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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3555 on: April 23, 2013, 06:52:31 PM »
No,  i don't think it is needed. 

Unless i fancy a night out - then it's a free babysitter  :zoinks:
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3556 on: April 23, 2013, 11:23:47 PM »
Today, not much, yet. Yesterday, I had a meeting from hell.
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3557 on: April 24, 2013, 01:11:15 AM »
Today, not much, yet. Yesterday, I had a meeting from hell.

Did you see Thatcher?
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3558 on: April 24, 2013, 01:23:59 AM »
Today, not much, yet. Yesterday, I had a meeting from hell.

Did you see Thatcher?

Oh Gawd. Zombie Thatcher.... :hide:
Can't you guys even just imagine it?

Forget practicality, or your experience....can you just....imagine?

It's there. It always was.

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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3559 on: April 24, 2013, 10:23:59 AM »
I went to see the school i have in mind for the urchin.  He can have a place there, but not until September!


I liked the statement of purpose doc
http://www.skiltsschool.net/images/stories/Statement_of_Purpose__November_2012_Governor_Approved.pdf

I wonder how it compares with folks in other countries?

The writing is good.

What was your impression, when you went there?
What is the reason it is boys only? Tradition?

September is soon, in two months summer holiday will start. And after that, it is almost September.
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3560 on: April 24, 2013, 02:25:11 PM »
Insulated a basement ceiling of a house being renovated
Drove up to my father's condo feed his cat and picked up the mail
Dropped stuff off for my father  at the old folks rehab place
Drove almost an hour home
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3561 on: April 24, 2013, 04:11:42 PM »
I went to see the school i have in mind for the urchin.  He can have a place there, but not until September!


I liked the statement of purpose doc
http://www.skiltsschool.net/images/stories/Statement_of_Purpose__November_2012_Governor_Approved.pdf

I wonder how it compares with folks in other countries?

The writing is good.

What was your impression, when you went there?
What is the reason it is boys only? Tradition?

September is soon, in two months summer holiday will start. And after that, it is almost September.

Thanks for looking at link Hyke.  They said they got fewer and fewer requests for girls so they eventually made use of the empty girls facilities.  They have a 'sister school' that is mixed and about 5 miles away.

My impression was  OMG  OMFG sixty urchin's  (wonders what is the collective noun for urchins)   I think the urchin has gotten used to being the odd one out,  the naughty boy, the only one who ends up in the headmasters office,  the one in trouble for running in the corridor,  the one who is always in trouble for not using his 'classroom voice'  -  well here is not going to be the odd one out.  They all struggle with behaviour.  Some have autism, adhd etc and some don't have a dx.   

The boys seemed really happy.  They are taught in groups of eight and banded together due to ability rather than age. There are three staff to every group of eight.  I think he will cope with this.  Lack of girls and bell ringing on pigtails should help him also. :zoinks:
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3562 on: April 24, 2013, 04:37:29 PM »
I went to see the school i have in mind for the urchin.  He can have a place there, but not until September!


I liked the statement of purpose doc
http://www.skiltsschool.net/images/stories/Statement_of_Purpose__November_2012_Governor_Approved.pdf

I wonder how it compares with folks in other countries?

The writing is good.

What was your impression, when you went there?
What is the reason it is boys only? Tradition?

September is soon, in two months summer holiday will start. And after that, it is almost September.

Thanks for looking at link Hyke.  They said they got fewer and fewer requests for girls so they eventually made use of the empty girls facilities.  They have a 'sister school' that is mixed and about 5 miles away.

My impression was  OMG  OMFG sixty urchin's  (wonders what is the collective noun for urchins)   I think the urchin has gotten used to being the odd one out,  the naughty boy, the only one who ends up in the headmasters office,  the one in trouble for running in the corridor,  the one who is always in trouble for not using his 'classroom voice'  -  well here is not going to be the odd one out.  They all struggle with behaviour.  Some have autism, adhd etc and some don't have a dx.   

