I am always sceptical to pedophilia accusations, because there's so much weird gray zone there. Some will consider you a pedophile for fucking a 17 year old.
17 isn't "a kid"
16 isn't a kid either.
Hell, I wouldn't even call someone a pedophile for pushing it to 13 *alert alert, I know* I'm just saying, there's a big difference in being a horny bastard with a young teen on his lap, and a total freako who gets a hardon from kindergardeners.
It's like "rape" *alert alert* when it gets synonymized with "statuatory rape". Someone who commited "statuatory rape" is NOT someone who forced himself onto someone who were struggling against, and ruined their life.
I think a lot of this comes from lots of weird insecurities in society.