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Post by: Natalia Evans on October 05, 2009, 12:37:17 AM
Issue resolved.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Untermensch on October 05, 2009, 05:45:34 AM
What do you think of this joke?


k-ass-iane. Yep your name says it all, you are an ass.

Being mean to my online friend geowhizkid26 in the chat room on WP and calling him a pedophile because of his collection of children shoes and being mean to his friend Ashley and she was the one who came up with that joke. He said he would like to kick your ass so I told him if he ever comes to Portland by December, he can join our group and kick your butt there and get himself kicked out but it be worth it. Oh yeah and I told him about our conflict so he knows what a real bitch you are and he and Ashley both doubt your Rhett's and autism. Banning him from every chat room and all his friends and getting everyone on your side by believing he is a pedo also.

If geowhizkid26 was perpy4yrold on wrongplanet chatroom, then he got deservedly banned. Because he was revealed to have stalked the grave of one of the babies who had died in the Okaholma City Bombings.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 05, 2009, 04:05:27 PM
And why is that wrong?
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Callaway on October 05, 2009, 04:42:29 PM
The call-out has been moved now.

I'll get out of here and let you two ladies discuss this.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Adam on October 05, 2009, 04:55:40 PM
stalked the grave of a baby?

weird

btw, being a paedophile does not warrant a ban on wp, iirc
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 05, 2009, 05:57:16 PM
He isn't a pedo. He just likes toddlers and they are his friends. He isn't sexually attracted to them or has sex with them. He likes to visit graves that belongs to babies and toddlers.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: matthe on October 05, 2009, 06:00:00 PM
He isn't a pedo. He just likes toddlers and they are his friends. He isn't sexually attracted to them or has sex with them. He likes to visit graves that belongs to babies and toddlers.

so hes a necro/paedo?
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Adam on October 05, 2009, 06:00:19 PM
how old is this guy?

even is he isn't sexually attracted to kids, hanging around with toddlers as "friends" is a bit... dodgy

as is visiting graves of babies and toddlers

if you were the mother of one of those babies, wouldn't you be uncomfortable with some guy who's obsessed with dead kids hanging around your kid's grave?
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: The_Chosen_One on October 05, 2009, 06:03:13 PM
Reminds me of that 'tard jamieg, but he likes 'em older. Like 12, for eg.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 05, 2009, 06:37:34 PM
how old is this guy?

even is he isn't sexually attracted to kids, hanging around with toddlers as "friends" is a bit... dodgy

as is visiting graves of babies and toddlers

if you were the mother of one of those babies, wouldn't you be uncomfortable with some guy who's obsessed with dead kids hanging around your kid's grave?


I don't know. He is in his early 30's. In fact the more people judge him and are mean to him, the more he wants to be with kids than adults because they are all mean and nasty people while toddlers and babies don't judge him and they are nice to him. He says lot of people are helping him to hating adults making him to want to be with kids more. I think he should start telling people that and maybe that will get them to understand so they do the opposite.


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so hes a necro/paedo?

No.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: The_Chosen_One on October 05, 2009, 07:24:37 PM
I think that IS jamieg. He's 30, and prefers kids around 10 or 12 or whatever. Says it's not about sex, but whenever we pointed out on zOMG that it's sus for an adult to form a relationship with a kid, he threw a wobbly and called everyone else pedos.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Adam on October 05, 2009, 07:28:59 PM
i also find it easier to be around kids (and old people), and often wish i was their age so i could just hang out and have fun, do things you can do when you're a kid and not have to worry about adult/social stuff. but y0u can't. that's just what comes along with being an adult and you have to take it. you can't go hanging out with children. what do these kids' parents think of a 30yr old man lurking about their kids?
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 05, 2009, 07:46:12 PM
Ah crap, I didn't mean for this to turn into a thread about rather my friend is a pedo or not.


Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Adam on October 05, 2009, 07:48:28 PM
ok i guess it's kinda lame of me to discuss the guy when he's not even here, so i'll shut up about it

i'm not saying he's a paedo though - he probably isn't. bu same with the jamieg guy, he's gotta realise why people are gonna think that, and why it's not a good idea to hang out and be "friends" with kids

i'll be off now  :moon:
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Untermensch on October 05, 2009, 08:02:18 PM
He isn't a pedo. He just likes toddlers and they are his friends. He isn't sexually attracted to them or has sex with them. He likes to visit graves that belongs to babies and toddlers.

Well your friend got into trouble with the FBI over repeatedly visiting the grave of one baby who died in the Oklahoma City Bombings.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: The_Chosen_One on October 05, 2009, 08:03:46 PM
Besides, Kassi could be a no-show for now.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Kassiane on October 07, 2009, 02:01:57 AM
Perpie got banned for his past stalking-of-dead-babies and a number of other things. Got an issue with it? Take it up with the other WP ops. Shock horror, I'm not the only one. I wasn't even an op when he was permabanned (omfg. Call the waaaambulance. It's a conspiracy).

Funny how you call other people bullies and then go around being a bully. "I don't believe your abuse" is a classic bullying tactic. Way to be a hypocrite.

Bored now.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: The_Chosen_One on October 07, 2009, 02:30:58 AM
Hmmmm..... maybe I was wrong.

Seems I've read that somewhere else, too.  :indeed:
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 07, 2009, 03:16:18 AM
Perpie got banned for his past stalking-of-dead-babies and a number of other things. Got an issue with it? Take it up with the other WP ops. Shock horror, I'm not the only one. I wasn't even an op when he was permabanned (omfg. Call the waaaambulance. It's a conspiracy).

Funny how you call other people bullies and then go around being a bully. "I don't believe your abuse" is a classic bullying tactic. Way to be a hypocrite.

Bored now.


I bully my bullies. They don't deserve my respect.

And FYI, he was only visiting the grave of Bailey and he even befriended the mother and then she freaked out when he told her he moved to OK city to be closer to her child so she turned against him and was mean to him. But thanks to her, that's how he got diagnosed lol. He sees it as she helped him get that diagnoses because the judge ordered psychiatric treatment on him.


(My friend doesn't mind me sticking up for him. I told him about this and he told me to go ahead and stick up for him)
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Phlexor on October 07, 2009, 04:14:54 AM
Perpie got banned for his past stalking-of-dead-babies and a number of other things. Got an issue with it? Take it up with the other WP ops. Shock horror, I'm not the only one. I wasn't even an op when he was permabanned (omfg. Call the waaaambulance. It's a conspiracy).

Funny how you call other people bullies and then go around being a bully. "I don't believe your abuse" is a classic bullying tactic. Way to be a hypocrite.

Bored now.


I bully my bullies. They don't deserve my respect.

And FYI, he was only visiting the grave of Bailey and he even befriended the mother and then she freaked out when he told her he moved to OK city to be closer to her child so she turned against him and was mean to him. But thanks to her, that's how he got diagnosed lol. He sees it as she helped him get that diagnoses because the judge ordered psychiatric treatment on him.


(My friend doesn't mind me sticking up for him. I told him about this and he told me to go ahead and stick up for him)

You're kidding right? (the bolded part)
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Parts on October 07, 2009, 04:51:50 AM
He isn't a pedo. He just likes toddlers and they are his friends. He isn't sexually attracted to them or has sex with them. He likes to visit graves that belongs to babies and toddlers.


Bit creepy though.  I like cemeteries but go for the stones with art work or famous people
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 07, 2009, 06:00:37 PM
Perpie got banned for his past stalking-of-dead-babies and a number of other things. Got an issue with it? Take it up with the other WP ops. Shock horror, I'm not the only one. I wasn't even an op when he was permabanned (omfg. Call the waaaambulance. It's a conspiracy).

Funny how you call other people bullies and then go around being a bully. "I don't believe your abuse" is a classic bullying tactic. Way to be a hypocrite.

Bored now.


I bully my bullies. They don't deserve my respect.

And FYI, he was only visiting the grave of Bailey and he even befriended the mother and then she freaked out when he told her he moved to OK city to be closer to her child so she turned against him and was mean to him. But thanks to her, that's how he got diagnosed lol. He sees it as she helped him get that diagnoses because the judge ordered psychiatric treatment on him.


