That is cool... i don't think your aunt did anything wrong either.
I am sure she is responsible enough to teach her kids about other
values too.
A small number of pushy parents sadly don't. That is when i think
it becomes wrong.
I also think parents who push their kids academically, even though
they excel in more practical skills are wrong too.
I suppose it is about balance. Cyndi Lauper said " take a
beautiful girl and hide her away from the rest of the world.." - which
i don't agree with either.
I dunno if the stuff i have seen on TV has been
exaggerated or what, but some of the parents are completely awf their
fucking head! constantly grooming their kid, until their kid no longer does kid things. Not saying all, but a few appear like this.