Author Topic: Just one quick bitch, part two  (Read 235033 times)

0 Members and 59 Guests are viewing this topic.

Offline renaeden

  • Complicated Case of the Aspie Elite
  • Caretaker Admin
  • Almighty Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 25669
  • Karma: 2517
  • Gender: Female
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18000 on: April 19, 2023, 10:20:14 PM »
I'm not as depressed anymore.... What the hell is going on?
I wouldn't be bitching about that, less depression is a good thing. :hug: :)
Mildly Cute in a Retarded Way
Tek'ma'tae

Offline Genesis

  • The impostor who isn't from Old Country formerly known as Soviet Union
  • News Box Slave
  • Obsessive Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 8978
  • Karma: 338
  • Gender: Male
  • The Blogger Was Here
    • Night Owl Redux
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18001 on: April 19, 2023, 10:24:54 PM »
I'm not as depressed anymore.... What the hell is going on?
I wouldn't be bitching about that, less depression is a good thing. :hug: :)

I guess it is when someone IRL is accepting me more for being myself  :o

Offline renaeden

  • Complicated Case of the Aspie Elite
  • Caretaker Admin
  • Almighty Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 25669
  • Karma: 2517
  • Gender: Female
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18002 on: April 19, 2023, 10:27:36 PM »
I'm not as depressed anymore.... What the hell is going on?
I wouldn't be bitching about that, less depression is a good thing. :hug: :)
I guess it is when someone IRL is accepting me more for being myself  :o
That's excellent. I always have to mask. Being myself only happens at home.
Mildly Cute in a Retarded Way
Tek'ma'tae

Offline Genesis

  • The impostor who isn't from Old Country formerly known as Soviet Union
  • News Box Slave
  • Obsessive Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 8978
  • Karma: 338
  • Gender: Male
  • The Blogger Was Here
    • Night Owl Redux
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18003 on: April 19, 2023, 10:31:30 PM »
I'm not as depressed anymore.... What the hell is going on?
I wouldn't be bitching about that, less depression is a good thing. :hug: :)
I guess it is when someone IRL is accepting me more for being myself  :o
That's excellent. I always have to mask. Being myself only happens at home.

My mask(s) keep slipping away though :(

Offline rock hound

  • Elder
  • Obsessive Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 6294
  • Karma: 365
  • Gender: Male
  • The Lurker at the Threshold.
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18004 on: April 19, 2023, 10:36:33 PM »
I'm not as depressed anymore.... What the hell is going on?
I wouldn't be bitching about that, less depression is a good thing. :hug: :)

QFT.
"Some books are to be tasted.  Others to be swallowed.  And some few to be chewed and digested."  --Sir Francis Bacon

"Civilization exists by geologic consent.  Subject to change without notice."  --Will Durant

Offline renaeden

  • Complicated Case of the Aspie Elite
  • Caretaker Admin
  • Almighty Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 25669
  • Karma: 2517
  • Gender: Female
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18005 on: April 19, 2023, 10:38:49 PM »
I'm not as depressed anymore.... What the hell is going on?
I wouldn't be bitching about that, less depression is a good thing. :hug: :)
I guess it is when someone IRL is accepting me more for being myself  :o
That's excellent. I always have to mask. Being myself only happens at home.
My mask(s) keep slipping away though :(
I think that's a good thing. Being yourself and still being liked must be great, keep at it! :)
Mildly Cute in a Retarded Way
Tek'ma'tae

Offline Charlotte Quin

  • Abbess from the Abyss
  • Elder
  • Obsessive Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 5140
  • Karma: 421
  • Gender: Female
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18006 on: April 20, 2023, 08:36:43 AM »
Finally got an email yesterday but the salary offer was shit. So shit they'd probably have a heart attack if I told them what I ideally wanted. I made an in the middle counter-offer anyway and they didn't reply.

Offline renaeden

  • Complicated Case of the Aspie Elite
  • Caretaker Admin
  • Almighty Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 25669
  • Karma: 2517
  • Gender: Female
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18007 on: April 21, 2023, 09:43:30 PM »
Finally got an email yesterday but the salary offer was shit. So shit they'd probably have a heart attack if I told them what I ideally wanted. I made an in the middle counter-offer anyway and they didn't reply.
What, they want you to work for so little? They're not going to be able to hire anyone if they keep that up.

