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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3525 on: June 25, 2012, 12:16:50 PM »
Sorry for your loss. :hug:
Thanks :) It's times like this that I ponder why one can feel shocked that he passed even though he was nearly 100. I mean I KNEW he was on borrowed time (lots of heart issues) but yet when it actually happens? One can feel blindsided. Doesn't make logical sense but that's the outcome anyway.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3526 on: June 25, 2012, 04:11:30 PM »
Condolences to you Miss K and your family.

I am sure it will seem so strange for his wife,  to be
apart from the man she has spent over seventy years
with.

That kind of time frame just bamboozles my brain!  I cannot
begin to imagine what that must be like.  I do hope she will
be ok.

Did he tell you lots of stories?  I love listening to old folks, especially
ones of that kind of age who must have been quite young during WWII
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3527 on: June 25, 2012, 05:28:32 PM »
Condolences to you Miss K and your family.

I am sure it will seem so strange for his wife,  to be
apart from the man she has spent over seventy years
with.

That kind of time frame just bamboozles my brain!  I cannot
begin to imagine what that must be like.  I do hope she will
be ok.

Did he tell you lots of stories?  I love listening to old folks, especially
ones of that kind of age who must have been quite young during WWII

He told me oodles of stories. He was an amazing story teller and so incredibly funny. One of my favourite relatives. Just two days ago he and his wife decided that they could no longer keep up with the work required of a house so were going to move into a nursing home, one that would allow them to be together. They've been in this house since he came home from war.  :o Then yesterday he had a hankering for a roast beef so one of his daughters brought one over and cooked it up for them and they had a lovely dinner. Then after dinner he stood up, walked down the hall and had a fall. And that was it. He was dead instantly. His daughter did CPR until the ambulance arrived but they couldn't get a heartbeat. I can't even begin to imagine how tragic that experience would be. When you can't save your own father  :(

And now my Aunt refuses to move from the house. Over 60 years of memories. Raising all of her daughters in that home. We have a feeling she'll pass away soon. They were always the best of friends and did everything together. So incredibly in love even after all these years. Her eyes would still light up every time he walked in a room. I think she'll pass away quietly and peacefully so that they can be together again. It's tragic and beautiful and sad all all the same time.  :-\
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3528 on: June 25, 2012, 06:05:24 PM »
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It's tragic and beautiful and sad all all the same time. 

It is.  It is also really cool that two people meet and stay together AND BE HAPPY for seventy years.  How cool is that?   When you look at how many couples end up only talking through solicitors,  or just in unhappy relationships for convenience sake!  I have yet to stick one man for seven years...let alone seventy.   What a life they must have had?  still happy and in love, and knowing they always had the other one to count on!  It must be an awesome journey to have lived like that. :thumbup:
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3529 on: June 25, 2012, 06:36:37 PM »
Today must be the day for sadness.  I saw my dearest friend of 36 years today when she and her brother were in town.  She told me she has Stage 4 kidney disease and will probably need diaysis in the next year or so.  I know it's not the immediate end of the world, but it seems awful knowing that I might not see her again.  We've agreeed to write weekly letters (her computer broke and she gets a dry mouth if she talks too long) and make a real effort to be as healthy as we can.  Life sucks sometimes, it really, really sucks.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3530 on: June 25, 2012, 07:14:16 PM »
Today must be the day for sadness.  I saw my dearest friend of 36 years today when she and her brother were in town.  She told me she has Stage 4 kidney disease and will probably need diaysis in the next year or so.  I know it's not the immediate end of the world, but it seems awful knowing that I might not see her again.  We've agreeed to write weekly letters (her computer broke and she gets a dry mouth if she talks too long) and make a real effort to be as healthy as we can.  Life sucks sometimes, it really, really sucks.
:hug: My Mum hit stage 3 and it was an awful process. Thankfully, in her case, it seemed to reverse itself. It's still only functioning at 27% but it's better than what it was.

Sometimes we're given the gift of crossing paths with those who have had a big impact on our life for no other reason than we need them, and they need us.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3531 on: June 25, 2012, 07:33:23 PM »
Sorry for your loss, MissKitty.  :'( 

Today must be the day for sadness.  I saw my dearest friend of 36 years today when she and her brother were in town.  She told me she has Stage 4 kidney disease and will probably need diaysis in the next year or so.  I know it's not the immediate end of the world, but it seems awful knowing that I might not see her again.  We've agreeed to write weekly letters (her computer broke and she gets a dry mouth if she talks too long) and make a real effort to be as healthy as we can.  Life sucks sometimes, it really, really sucks.

I know. :hug:

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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3532 on: June 25, 2012, 07:46:26 PM »
Thanks :) I wonder why some of life's biggest lessons, come from its most painful experiences.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3533 on: June 25, 2012, 11:23:12 PM »
Today must be the day for sadness.  I saw my dearest friend of 36 years today when she and her brother were in town.  She told me she has Stage 4 kidney disease and will probably need diaysis in the next year or so.  I know it's not the immediate end of the world, but it seems awful knowing that I might not see her again.  We've agreeed to write weekly letters (her computer broke and she gets a dry mouth if she talks too long) and make a real effort to be as healthy as we can.  Life sucks sometimes, it really, really sucks.

I'm so sorry. :(
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3534 on: June 26, 2012, 02:47:52 AM »
Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round,
or listened to rain slapping the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight,
or gazed at the sun fading into the night?

You better slow down, don't dance so fast,
time is short, the music won't last.


Do you run through each day on the fly,
when you ask "How are you?", do you hear the reply?

When the day is done, do you lie in your bed,
with the next hundred chores running through your head?

You better slow down, don't dance so fast,
time is short, the music won't last.


Ever told your child, we'll do it tomorrow,
and in your haste, not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch, let a friendship die,
'cause you never had time to call and say hi?

You better slow down, don't dance so fast,
time is short, the music won't last.


When you run so fast to get somewhere,
you miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry through your day,
it's like an unopened gift thrown away.

Life isn't a race, so take it slower,
hear the music before your song is over.




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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3535 on: June 26, 2012, 05:44:41 AM »
 :hug: for both of you, Queen V and Miss K.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3536 on: June 26, 2012, 04:31:38 PM »
Not feeling murderous anymore.

Still in the mood to reconstruct a 'pretty face' though.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3537 on: June 26, 2012, 06:39:29 PM »
I've taken my 24 hours to cry and grieve.  Now I'm turning my face to the optimism of friendship and the building of more wonderful memories with those in my life.

Thanks for all your and posts.
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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3538 on: June 26, 2012, 09:42:59 PM »
Sad. Just found out my Gram's brother passed away. We're a very close family so it's hitting everyone quite hard even though he was in his 90's. I feel awful for his wife. They've been married over 70 years and we've always said one would be lost without the other. I wouldn't be surprised is she passes rather quickly herself.  :-\
That sucks. Sorry.

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Re: How are you feeling right now? (Pt 2)
« Reply #3539 on: June 26, 2012, 11:18:37 PM »
I've taken my 24 hours to cry and grieve.  Now I'm turning my face to the optimism of friendship and the building of more wonderful memories with those in my life.

Thanks for all your and posts.

You do know that you are sometimes allowed more than 24 hours? :hug:
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