The boys seemed really happy.  They are taught in groups of eight and banded together due to ability rather than age. There are three staff to every group of eight.  I think he will cope with this.  Lack of girls and bell ringing on pigtails should help him also. :zoinks:

Noticed the enormous list of staff for a 72 kids school. Small groups can be great, and, having more than one teacher on a group will avoid personal likes and dislikes of a teacher and pupil to be all there is. There will be more teachers.

How did they treat you, as the parent? Where you seen as an expert on your kid? Were you seen as someone who will be of vital importance in the life of the urchin? I noticed school encouraged contact with parents for kids that stay overnight. That's a good thing imo. A school that is the right place for your kid will so change the life of your kid, and of yourself for the better.
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3563 on: April 24, 2013, 04:41:43 PM »
Nothing productive, except walk my dog.
Can't you guys even just imagine it?

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It's there. It always was.

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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3564 on: April 24, 2013, 06:14:15 PM »
I went to see the school i have in mind for the urchin.  He can have a place there, but not until September!


I liked the statement of purpose doc
http://www.skiltsschool.net/images/stories/Statement_of_Purpose__November_2012_Governor_Approved.pdf

I wonder how it compares with folks in other countries?

The writing is good.

What was your impression, when you went there?
What is the reason it is boys only? Tradition?

September is soon, in two months summer holiday will start. And after that, it is almost September.

Thanks for looking at link Hyke.  They said they got fewer and fewer requests for girls so they eventually made use of the empty girls facilities.  They have a 'sister school' that is mixed and about 5 miles away.

My impression was  OMG  OMFG sixty urchin's  (wonders what is the collective noun for urchins)   I think the urchin has gotten used to being the odd one out,  the naughty boy, the only one who ends up in the headmasters office,  the one in trouble for running in the corridor,  the one who is always in trouble for not using his 'classroom voice'  -  well here is not going to be the odd one out.  They all struggle with behaviour.  Some have autism, adhd etc and some don't have a dx.   

The boys seemed really happy.  They are taught in groups of eight and banded together due to ability rather than age. There are three staff to every group of eight.  I think he will cope with this.  Lack of girls and bell ringing on pigtails should help him also. :zoinks:

Noticed the enormous list of staff for a 72 kids school. Small groups can be great, and, having more than one teacher on a group will avoid personal likes and dislikes of a teacher and pupil to be all there is. There will be more teachers.

How did they treat you, as the parent? Where you seen as an expert on your kid? Were you seen as someone who will be of vital importance in the life of the urchin? I noticed school encouraged contact with parents for kids that stay overnight. That's a good thing imo. A school that is the right place for your kid will so change the life of your kid, and of yourself for the better.

I was given a guided tour by the Parent Liason Advisor who is employed by them full time.  She was lovely, spent an hour and a half with me.  She said it was important that we share strategies so that what goes on at school is similar to home.  She keeps regular contact and was saying every kid is so different that they keep an open mind and if there is something we do at home that works or helps then they will do same.  I noticed she had a good rapore with the kids.  They all acknowledged her by her first name.  One kid came up and high fived us both.  She said reesults are usually much better if home and school work together.  Not always possible as some aren't interested and some kids are with foster carers.   She had also been to see the urchin in his current setting and she thinks they can do better.

I didn't really speak to the teachers.  I just went round the classrooms with her observing the lessons.  All the teachers were engrossed in what they were doing and only briefly stopped to say hi.  That big long list of staff is another reason i want him to go there.  Half of them are male.  Unusual as usually females dominate teaching in that age group.  I think it is just what the urchin needs.  His Dad is very calm and laid back and the urchin needs more male role models i think.  On the way back to the office i observed the deputy head calming down one of the younger ones who was crying and had kicked the chair.  I heard him say to the boy  "I can assure you that nothing, and i mean nothing that you have done is so terrible or so bad that we can't talk about it"  I liked this.
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3565 on: April 24, 2013, 06:29:23 PM »
I went to see the school i have in mind for the urchin.  He can have a place there, but not until September!


