And "the suburbs" does not always mean affluent. It just means outside city limits; there are good and bad neighborhoods. I technically live in the suburbs of a major city but it is not a very nice place.
...he's trolling you.
probably
There are some males out there that have weird views on female standards for dating someone but I think that he is trolling, at least on the chat thingy.
Sorry if he is serious but I refuse to take seriously anyone that says:
"yeah, there are a few on amish enclaves that aren't like that. " when explaining that all females arent gold diggers