I don't want to fight you Meadow.
Not only, because I'm not really the fighting type, also because I don't know you. Have no clue who you are. I skip 90% or more of WP stuff, so, only got to see about you when you started to not relate to WP.
And, I kind of have the need to "get" a pattern in people. Just can't get your pattern. Lots of people have different sides to who they are, but somehow there is a pattern that connects the different sides. With you, they still are like loose fragments for me.
There is the gentle Meadow. Helpful, giving advice, eye for personal detail, almost too kind, gentle sense of humour too.
There is the fierce Meadow, who will be vehement against theft, defending the victim, and attacking the thief. It's clear, it is fierce, it has a strong sense of fairness.
There is the Meadow reacting on words like lie and rape. Somehow the sense of reason seems to vanish completely from those posts. Rape becomes both an accusation, and a punishment, based on experiences. You lash out way too fierce towards people. You seem to be in blind fury there, not able to see at all.
These are at least three fragments I see. All of them are you, and I think they are really you. But, I can't see the pattern connecting them. There is no interaction between the different types of posts either. The only thing that connects them for me is the name of the poster.
I don't know how that is for you. I can speculate a lot of things, but I won't. This is what I see. I have no idea about Meadow. So, I have no reason to fight you. I see posts of you I like, there are posts of you I dislike a lot.
If being on I2 helps you in your daily life, do stay. If it doesn't, leave, for your sake.