As a kid, I was raised evangelical protestant (assemblies of god), then catholic.
Then I went to college, and got over both.
I still think there's probably a god, and probably some afterlife. Dunno exactly what I believe, but I tend to think that Jesus prolly existed at least as a historical figure, and if so, he was a really smart, cool dude. I also think that human life has value, as does kindness/mercy/etc. Which was TOTALLY deemphasized in the assemblies of god churches; it was kinda focal with the catholic churhces, but it seems like there's an awful lot of red tape to get to the core ideas.
Plus I think the new pope's an ass.
I met a church-goer a few months ago. She didn't believe in sex without love. I wouldn't recommend it, at least she was honest though.
I still don't get why "yes, I'll fuck without being married, but only if I'm infautated and lusting after you to the point where I'm not thinking clearly and extremely vulnerable" seems like a moral compromise to Christians who want to screw.