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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1560 on: December 16, 2011, 07:21:06 AM »
Hmm.
These feelings, they are not platonic.
I didn't think they'd happen this quickly.

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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1561 on: December 16, 2011, 07:32:31 AM »
Hmm.
These feelings, they are not platonic.
I didn't think they'd happen this quickly.

Your feelings or his?

I asked him if he was stringing anyone along again and he said no.

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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1562 on: December 16, 2011, 07:35:53 AM »
Hmm.
These feelings, they are not platonic.
I didn't think they'd happen this quickly.

Your feelings or his?

I asked him if he was stringing anyone along again and he said no.

Mine.
His feelings as communicated to me are "I'm glad you're my friend and I love you" plus about 10 million apologies every day for what happened last year.
But anyways, I'm not pining for romance or panicking that he'll disappear, so it's all good.
The only time he mentioned romance was to say "I wish I'd been with you back then", and he specified that he was speaking of the past.
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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1563 on: December 16, 2011, 07:46:38 AM »
Hmm.
These feelings, they are not platonic.
I didn't think they'd happen this quickly.

Your feelings or his?

I asked him if he was stringing anyone along again and he said no.

Mine.
His feelings as communicated to me are "I'm glad you're my friend and I love you" plus about 10 million apologies every day for what happened last year.
But anyways, I'm not pining for romance or panicking that he'll disappear, so it's all good.
The only time he mentioned romance was to say "I wish I'd been with you back then", and he specified that he was speaking of the past.

 :orly: He said similar to me (wished he was devoted to me while we were together but wasn't due to still being devoted to "her").

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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1564 on: December 16, 2011, 07:49:51 AM »
Hmm.
These feelings, they are not platonic.
I didn't think they'd happen this quickly.

Your feelings or his?

I asked him if he was stringing anyone along again and he said no.

Mine.
His feelings as communicated to me are "I'm glad you're my friend and I love you" plus about 10 million apologies every day for what happened last year.
But anyways, I'm not pining for romance or panicking that he'll disappear, so it's all good.
The only time he mentioned romance was to say "I wish I'd been with you back then", and he specified that he was speaking of the past.

 :orly: He said similar to me (wished he was devoted to me while we were together but wasn't due to still being devoted to "her").

He has said to me that he wishes things had gone differently between you two.
I think at the moment he's regretting being with her rather than anyone else.
I don't really want a relationship with him at the moment despite my feelings: I'm still cautious regarding what happened last year, he's still hurting, and anything romantic from him now would, despite the pre-existing friendship, most likely be a rebound thing.

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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1565 on: December 16, 2011, 08:05:11 AM »
Is his depression getting better?

I am glad he has you as friends. :)
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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1566 on: December 16, 2011, 08:14:55 AM »
He's up and down. Mostly down.

It wasn't any conscious effort on his part to get me feeling this way, and he's done nothing that I could construe as stringing me along.
It's just... all the old familiarity coming back, I guess.

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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1567 on: December 16, 2011, 08:27:36 AM »
He's up and down. Mostly down.

It wasn't any conscious effort on his part to get me feeling this way, and he's done nothing that I could construe as stringing me along.
It's just... all the old familiarity coming back, I guess.
That is understandable given that you genuinely do like him.
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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1568 on: December 16, 2011, 09:06:50 AM »
He's up and down. Mostly down.

It wasn't any conscious effort on his part to get me feeling this way, and he's done nothing that I could construe as stringing me along.
It's just... all the old familiarity coming back, I guess.
That is understandable given that you genuinely do like him.

Yeah, and the friendship is the basis for my feelings.

Well, I bit the bullet and told him; made sure to let him know that I like the way things are now and don't want them to change for a long time.

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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1569 on: December 16, 2011, 10:10:32 AM »
ffs...

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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1570 on: December 16, 2011, 01:00:05 PM »
Thinking about a database I configured today.
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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1571 on: December 16, 2011, 01:03:27 PM »
My united fleece + the warmer coat a bought today is a lot better in this weather

My nana has been nagging me for weeks to get a "winter coat"

Even when my mate came round the other week, she was nagging me about it then too. very embarrassing lol

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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1572 on: December 17, 2011, 11:15:08 AM »
My united fleece + the warmer coat a bought today is a lot better in this weather

My nana has been nagging me for weeks to get a "winter coat"

Even when my mate came round the other week, she was nagging me about it then too. very embarrassing lol

 That's what nanas and mothers do, they nag you to put on a warm coat!
 My mother used to say in winter, "You are not leaving this house without a hat!"  :laugh:
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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1573 on: December 17, 2011, 01:08:51 PM »
Why must the month of December test one's sanity?
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Re: Post what you are thinking right now, part two
« Reply #1574 on: December 17, 2011, 01:14:57 PM »
Why must the month of December test one's sanity?

 For me the summer months are the most trying!   :melt:
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