Yeah, I think guys can be brutal to each other in a very base way. It's not just women who get brutalized by guys, mentally & physically. Bad stuff. 
Got another question. Kosmo, in which European city would you most like to live, and why??
South of France; Marseille i would guess, mainly for the gatronomy.
I imagine I would hang around cafes all day drinking fine wines and eating Bouillabaisse, generally just watching the world go by.
I've never actually been there though. I may spend a few days there this year, i could do with a holiday.
Nothing quite like traveling alone, is there? A sense of total freedom, weightlessness almost. I remember feeling that way in the Frankfurt airport once, waiting for a connecting flight to Nuernberg. I felt so light, almost as though I didn't exist. For a few hours, totally cut off from where I'd been and where I was going. Just watching people and enjoying the fact that I didn't really have to be involved. But then I went and learned the damn language, and now I'm not able to tune it out anymore.
Which city in Europe did you dislike most, a place to which you'd never want to return?
was it something I said?