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Offline Eclair

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1125 on: July 08, 2007, 02:30:46 AM »
Quote from: I Love Seány on July 08, 2007, 02:27:41 AM
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If there was a cure for our condition, would you want your AS to be cured?
At this precise moment.  No.
But when I get overwhelmed with not being able to express my self. Yes.

TRAITOR!!!

*sirens go off*

get the traitor!!!

Who's the traitor?  Me?

If so, why?
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Offline Natalia Evans

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1126 on: July 08, 2007, 02:40:33 AM »
You want your AS to be cured. Lot of aspies and auties are foresquare against having theirs cured.
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1127 on: July 08, 2007, 02:46:15 AM »
defo. we have problems because the world is screwed up, not because we are screwed up. if you want your problems to go away, wish the world different. you are an aspie for a reason. and that's to change the world into something better. FUCK CURING AUTISM WE NEED TO CURE THE NTs!!! :party:

CURE NT NOW!
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1128 on: July 08, 2007, 02:51:31 AM »
Quote from: Eclair on July 08, 2007, 02:30:46 AM
Quote from: I Love Seány on July 08, 2007, 02:27:41 AM
Quote from: Eclair on July 06, 2007, 05:47:53 PM
Quote from: Spokane Girl on July 06, 2007, 02:11:42 PM
If there was a cure for our condition, would you want your AS to be cured?
At this precise moment.  No.
But when I get overwhelmed with not being able to express my self. Yes.

TRAITOR!!!

*sirens go off*

get the traitor!!!

Who's the traitor?  Me?

If so, why?

I'm still allowed to get frustrated that I can't deal with some emotional relationships and that I have let a lot of people down who probably loved me more than I could ever show them.
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1129 on: July 08, 2007, 02:56:14 AM »
oh bah. don't you think i regret loads of crap? being an aspie in this world has been pretty fuckin hellish. but it's not all autisms fault. it's because the world is so fucked up.

and why do you feel guilty for being yourself? if someone loves you and you don't love them, um, that's the way the cookie crumbles.
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"I think everybody has an asshole component to their personality. It's just a matter of how much you indulge it. Those who do it often form a habit. So like any addiction, you have to learn to overcome it."
~Lord Phlexor

"Sometimes stepping on one's own dick is a memorable learning experience."
~PPK

"We are all the sum of our tears. Too little and the ground is not fertile and nothing can grow there; too much, the best of us is washed away."
~Gkar

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1130 on: July 08, 2007, 02:58:58 AM »
I let both my boyfriends down. I couldn't give them what they wanted.
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1131 on: July 08, 2007, 02:59:22 AM »
She didn't say she didn't love them, milla.
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1132 on: July 08, 2007, 03:04:53 AM »
Quote from: I Love Seány on July 08, 2007, 02:56:14 AM
oh bah. don't you think i regret loads of crap? being an aspie in this world has been pretty fuckin hellish. but it's not all autisms fault. it's because the world is so fucked up.
and why do you feel guilty for being yourself? if someone loves you and you don't love them, um, that's the way the cookie crumbles.

Not in my case specifically.  No, I don't feel guilty about being myself and I don't have any regrets.  I do however feel sad that times in my life that could have been more meaningful for the other person have been let down by my inability to show them how much I cared.  It's not a regret as such, but a sadness that I may have hurt people unintentionally.  I think most people with AS would relate to feeling sad about unintentionally hurting the innocent.
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1133 on: July 08, 2007, 03:06:09 AM »
well of course but that's no reason to wish for a cure. everyone's hurt someone.
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1134 on: July 08, 2007, 03:06:42 AM »
If you ever travel to the USA, would you visit Spokane?
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1135 on: July 08, 2007, 03:12:23 AM »
Quote from: Eclair on July 06, 2007, 05:47:53 PM
Quote from: Spokane Girl on July 06, 2007, 02:11:42 PM
If there was a cure for our condition, would you want your AS to be cured?
At this precise moment.  No.
But when I get overwhelmed with not being able to express my self. Yes.  I hate that feeling and I hate sensory overload because the same thing can happen - I just shut down.  BUT, in saying that, I have had a reasonably happy life, despite AS, so that's better than 70% of most people I think.

ILS, I do believe this was my initial answer.  And that's OK.  It's just how I feel sometimes.  Driven by frustration.  As per my last sentence, I do believe that I have had a reasonably happy life, thanks in some part to AS, so I feel better off than 70% of people.  If my inability to communicate has fucked up some of my more meaningful relationships, I guess it's ok, because at the end of the day, I can live with being by myself and my intelligence has afforded me a life not many get a chance to experience.

I answered SG's question, as in, yes, there are times I get frustrated and I wish I didn't have it.  Much like guys wish sometimes they weren't testosterone driven, but that doesn't mean they'd chop off their cock for a minute.
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1136 on: July 08, 2007, 03:14:25 AM »
i know, i was just joking about the traitor thing. ::)
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"I think everybody has an asshole component to their personality. It's just a matter of how much you indulge it. Those who do it often form a habit. So like any addiction, you have to learn to overcome it."
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~PPK

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~Gkar

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Offline Natalia Evans

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1137 on: July 08, 2007, 03:21:25 AM »
You ignoring my Spokane question. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1138 on: July 08, 2007, 03:23:06 AM »
Quote from: Spokane Girl on July 08, 2007, 03:21:25 AM
You ignoring my Spokane question. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

What is Spokane?
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #1139 on: July 08, 2007, 03:26:22 AM »
It's a city. It's where Benny & Joon were filmed. I thought you knew what Spokane was. You have seen pictures of it and told me I might find places in your country that is more interesting than the B&J town. You even said you never been there.


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