(My friend doesn't mind me sticking up for him. I told him about this and he told me to go ahead and stick up for him)

You're kidding right? (the bolded part)

No I am not kidding. He didn't do anything and the mother turned into a bitch. It's no different than seeing your friends graves or celebrities.

I would say fuck her child and good thing she lost something she loved so she can suffer but because I don't like talking that way about other people who are related to bullies, I don't say bad things about their family or wish anything bad on their family because they aren't part of the conflict but there are gray areas.

I am sure the mother is a nice lady but when it comes to this, she is a bitch. Some people are bitches but are nice in other areas. Like I am a nice person but when it comes to jerks and bullies and stupid people, I am not nice. They deserve no respect. I would allow my child to bully their bullies back or stick up for their own friend when he or she is being bullied by being mean back to the bully. Sometimes I am nice to them because I am in no mood for conflicts or drama and if they're nice to me, I'm nice back but sometimes I'm not.

Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Phlexor on October 07, 2009, 06:24:39 PM
Perpie got banned for his past stalking-of-dead-babies and a number of other things. Got an issue with it? Take it up with the other WP ops. Shock horror, I'm not the only one. I wasn't even an op when he was permabanned (omfg. Call the waaaambulance. It's a conspiracy).

Funny how you call other people bullies and then go around being a bully. "I don't believe your abuse" is a classic bullying tactic. Way to be a hypocrite.

Bored now.


I bully my bullies. They don't deserve my respect.

And FYI, he was only visiting the grave of Bailey and he even befriended the mother and then she freaked out when he told her he moved to OK city to be closer to her child so she turned against him and was mean to him. But thanks to her, that's how he got diagnosed lol. He sees it as she helped him get that diagnoses because the judge ordered psychiatric treatment on him.


(My friend doesn't mind me sticking up for him. I told him about this and he told me to go ahead and stick up for him)

You're kidding right? (the bolded part)

No I am not kidding. He didn't do anything and the mother turned into a bitch. It's no different than seeing your friends graves or celebrities.

I would say fuck her child and good thing she lost something she loved so she can suffer but because I don't like talking that way about other people who are related to bullies, I don't say bad things about their family or wish anything bad on their family because they aren't part of the conflict but there are gray areas.

I am sure the mother is a nice lady but when it comes to this, she is a bitch. Some people are bitches but are nice in other areas. Like I am a nice person but when it comes to jerks and bullies and stupid people, I am not nice. They deserve no respect. I would allow my child to bully their bullies back or stick up for their own friend when he or she is being bullied by being mean back to the bully. Sometimes I am nice to them because I am in no mood for conflicts or drama and if they're nice to me, I'm nice back but sometimes I'm not.



Seriuosly, you are fucked in the head if you think that. Losing a child can be VERY traumatic. No one then needs some creepy assed guy that you don't know comming into your life and saying the shit he did.

If the motive behind the restraining order was bogus, then it would have got thrown out in court.

I would have reacted the same way.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 07, 2009, 06:52:53 PM
And I think you're stupid for wanting to be freaked out over someone visiting you kid's grave. And my friend is not creepy. He is sweet. He befriended the mother he said. Then she turned against him when he told her he moved there to be closer to her child.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Callaway on October 07, 2009, 07:28:48 PM
Imagine that your baby you just lost had been buried and that every time you went to put flowers on her grave, Kassiane was there.  Then you started going more often, but Kassiane was still always there, no matter what time of day you went to visit.

Wouldn't that bother you, at least a little bit?
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: earthboundmisfit on October 07, 2009, 08:27:08 PM


Your friend is a creepy fucker. Kassianne was right to be "mean" to him. I would be too.


Tell him to come here, see what kind of reception he gets.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: jman on October 07, 2009, 08:37:36 PM


Your friend is a creepy fucker. Kassianne was right to be "mean" to him. I would be too.


Tell him to come here, see what kind of reception he gets.

