... also listening to my two kids stim each other.
How do they do that?
... impossible to describe, but they "play" on each others sensitivities. It is very loud, kind of rough. They both end up crying, sometimes. I won't interfere, unless it gets really out of hand or ttoo much time goes by.
I would rather allow them to learn from lightly hurting each other than to attempt to force some kind of standard on them that they can not understand, anyway.
It's a balancing act and they learn something each time.
My wife totally freaks when she sees this, but I let them go at it. They NEED THISS!!
BTW, WTF are you doing up so early? you should still be asleep!