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5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« on: August 22, 2020, 10:45:40 AM »
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #1 on: March 13, 2023, 01:54:54 PM »
A lot of people have childhood trauma issues and people pleasing is one of them. I used to people please but then I realized I needed to learn how to love myself. Once I figured that out I never people pleased again
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #2 on: April 16, 2024, 01:05:36 PM »
I still have issues... only I'm making progress in therapy for it
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #3 on: April 16, 2024, 06:58:44 PM »
I don't mind being a people pleaser, but then again I don't really know that many people.  :lol1:
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #4 on: April 16, 2024, 07:25:49 PM »
Quote from: Gopher Gary on April 16, 2024, 06:58:44 PM
I don't mind being a people pleaser, but then again I don't really know that many people.  :lol1:

Apparently throughout my life, I knew too many people.... didn't matter if they were in the Windy City, Pakistan, or even KC itself. There's always a connection with my family somewhere.
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #5 on: April 16, 2024, 07:26:28 PM »
Quote from: Genesis on April 16, 2024, 07:25:49 PM
Quote from: Gopher Gary on April 16, 2024, 06:58:44 PM
I don't mind being a people pleaser, but then again I don't really know that many people.  :lol1:

Apparently throughout my life, I knew too many people.... didn't matter if they were in the Windy City, Pakistan, or even KC itself. There's always a connection with my family somewhere.

I tried being a people pleaser as well... and it didn't get me anywhere
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #6 on: April 16, 2024, 07:41:52 PM »
I'll people please if it pleases me, so in a way I'm putting myself first. I used to be very anxious about pleasing other people but over time that has reduced.
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #7 on: April 16, 2024, 07:47:32 PM »
I usually don't like putting myself first :(

Other times, I am reminded that I need to do so if someone and/or something is making me rather uncomfortable.
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #8 on: May 28, 2024, 07:11:08 PM »
I would of felt better if I finished what I started with college :(
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #9 on: May 28, 2024, 08:15:12 PM »
^ I didn't finish Programming at college, so I sort of know where you're coming from.

What did you study there?
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #10 on: Yesterday at 04:27:06 PM »
Quote from: renaeden on May 28, 2024, 08:15:12 PM
^ I didn't finish Programming at college, so I sort of know where you're coming from.

What did you study there?

Fine Arts (Oil Painting) and Political Science
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #11 on: Yesterday at 05:24:26 PM »
Two very different subjects. Political Science would have been over my head.
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Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
« Reply #12 on: Yesterday at 07:30:48 PM »
Quote from: renaeden on Yesterday at 05:24:26 PM
Two very different subjects. Political Science would have been over my head.

Oil Painting was something that helped me process what I saw in front of me or what was in my head...

Political Science has components to Politics and History in it, doesn't matter if it happened to be international, or classes like American Civilization which has some key points to International Perspectives.

My writing has been shaped a little bit from what I can recall with Art, and Politics... only in my first novel it's autistic politics.
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