 :agreed:

dude should be nowhere near where children are likely to congregate including WP
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Phlexor on October 07, 2009, 09:59:28 PM
And I think you're stupid for wanting to be freaked out over someone visiting you kid's grave. And my friend is not creepy. He is sweet. He befriended the mother he said. Then she turned against him when he told her he moved there to be closer to her child.

Because he is creepy and a stalker.

But I guess to you, those behaviours are normal and okay right?
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 07, 2009, 11:21:05 PM
I see looking at a child's grave harmless. It's not like he is going there to dig up the body or make love to the grave. Heck I drive by the Benny and Joon house all the time when I am in Spokane and no one's had a problem with it. I don't go on the property or take stuff from the property or even bother the woman living in the house. But one time she had a sign up so it was an invite for me to walk up to it and read it. I drive by the apartment too and the other house where Benny and his friends played poker but I don't bother anyone in them. I just mind my own business. I guess I'm creepy too right? Gee no wonder we're both great friends, we have something in common except he has the nerve to talk to people and I am always afraid of talking to people thinking I might do something wrong and I don't know when it's okay to talk to someone regarding their movie location. I know other people do it. And yeah I have been told I am stalking which I find amusing and I say all I have to do is knock on their door and talk to them and never leave them alone when they tell me to. My parents don't see anything wrong with what I do.



Your friend is a creepy fucker. Kassianne was right to be "mean" to him. I would be too.


Tell him to come here, see what kind of reception he gets.

 :agreed:

dude should be nowhere near where children are likely to congregate including WP

I don't like you either. You're just as bad. Good thing I posted this, I got a bonus for it, I got to see how bad some of you really are.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Phlexor on October 08, 2009, 01:57:42 AM
I see looking at a child's grave harmless. It's not like he is going there to dig up the body or make love to the grave. Heck I drive by the Benny and Joon house all the time when I am in Spokane and no one's had a problem with it. I don't go on the property or take stuff from the property or even bother the woman living in the house. But one time she had a sign up so it was an invite for me to walk up to it and read it. I drive by the apartment too and the other house where Benny and his friends played poker but I don't bother anyone in them. I just mind my own business. I guess I'm creepy too right? Gee no wonder we're both great friends, we have something in common except he has the nerve to talk to people and I am always afraid of talking to people thinking I might do something wrong and I don't know when it's okay to talk to someone regarding their movie location. I know other people do it. And yeah I have been told I am stalking which I find amusing and I say all I have to do is knock on their door and talk to them and never leave them alone when they tell me to. My parents don't see anything wrong with what I do.



Your friend is a creepy fucker. Kassianne was right to be "mean" to him. I would be too.


Tell him to come here, see what kind of reception he gets.

 :agreed:

dude should be nowhere near where children are likely to congregate including WP

I don't like you either. You're just as bad. Good thing I posted this, I got a bonus for it, I got to see how bad some of you really are.

Overwhelming evidence says you are the odd one out here.

Take a hint.

Comparing what he did to you following famous landmarks or hollywood landmarks is a poor comparison at best.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 08, 2009, 02:44:16 AM
Why?

I know what the problem is, I am not as judgmental as lot of people are. I don't judge people based on their fetish or what they collect or what they are interested in or how different they are. Some people collect toys and that sure isn't creepy. My friend even met a mother on ebay and she collecting these toddler shoes and had over 100 pairs. She kept buying them for her son. Too me that is excessive because a child doesn't need that many shoes but she collected them because she liked them so she can see them on her boy. I didn't judge her for that. I also don't judge pedophiles because not all of them hurt kids. (I might get my ass kicked for this so bring it on). I also don't judge sex offenders or people who don't look disabled, or people who look normal in wheelchairs, or people with medical conditions or disabilities. I don't even judge people who are on SSI and say they don't work because I don't know their life style or what their condition is or mothers with five kids or four or six because I don't know anything about them. Lot of people would look at it and assume she is single and poor and she is having kids and living off of welfare not even considering maybe she was married and her husband died or they split up or she is married but her husband isn't with his family.

