't see myself capable of having sexual relationships with more than one person at a time. Sex, somehow is connected with bonding for me. And having more than one significant other would blow my mind off. Not enough social skills for that. Would do my brains in. At the moment life is socially demanding enough without a partner.

A friend I used to have was a bigamist. Worked well for years. Two kids with the two women too. The women had no problems with this. Practical reasons was why one of the women told her partner to choose just one family to live with. Both women knew their partner was one who would have flings where ever he went. So, yes, it is possible. For the really socially talented, I guess.
Title: Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
Post by: "couldbecousin" on August 31, 2013, 05:29:56 AM
  I wouldn't stay with such a partner.  I don't share.  :M :P