Ask Eclair anything.

[Eclair]

ha, but i do.

the timing is never right for me.

I'm beginning to understand that poor little girl who you kissed then punched.
Should have got some clues back then about you.

what, about my fear of rejection?

It's sad.  Because you actually can be much more hurtful than I think you realise, which then comes across as if you are just looking at me like I'm an object for your cruel entertainment.

[McGiver]

ha, but i do.

the timing is never right for me.

I'm beginning to understand that poor little girl who you kissed then punched.
Should have got some clues back then about you.

what, about my fear of rejection?

It's sad.  Because you actually can be much more hurtful than I think you realise, which then comes across as if you are just looking at me like I'm an object for your cruel entertainment.

posting in the mirror again?

[Eclair]

ha, but i do.

the timing is never right for me.

I'm beginning to understand that poor little girl who you kissed then punched.
Should have got some clues back then about you.

what, about my fear of rejection?

It's sad.  Because you actually can be much more hurtful than I think you realise, which then comes across as if you are just looking at me like I'm an object for your cruel entertainment.

posting in the mirror again?

I don't think anyone likes rejection anyway.  I am trying to have a serious conversation, and you throw in a comment like that.  It's a shame. 

[McGiver]

what is a shame is how you project onto everybody else....all the time.
and how you go from flirty to bitchy in no time flat.

sorry, but my opinion is that you need a good hard fucking.

[Calandale]

ha, but i do.

the timing is never right for me.

I'm beginning to understand that poor little girl who you kissed then punched.
Should have got some clues back then about you.

what, about my fear of rejection?

It's sad.  Because you actually can be much more hurtful than I think you realise, which then comes across as if you are just looking at me like I'm an object for your cruel entertainment.

posting in the mirror again?

I don't think anyone likes rejection anyway.  I am trying to have a serious conversation, and you throw in a comment like that.  It's a shame. 

Seemed pretty damned insightful to me.

[Eclair]

what is a shame is how you project onto everybody else....all the time.
and how you go from flirty to bitchy in no time flat.

sorry, but my opinion is that you need a good hard fucking.

It's easy to throw a comment like that out there to me isn't it?
My conversation style is flirtatious, in real life also, but it's the one I have.  I see Odeon made a comment about it also in some thread.

I'm not playing you for fun.  I feel sad that you can't tell when it's genuinely directed.

[McGiver]

what is a shame is how you project onto everybody else....all the time.
and how you go from flirty to bitchy in no time flat.

sorry, but my opinion is that you need a good hard fucking.

It's easy to throw a comment like that out there to me isn't it?
My conversation style is flirtatious, in real life also, but it's the one I have.  I see Odeon made a comment about it also in some thread.

I'm not playing you for fun.  I feel sad that you can't tell when it's genuinely directed.

you feel.  you feel.  yet you never bother to think that others may feel also.

sure you are flirty.  there is nothing wrong with that.
sure you are bitchy.  but aren't we all.

you just seem to combine the two without a transition, or, imho, a real reason.

[Eclair]

what is a shame is how you project onto everybody else....all the time.
and how you go from flirty to bitchy in no time flat.

sorry, but my opinion is that you need a good hard fucking.

It's easy to throw a comment like that out there to me isn't it?
My conversation style is flirtatious, in real life also, but it's the one I have.  I see Odeon made a comment about it also in some thread.

I'm not playing you for fun.  I feel sad that you can't tell when it's genuinely directed.

you feel.  you feel.  yet you never bother to think that others may feel also.

sure you are flirty.  there is nothing wrong with that.
sure you are bitchy.  but aren't we all.

you just seem to combine the two without a transition, or, imho, a real reason.

[McGiver]

tears do nothing in the way of motivation for me.

It's sad.  Because you actually can be much more hurtful than I think you realise, which then comes across as if you are just looking at me like I'm an object for your cruel entertainment.

so what i see here is that you are actually asking me if you are:
*an object
*something to keep me entertained


the cruel part was just mixed in there because of your own personal issues...insecurity.


am i correct so far?


is this what you want to have a serious discussion about?

[Eclair]

No, it's not insecurity. 
It's the fact that if I'm upset about something, it sometimes comes out as anger.
The same as when I am in an emotional situation, I shut down and can't respond.
Your comments did upset me deeply because I am constantly misinterpreted all the time and it is completely frustrating to me also.

[SovaNu]

eclairs are things you eat. perhaps you have them?

[Eclair]

do you have eclairs?

Don't understand the question, sorry.

[purposefulinsanity]

Since you seemed to be having a hard time of it on here yesterday can I just remind you of something you said to me earlier in the day.

Fuck 'em.  I'm sick of people trying to convince me that I need to say sorry to them for things I never even considered!

Don't let it get you down.

[Eclair]

Since you seemed to be having a hard time of it on here yesterday can I just remind you of something you said to me earlier in the day.

Fuck 'em.  I'm sick of people trying to convince me that I need to say sorry to them for things I never even considered!

Don't let it get you down.

Thanks for that.  It's so true.  In all honesty, the only posts I feel I know that I have been truly bitchy is when Lit has riled me up with his attitudes or when people have been narrow minded or judgemental.

[McGiver]

No, it's not insecurity. 
It's the fact that if I'm upset about something, it sometimes comes out as anger.
The same as when I am in an emotional situation, I shut down and can't respond.
Your comments did upset me deeply because I am constantly misinterpreted all the time and it is completely frustrating to me also.

so when are you planning on having a deep discussion.  you keep dodging the subjects?