sopho, are you a champion for the weak?
meaning: do you feel the need to defend them, or do you think that it would be better to give them the tools so that they can defend themselves?
maybe she defends people she cares about, period.
it was an honest question. and if you are trying to make the other discussion spill over to this thread, fine.
all i am saying is that it was pretty random how she broached the subject. shortly after she made claims of making a pity party.
my job, nay, my duty is to challenge people to be honest. she is only 15 and look at how she conducts her life.
hey, i have a great idea, lets just teach her that if she wants attention then go get drugged up with some guy, have sex and call it rape in the morning.
just seemed like she was a little to open about a subject, and brought it up conveniently and out of the blue for it not to be questioned.
willow, i am sorry that you had to live through this experience yourself. i hope the guy got what was coming to him for violating you like that.
i see just a different presentation in how the two of you chose to share your experience.
i will call a man on any bullshit that i smell. and what i smelled from her was crap.
I think she was being honest when she said that the man raped her. Just because she snuck out of the house and drank his vodka did not give him the right to take advantage of her.
I know she said she
could move, but she corrected her typo in a subsequent post. She meant that she
couldn't move.
I think that you were acting like a jerk to say that you didn't believe that she was raped. I believe that she was.
That's just my two cents worth. Call me a feminazi if you want to.