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If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« on: August 28, 2013, 09:09:44 PM »
Would you join the mix or be disgusted by the prospect?
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #1 on: August 28, 2013, 09:16:49 PM »
I would take the be disgusted option McJ.

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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #2 on: August 28, 2013, 09:17:49 PM »
What if all the "fuck buddies" he chose were pretty much disgusting?

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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #3 on: August 28, 2013, 09:18:11 PM »
What if was a same sex partner?
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #4 on: August 29, 2013, 04:23:34 AM »
Two of the reasons I chose to marry PA is that I was sure he wouldn't screw around on me or sexually abuse a child.  And yes, I know nothing is a certainty.  These were important qualities for me. 
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #5 on: August 29, 2013, 04:42:00 AM »
What if was a same sex partner?
No. Any woman that wants to fuck ANYONE else is not mine. YMMV.

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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #6 on: August 29, 2013, 04:47:48 AM »
What if was a same sex partner?
No. Any woman that wants to fuck ANYONE else is not mine. YMMV.

sounds fair, I agree
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #7 on: August 29, 2013, 05:13:44 AM »
He has one already.  His wife.   :o
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #8 on: August 29, 2013, 06:29:59 AM »
I was expecting this monogamy talk from Americans, but I thought Europeans were a little less puritanical when it came to sex.  A little more open minded?
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #9 on: August 29, 2013, 06:40:35 AM »
I do not have any real problems with people deciding mutually for menage a trios to spice things up or in uncommitted relationships or in pre-decided multi-partnered arrangements. But that is not the same as saying "We would you cop to that, yourself?"
To me it is like saying, "So you have no problem with people being gay, right?" Nope. "Well then would you screw a bloke?" Nope.
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #10 on: August 29, 2013, 06:57:50 AM »
From the little I've seen, when one member of a couple gets really close to someone else, that someone else often has some opposite traits to the partner and they really don't get along. I've speculated that it's because the second person is filling whatever gaps in their life that the partner can't fill. If they can't get along out of bed, I don't see it being likely improved by getting in bed.
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #11 on: August 29, 2013, 07:18:31 AM »
From the little I've seen, when one member of a couple gets really close to someone else, that someone else often has some opposite traits to the partner and they really don't get along. I've speculated that it's because the second person is filling whatever gaps in their life that the partner can't fill. If they can't get along out of bed, I don't see it being likely improved by getting in bed.
you are probably right. But it can be lots of fun.
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #12 on: August 29, 2013, 07:20:32 AM »
I do not have any real problems with people deciding mutually for menage a trios to spice things up or in uncommitted relationships or in pre-decided multi-partnered arrangements. But that is not the same as saying "We would you cop to that, yourself?"
To me it is like saying, "So you have no problem with people being gay, right?" Nope. "Well then would you screw a bloke?" Nope.
i think that being gay is an attraction to the same sex.  Having sex with another bloke, might just be having sex with another bloke. 
I wouldn't rule it out.
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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #13 on: August 29, 2013, 08:15:33 AM »
Honestly the older I get the more I envy CBC.

I could have avoided a hell of a lot of stress in life by keeping my legs crossed. :LOL:

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Re: If your partner found another fuck buddy....
« Reply #14 on: August 29, 2013, 08:20:29 AM »
Honestly the older I get the more I envy CBC.

I could have avoided a hell of a lot of stress in life by keeping my legs crossed. :LOL:
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