OK, I read the thread on AFF and the blog on Aspie web, but I was unable to see the ZOMG link.
I liked the letter you sent and I could find no problem at all with it.
Anbuend, of course, gave good advice. I really like her a lot.
I can't believe he actually took his own website down because of what you said in that thread.
The only thing that I can figure, since I don't know him, is that he must have been under a lot of stress because of the Autism Squeaks situation and he took it out on you because you were the closest "safe" target. You know, kind of like when your kid is really good for his teacher in kindergarten, but takes his frustration out on his parents when he gets home because he has to let off steam
somewhere?