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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #75 on: October 17, 2008, 07:55:20 AM »
Aren't most "officially" DX'ed as PDD-NOS, then with the unofficial AS or HFA or whatever which is the real DX?

Don't know. I'm "officially" dx'd AS.

AS is an official dx in the DSM, but I think before the TR version, the AS criteria were a bit on the vague side so many got PDD-NOS.
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #76 on: October 17, 2008, 09:48:15 AM »
Socialising drains me.

I went to a funeral last week of a family member, then the people came back to the house. I had to go to sleep in my room because I couldn't cope with the crowds and small talk.

My typical response to family gatherings is to go into a dark, empty room and lie down with a pillow over my head. I can usually only last a few minutes before I have to get out. I don't socialize at work gatherings and only do a small amount of talking with a few coworkers on a normal day. Other than that, the only human interaction I really have is with my kids. All that my wife ever does is bitch me out about not doing stuff her way, so I learned to tune her out.

Do I get a headache? Sometimes, but usually more from my light sensitivity than the actual act of socializing. I will get a headache when I have to endure complete and utter ignorance, which my mind has trouble processing.
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #77 on: October 17, 2008, 10:51:11 AM »
Aren't most "officially" DX'ed as PDD-NOS, then with the unofficial AS or HFA or whatever which is the real DX?

Don't know. I'm "officially" dx'd AS.

AS is an official dx in the DSM, but I think before the TR version, the AS criteria were a bit on the vague side so many got PDD-NOS.

PDD-NOS is one of the proper descriptions used for those who do not fit the Dr. Kanner mold for "typical" autism (the way it was explained to me) and Asperger's desciption is another.
People like me are too highly functional for them to reach a diagnosis of "typical" autism, yet the obvious can not be ignored for long. Both kids by my present wife, myself and the older son by another woman are all diagnosed with "atypical austism" (conversationally) or PDD-NOS (officially).
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #78 on: October 17, 2008, 11:00:30 AM »

Maybe some of the psychology students could chime in here, briefly, and straighten us all out.
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #79 on: October 17, 2008, 11:02:33 AM »
Maybe some of the psychology students could chime in here, briefly, and straighten us all out.

A friend of mine is a psych student, and he's recently started studying autism specifically, so I'll poke him for an answer when he's on MSN next.

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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #80 on: October 17, 2008, 11:10:42 AM »
My psych did say something about "HFA" vs "Autistic Disorder" as diagnoses but I forget what it was that she said :/

Hey..Isn't this essentially questioning my diagnosis? Doesn't that mean this thread is dead? :P

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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #81 on: October 17, 2008, 01:32:49 PM »
Well I can't find the post.  Odeon, no offense, but your an aspie and my sister is on something, therefore I believe you both don't have clue.
My sister has always been a bit nutty even without that something, so as to say less of a clue.
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #82 on: October 17, 2008, 01:49:57 PM »
Well I can't find the post.  Odeon, no offense, but your an aspie and my sister is on something, therefore I believe you both don't have clue.
My sister has always been a bit nutty even without that something, so as to say less of a clue.

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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #83 on: October 17, 2008, 01:54:50 PM »
Not everyone has that brand of razor, therefore, it doesn't have much of an impact.
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #84 on: October 17, 2008, 02:04:11 PM »
Well I can't find the post.  Odeon, no offense, but your an aspie and my sister is on something, therefore I believe you both don't have clue.
My sister has always been a bit nutty even without that something, so as to say less of a clue.

Randy, your life would be a lot easier if you accepted your dx.
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #85 on: October 17, 2008, 02:31:31 PM »
Well I can't find the post.  Odeon, no offense, but your an aspie and my sister is on something, therefore I believe you both don't have clue.
My sister has always been a bit nutty even without that something, so as to say less of a clue.

Randy, your life would be a lot easier if you stfu and ate properly.

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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #86 on: October 17, 2008, 02:59:35 PM »
That, too. :laugh:
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #87 on: October 17, 2008, 03:14:41 PM »
Well I can't find the post.  Odeon, no offense, but your an aspie and my sister is on something, therefore I believe you both don't have clue.
My sister has always been a bit nutty even without that something, so as to say less of a clue.

Randy, your life would be a lot easier if you accepted your dx.

In someways it would because I wouldn't be so aware of somethings like I am now.  Its kind of selfish to do so. :laugh:
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #88 on: October 17, 2008, 03:43:18 PM »
You're not aware at all. That's your problem.
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Re: Do you get a headache after socialising all day?
« Reply #89 on: October 17, 2008, 03:44:12 PM »
I am, and it hurts miserabably.  I even remember distressful dreams.  My mom is dying.

It becomes more apparent as disfunctional behavior is taken away, ouch !
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