Hope you can find a company who'll pay you what you're worth.
Mildly Cute in a Retarded Way
Tek'ma'tae

Offline Charlotte Quin

  • Abbess from the Abyss
  • Elder
  • Obsessive Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 5140
  • Karma: 421
  • Gender: Female
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18008 on: April 22, 2023, 03:28:42 AM »
Still haven't responded. I'm starting to think they're stringing me along because I'm only a backup candidate. All this time between emails is probably spent waiting to hear from their preferred candidate, who's perhaps stringing them along because they have other offers on the table. Either that or they're just really slack and slow. My patience is waning, their aptitude as a potential employer is waning.
The kicker is that that they'll probably change their mind about me on the basis that I can't start soon enough (have to give 4 weeks notice at current job), but if they stopped fart-arsing about I could have put my notice in last Wednesday.

Reminds me of that job I applied for last year where they took 5 weeks to finally respond to my application with a "We need to fill the role ASAP, we know it's short notice but interview time not negotiable, sorry!!" I mean, their urgency wasn't my problem, what the fuck were they doing for the past 5 weeks?

Offline odeon

  • Witchlet of the Aspie Elite
  • Webmaster
  • Postwhore Beyond Repair
  • *****
  • Posts: 108818
  • Karma: 4477
  • Gender: Male
  • Replacement Despot
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18009 on: April 22, 2023, 04:05:46 PM »
The sad reality is that people are busy, and the more urgent something is, the busier the people are. Not saying your lot aren't being cunts but we've been interviewing project managers for two positions we desperately need to fill, but the fact is that we're ridiculously busy and things slip and the candidates (understandably) get sick and tired and go elsewhere.

I know there are companies that advertise for a job to look good, but I suspect sometimes things slip because there is no time and people are overwhelmed.
"Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former."

- Albert Einstein

Offline Pyraxis

  • Werewolf Wrangler of the Aspie Elite
  • Caretaker Admin
  • Almighty Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 16663
  • Karma: 1430
  • aka Daria
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18010 on: April 22, 2023, 10:23:12 PM »
Long week, had trouble with contractors and a pile of extra unexpected costs. Cub was particularly unwilling to listen today and my patience is shot.
You'll never self-actualize the subconscious canopy of stardust with that attitude.

Offline DirtDawg

  • Insensitive Oaf and Earthworm Whisperer
  • Elder
  • Almighty Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 31549
  • Karma: 2540
  • Gender: Male
  • Last rays of the last days
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18011 on: April 22, 2023, 10:43:22 PM »
I thought we had a One Bitch rule in effect.

 :lol1:

Hope things work your way today.

As for me, I got nuthin!

Maybe back pain, but that's about it.
Jimi Hendrix: When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace. 

Ghandi: Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.

The end result of life's daily pain and suffering, trials and failures, tears and laughter, readings and listenings is an accumulation of wisdom in its purest form.

Offline renaeden

  • Complicated Case of the Aspie Elite
  • Caretaker Admin
  • Almighty Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 25669
  • Karma: 2517
  • Gender: Female
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18012 on: April 26, 2023, 07:23:21 PM »
Got an answering email from the property manager. Yes, the painters will be painting the inside of the pantry and linen cupboards.

Boooo, that means we will have to empty them of food and towels, sheets, etc.
Mildly Cute in a Retarded Way
Tek'ma'tae

Offline renaeden

  • Complicated Case of the Aspie Elite
  • Caretaker Admin
  • Almighty Postwhore
  • *****
  • Posts: 25669
  • Karma: 2517
  • Gender: Female
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18013 on: April 27, 2023, 07:14:09 PM »
Tiler is here and is incredibly noisy. We also don't know where Kira is. He's inside somewhere.
Mildly Cute in a Retarded Way
Tek'ma'tae

Offline odeon

  • Witchlet of the Aspie Elite
  • Webmaster
  • Postwhore Beyond Repair
  • *****
  • Posts: 108818
  • Karma: 4477
  • Gender: Male
  • Replacement Despot
Re: Just one quick bitch, part two
« Reply #18014 on: April 28, 2023, 03:34:10 PM »
Here's my quick bitch:

I'm listing my conditions for being employed (rather than being a contractor) by my current client but they're still interpreting everything as optional. They've had no problems pulling me through the ranks - I am now responsible for 7 developers, including appraisals, salaries, all of it - but they are also still not giving me the powers to simply change any of that.
"Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former."

- Albert Einstein