SpokaneGirl can handle driving a car, manage a job, and has the mental capacity to say no to something she isn't keen on.
Butt out: she's a fucking adult.
but does she WANT to be?
And, I'm not questioning her functionality, and not trying to insult her intelligence. I have a tendency to do this, especially when I see a storm a-brewin'; this kicks in without any consideration of the ability of the person I am concerned about's ability to drive, hold a job, or "just say no."