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Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« on: September 08, 2009, 07:55:22 PM »
is it too dirty?

do you only shake hands while wearing gloves?

when this disgusting behaviour dies out, will historians look at us and think what revolting creatures we must have been?

Discuss

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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #1 on: September 08, 2009, 07:59:01 PM »
I prefer not to shake hands but will when I have to. I usually tell people I am getting a cold or that they are dirty.  I never shook hand with gloves on, and I don't think it will die out anytime soon unless there is an epidemic or something
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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #2 on: September 08, 2009, 08:01:27 PM »
you tell people they are dirty?

do they punch you in teh face?  :laugh:

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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #3 on: September 08, 2009, 08:12:04 PM »
Just keep your arms stiffly down at your sides, and bow instead.  :lol:

As women, we used to be able to avoid all that social-handshaking nonsense. Being female, we were presumed not to be bearing weapons, and thus had no need to proffer a visibly-empty hand to anyone to demonstrate our good intentions. All that has changed. Myself I have little problem with shaking anyone's hand; what I dislike is when they lunge in for the kiss on the cheek. Eeew, get off! :yikes: :jedi:

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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #4 on: September 08, 2009, 08:12:55 PM »
Well both are dirty  :P

The kissing thing has to go along with the hugging
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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #5 on: September 08, 2009, 08:26:24 PM »
I mostly get the hugging. :zombiefuck:


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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #6 on: September 08, 2009, 08:29:38 PM »
no one ever hugs me but that's ok

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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #7 on: September 08, 2009, 09:35:52 PM »
If you seriously want to fuck someone up during a handshake, tickle them with your middle finger while doing it.....  :evillaugh:

Do that a few times and nobody will come within cooee of your hand again.

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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #8 on: September 09, 2009, 02:05:32 AM »
Oh well, handshaking is the way to transfer a lot of diseases.
Just had to spam the village with government information because of the SwineFlu, Definitely transmitted by handshakes.  :zombiefuck:

But I do not really mind shaking hands. (I hardly get into situations where I have to lately) I think I pick up germs everywhere. Don't mind the sensation of a handshake either. As long as no-one touches the back of my hand lightly. I truly hate that. Kind of hurts, without pain. Even thinking of it makes me squirm.

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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #9 on: September 09, 2009, 02:09:45 AM »
The Italian fascists actually tried to ban handshaking and replacing it with the Roman salute, but it failed.

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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #10 on: September 09, 2009, 08:52:00 AM »
Just keep your arms stiffly down at your sides, and bow instead.  :lol:

As women, we used to be able to avoid all that social-handshaking nonsense. Being female, we were presumed not to be bearing weapons, and thus had no need to proffer a visibly-empty hand to anyone to demonstrate our good intentions. All that has changed. Myself I have little problem with shaking anyone's hand; what I dislike is when they lunge in for the kiss on the cheek. Eeew, get off! :yikes: :jedi:

In Poland there's a habit (especially amongst old horrible ladies) to kiss the cheek three times  :zombiefuck:  As in left, right, left.  Worst thing is that there is no way to duck out of it or you're classed as rude.  Also in school, in the first 2 weeks everyone went through a honeymoon period (this is still Poland, obviously  ::) ) and kissed each other's cheeks to say hi every morning.  EVERYONE had to do it, even this horribly spot-covered girl.  Eurgh thinking of it still makes me gag.

As for hand-shaking, we should just all wear gloves  :zoinks:  I hate it when people have really sweaty hands.

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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #11 on: September 09, 2009, 09:02:59 AM »
Just keep your arms stiffly down at your sides, and bow instead.  :lol:

As women, we used to be able to avoid all that social-handshaking nonsense. Being female, we were presumed not to be bearing weapons, and thus had no need to proffer a visibly-empty hand to anyone to demonstrate our good intentions. All that has changed. Myself I have little problem with shaking anyone's hand; what I dislike is when they lunge in for the kiss on the cheek. Eeew, get off! :yikes: :jedi:

In Poland there's a habit (especially amongst old horrible ladies) to kiss the cheek three times  :zombiefuck:  As in left, right, left.  Worst thing is that there is no way to duck out of it or you're classed as rude.  Also in school, in the first 2 weeks everyone went through a honeymoon period (this is still Poland, obviously  ::) ) and kissed each other's cheeks to say hi every morning.  EVERYONE had to do it, even this horribly spot-covered girl.  Eurgh thinking of it still makes me gag.

As for hand-shaking, we should just all wear gloves  :zoinks:  I hate it when people have really sweaty hands.

I can only imagine what happens when one person has the flu and everyone is kissing cheeks. It would spread fast.
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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #12 on: September 09, 2009, 09:15:23 AM »
It's a disgusting western custom. Another reason why I prefer eastern and especially japanese. They usually bow instead of hand shaking.

In western pig culture, it's considered a sign of character and dignity to have a "firm and convincing" handshake. That's pathetic imo. Who wants to be like Bill Clinton or Donald comb-over, really?

When I see an Ivy-League JFK-type with a "firm and convincing" handshake, a gentleman's spirit, Ralph Lauren, a burger in his stomach and bit of "Rock'n'Roll" I feel like killing something.

I don't shake hands if it can be avoided.
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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #13 on: September 12, 2009, 12:40:47 PM »
It's a disgusting western custom. Another reason why I prefer eastern and especially japanese. They usually bow instead of hand shaking.

In western pig culture, it's considered a sign of character and dignity to have a "firm and convincing" handshake. That's pathetic imo. Who wants to be like Bill Clinton or Donald comb-over, really?

When I see an Ivy-League JFK-type with a "firm and convincing" handshake, a gentleman's spirit, Ralph Lauren, a burger in his stomach and bit of "Rock'n'Roll" I feel like killing something.

I don't shake hands if it can be avoided.

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Re: Let's talk about the filthy act of hand-shaking
« Reply #14 on: September 12, 2009, 04:20:32 PM »
I doesn't bother me because I always wash my hands afterwards. I despise kissing on the cheek. Cheek kissers know how to latch on to you so you can't escape, and they always make that horrible smooching sound. ::shudders::
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