^^^ as bad as he was, he still sounds better than the losers that my sister marries. ![Roll Eyes ::)](http://www.intensitysquared.com/Smileys/default/rolleyes.gif)
that's the glossed over version. The details I won't put out there, but suffice to say, I need to get myself into a few years of therapy to get through the damage he's done, both to me and the kids.
At least he was ambitous and had a decent job.
My sister's first husband got caught embezzling money from his first job. He had to work cash under the table after that. Even then, he spent half his pay up his nose.
Her second husband, she met in the aftermath of the '94 Northridge earthquake. He was 38 and living with his mom, and didn't have a job. My sister figured that this would be someone good to have 3 kids with.
![Roll Eyes ::)](http://www.intensitysquared.com/Smileys/default/rolleyes.gif)