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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #90 on: May 16, 2007, 06:15:38 PM »
what is your favorite position to be in when you are giving head?
On my knees mostly (it's not a submissive thing though).

But I do like horizontal so I can take my time.
do you have a problem with the man grabbing the back of your head/hair and fucking your mouth?
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #91 on: May 16, 2007, 06:28:59 PM »
what is your favorite position to be in when you are giving head?
On my knees mostly (it's not a submissive thing though).

But I do like horizontal so I can take my time.
do you have a problem with the man grabbing the back of your head/hair and fucking your mouth?
Now you are starting to make me even more paraonoid! 

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #92 on: May 16, 2007, 06:35:20 PM »
what is your favorite position to be in when you are giving head?
On my knees mostly (it's not a submissive thing though).

But I do like horizontal so I can take my time.
do you have a problem with the man grabbing the back of your head/hair and fucking your mouth?
Now you are starting to make me even more paraonoid! 
i am not sure if that was a yes or a no.....
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #93 on: May 16, 2007, 07:26:23 PM »
what is your favorite position to be in when you are giving head?
On my knees mostly (it's not a submissive thing though).

But I do like horizontal so I can take my time.
do you have a problem with the man grabbing the back of your head/hair and fucking your mouth?
Now you are starting to make me even more paraonoid! 
i am not sure if that was a yes or a no.....
I would be encouraging the grabbing.

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #94 on: May 16, 2007, 07:29:51 PM »
what is your favorite position to be in when you are giving head?
On my knees mostly (it's not a submissive thing though).

But I do like horizontal so I can take my time.
do you have a problem with the man grabbing the back of your head/hair and fucking your mouth?
Now you are starting to make me even more paraonoid! 
i am not sure if that was a yes or a no.....
I would be encouraging the grabbing.
:clap:
very nice.  me likey.


but do you consider that submissive?

i suppose not if you are the one barking orders....
then again, how can you bark arders with something in your mouth?
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #95 on: May 16, 2007, 07:34:39 PM »
what is your favorite position to be in when you are giving head?
On my knees mostly (it's not a submissive thing though).

But I do like horizontal so I can take my time.
do you have a problem with the man grabbing the back of your head/hair and fucking your mouth?
Now you are starting to make me even more paraonoid! 
i am not sure if that was a yes or a no.....
I would be encouraging the grabbing.
:clap:
very nice.  me likey.


but do you consider that submissive?

i suppose not if you are the one barking orders....
then again, how can you bark arders with something in your mouth?
By the time that is happening, I'm not thinking about submissive...in some ways the woman has made the man lose control so much that he is giving in to his desire I suppose.

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #96 on: May 16, 2007, 07:53:31 PM »
so you are actually choreogrphing the whole situation?
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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #97 on: May 16, 2007, 09:21:14 PM »
so you are actually choreogrphing the whole situation?
Don't really understand the question...
Do you mean every single time? No.  But surely fantasizing about something and then carrying it out is choreographing, isn't it?
Sometimes I like to be the Director! ;)

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #98 on: May 17, 2007, 05:08:48 PM »
would you like to talk dirty?
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« Reply #99 on: May 17, 2007, 05:30:02 PM »
would you like to talk dirty?
That makes me laugh...you've worded it like an invitation to me...

But in response to the talking dirty if it is a question...it has to be with the right person, mind you probably the sex has to be with the right person too.  I had one guy start talking to me once and it was just wrong.

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #100 on: May 17, 2007, 05:35:32 PM »
would you like to talk dirty?
That makes me laugh...you've worded it like an invitation to me...

But in response to the talking dirty if it is a question...it has to be with the right person, mind you probably the sex has to be with the right person too.  I had one guy start talking to me once and it was just wrong.

am i that guy?
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« Reply #101 on: May 17, 2007, 05:49:52 PM »
would you like to talk dirty?
That makes me laugh...you've worded it like an invitation to me...

But in response to the talking dirty if it is a question...it has to be with the right person, mind you probably the sex has to be with the right person too.  I had one guy start talking to me once and it was just wrong.

am i that guy?
Are you talking about the one you reminded me of?  If so, no.
This guy just started talking dirty straight up and it sounded so wrong...needless to say I only fucked him once...was just dying for it to be over with...still gives me the creeps.

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #102 on: May 17, 2007, 05:51:38 PM »
how many lovers have you had?

do you even keep track?
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« Reply #103 on: May 17, 2007, 05:55:31 PM »
how many lovers have you had?

do you even keep track?
I got married quite young so by the time I was 28, I'd only had two lovers.  Being a good Catholic girl at the time, I thought I'd try to keep the lovers to one hand...ie; 5....
mmm that didn't work very well.
10 years later and I've lost count now...not in a bad way, it's just I tend to not pursue a relationship if I find out the sex isn't what I want.

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Re: Ask Eclair anything.
« Reply #104 on: May 17, 2007, 05:57:40 PM »
what do you want in sex?
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