I liked the statement of purpose doc
http://www.skiltsschool.net/images/stories/Statement_of_Purpose__November_2012_Governor_Approved.pdf

I wonder how it compares with folks in other countries?

The writing is good.

What was your impression, when you went there?
What is the reason it is boys only? Tradition?

September is soon, in two months summer holiday will start. And after that, it is almost September.

Thanks for looking at link Hyke.  They said they got fewer and fewer requests for girls so they eventually made use of the empty girls facilities.  They have a 'sister school' that is mixed and about 5 miles away.

My impression was  OMG  OMFG sixty urchin's  (wonders what is the collective noun for urchins)   I think the urchin has gotten used to being the odd one out,  the naughty boy, the only one who ends up in the headmasters office,  the one in trouble for running in the corridor,  the one who is always in trouble for not using his 'classroom voice'  -  well here is not going to be the odd one out.  They all struggle with behaviour.  Some have autism, adhd etc and some don't have a dx.   

The boys seemed really happy.  They are taught in groups of eight and banded together due to ability rather than age. There are three staff to every group of eight.  I think he will cope with this.  Lack of girls and bell ringing on pigtails should help him also. :zoinks:

Noticed the enormous list of staff for a 72 kids school. Small groups can be great, and, having more than one teacher on a group will avoid personal likes and dislikes of a teacher and pupil to be all there is. There will be more teachers.

How did they treat you, as the parent? Where you seen as an expert on your kid? Were you seen as someone who will be of vital importance in the life of the urchin? I noticed school encouraged contact with parents for kids that stay overnight. That's a good thing imo. A school that is the right place for your kid will so change the life of your kid, and of yourself for the better.

I was given a guided tour by the Parent Liason Advisor who is employed by them full time.  She was lovely, spent an hour and a half with me.  She said it was important that we share strategies so that what goes on at school is similar to home.  She keeps regular contact and was saying every kid is so different that they keep an open mind and if there is something we do at home that works or helps then they will do same.  I noticed she had a good rapore with the kids.  They all acknowledged her by her first name.  One kid came up and high fived us both.  She said reesults are usually much better if home and school work together.  Not always possible as some aren't interested and some kids are with foster carers.   She had also been to see the urchin in his current setting and she thinks they can do better.

I didn't really speak to the teachers.  I just went round the classrooms with her observing the lessons.  All the teachers were engrossed in what they were doing and only briefly stopped to say hi.  That big long list of staff is another reason i want him to go there.  Half of them are male.  Unusual as usually females dominate teaching in that age group.  I think it is just what the urchin needs.  His Dad is very calm and laid back and the urchin needs more male role models i think.  On the way back to the office i observed the deputy head calming down one of the younger ones who was crying and had kicked the chair.  I heard him say to the boy  "I can assure you that nothing, and i mean nothing that you have done is so terrible or so bad that we can't talk about it"  I liked this.

Sounds like a gem of a facility. Keep us updated on how it goes (when school starts again).
Can't you guys even just imagine it?

Forget practicality, or your experience....can you just....imagine?

It's there. It always was.

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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3566 on: April 24, 2013, 06:47:06 PM »
Worked on making a prop turkey. It is coming out nicely.
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3567 on: April 24, 2013, 07:15:08 PM »
Worked on making a prop turkey. It is coming out nicely.

  Is it edible?  :devour:   I will be happy to eat the prop turkey for you.
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3568 on: April 25, 2013, 07:38:58 AM »
Cup of tea, two kaiserbrötchen, blahiah.. but but.. I also cleaned all the windows downstairs and did a (clothes) laundry. Was thinking of buying a cordless drill/screw machine this afternoon, there was a Makita on sale, but found out (via teh netz) the thing don't have Li-ion batteries but Ni-Cd ones.. and ja, decided to wait a bit.
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Re: What have you done today? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3569 on: April 25, 2013, 01:02:32 PM »
Picked up materials
Went to a house I was supposed to work on and no one was there
Waited an hour and a half to get in but the house was at the beach so I went for a walk
Worked
Went to the bank
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