I don't think that a NPD person would have that degree of insight into themselves that Lucifer shows.
I don't know. I strongly suspect it of myself.
My self-dx puts me almost as NPD as aspie.
She said: vetivert says: what she gets wrong is to confuse "understanding" with "tolerant", "merciful", "sympathetic", "altruistic" and "kind hearted"
vetivert says: i am none of those
She has never made a secret of any of this, as far as I know. She can be kind to people sometimes, but she says that this does not make her a kind person.
Again, I'd rather suspect that she takes PRIDE in those qualities,
and doesn't see it as a flaw to lack them. Maybe I'm reading
NPD incorrectly, but do Danlo or Eamonn strike you as people
who would claim these traits?