I am genuinely worried.

[Postperson]

That's what I mean dimwit. You don't get things do ya.

[Callaway]

Neither do you, apparently.

[McGiver]

catfight!
~takes a seat and asks peter to make the popcorn and if eamonn would get the beers, i assure them both that i have plenty of ones~

[Merry Widow]

*squeezes inbetween Eamonn and McJagger on the sofa*

*sweetly asks McJagger for "just a sip" of his beer, before gulping it down in one go and burping in his suprised face*

[McGiver]

*after which time i realize that i am not the manliest of the spectators and i promptly shove eamonn, spurring yet another cat fight.*

[Eamonn]

*Realises the couch is only built for three people so shoves McJagger back down and uses him as a bean-bag.*

[McGiver]

*realizes his misfortune that eamonn hasn't wiped his arse in days*

[Callaway]

*PP says, "Cat fight?  I'm a dog lover!"  PP smears peanut butter all over her body and calls her dog.*

[Postperson]

mulloway, you are a bore. I would caution people against having any involvement with you, in case the 'bore' thing rubs off on them. like a contagion.

[Nomaken]

Well what most made me worry and make me feel bad were that it phrased it: "To avoid such situations, some patients with NPD socially withdraw and feign false modesty and humility to mask their underlying grandiosity."

Because I am truely very conceited, but i would like to believe that i decline to brag, and try to be humble as a kindness to others. Because i hate it when people brag and are arrogant, and i know plenty of other people do too.  And if it turned out that i was just lying to myself, which can be something i'm not aware of, then that would really suck.  I'd have to change my approach to life for it to remain consistent(which matters to me a lot).  And that would be a lot of work, and it might turn out that my easiest function in life isn't a fun one.

I explained it to everyone not because i'd like to have another label, but because if i have ever offended anyone for me being an attention whore, or because I came off as very arrogant, and annoying, that i want to admit it, and apologize.

[Callaway]

I don't know you personally, Nomaken, but I don't think you are a narcissist either.  Would a true narcissist care enough about others to not want to do something to them that he would hate if it were done to him?  Wouldn't it be all about the narcissist and his needs?  You are intelligent and a good student and I do not see it as narcissistic to know that and not brag all the time about it. 

I am sorry for my role in hijacking your topic.

[Nomaken]

I'm not terribly worried anymore because apparently I don't piss off anyone enough for them to bitch at me.

But i'm not sure about it, because many people often have a flawed understanding of things like narcissism.  They've often had a flawed understanding of schizophrenia and sociopathism.  I don't know much about narcissism myself, but i do know that when people have talked about schizophrenia and sociopathism, they made them out to be a lot more dangerous, and unpredictable than they really are.  So it might be true that narcissists are not on average the flaming assholes that i've seen implied several times on the forums.