I only judge people when they do something bad.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: on October 08, 2009, 02:45:23 AM
Sorry, but moving somewhere to be closer to the grave of an unrelated (in any way) child is creepy as fucking fuck.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Phlexor on October 08, 2009, 02:51:50 AM
Did you think about how this woman felt? Did he? Or are you both being selfish?
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: matthe on October 08, 2009, 03:17:41 AM
Sorry, but moving somewhere to be closer to the grave of an unrelated (in any way) child is creepy as fucking fuck.
creepy? yes.

is it wrong? i dont think so.


Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: El on October 08, 2009, 07:31:01 AM
Sorry, but moving somewhere to be closer to the grave of an unrelated (in any way) child is creepy as fucking fuck.
creepy? yes.

is it wrong? i dont think so.
I'd agree that it's creepy as fucking fuck, that in and of itself it hurts no one, but I'd add that telling the mother about it almost psychologically definitely harmed the mother.

It would perhaps make sense if the child were his or something like that.  As it is, it's so utterly bizarre that there's no redeeming it as anything but creepy.  In addition to being re-traumatized, the child's mother was probably also frightened, thinking along the lines of "If this individual's mind works so bizarrely/creepily/insanely, how can I know what he will do next?"
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Celticgoddess on October 08, 2009, 08:03:56 AM
I think SG is defending him because she truly doesn't understand the difference between the two.

SG - You driving by famous landmarks is socially acceptable. It's something lots of people do and it doesn't hurt anyone's feelings. Your friend doing what he did, DOES hurt someone because that baby is someone's child who died in a horrific way and the parents don't feel comfortable sharing their grief. Stalking a baby's grave isn't socially acceptable. Why? Because it impedes upon someone's privacy. There are things that have to change once we become adults and sometimes people learn that the hard way.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Alex179 on October 08, 2009, 08:17:34 AM
The visiting of a child's grave (stalking it really) might be the creepiest thing I have read in the past few days.    That is fucked up.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: The_Chosen_One on October 08, 2009, 08:47:44 AM
So it's unanimous. Stalking dead babies is sick and fucked up. Next channel please.  :indeed:
Title: ...
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 08, 2009, 05:49:29 PM
I think SG is defending him because she truly doesn't understand the difference between the two.

SG - You driving by famous landmarks is socially acceptable. It's something lots of people do and it doesn't hurt anyone's feelings. Your friend doing what he did, DOES hurt someone because that baby is someone's child who died in a horrific way and the parents don't feel comfortable sharing their grief. Stalking a baby's grave isn't socially acceptable. Why? Because it impedes upon someone's privacy. There are things that have to change once we become adults and sometimes people learn that the hard way.


Okay. Well I think people should still be nice to people. People only deserve meanness if they are mean. At least Callaway was understanding and Soph because they didn't judge him. I am not sure how many others here judged him.

People could have told him nicely that is unacceptable and he shouldn't do it and tell him why. The mother should have told him "I would really appreciate it if you didn't visit my daughter's grave anymore because it makes me very uncomfortable and it creeps me out when you do. Did you use me to get closer to my daughter?" and she could have also said she appreciates that he is honoring her daughter but he has visit her daughter's grave long enough now and seen it many times enough so he can stop now. When she got all mean, he got all defensive and went to court to fight when she was going around saying he stalked her daughter's grave and having it go in the media. Like he told me, people think the worst when they see the word stalking. They think he was harassing the mother by calling her and sending her flowers and cards and all instead of thinking he was seeing the grave over and over. I figured that's what he was doing and he told me so on the phone. Then he shares a funny story on how he also thinks the worst too. When he saw my PM saying "Ah Crap" he thought I messed up on Wimzie's House like I forgot to record an episode or something happened with the DVD but instead it was about this. I'm recording those shows for him to send to him.

Heck when people get mean to me for no reason and I did nothing wrong to them, my reaction goes "Fuck you bitch, I'm glad I offended you and I hope to piss you off again because you're a jerk." But if they told me nicely to not do this or that, I am less defensive. 

But isn't driving by peoples homes from movies impeding on privacy?

My friend did move away from his ex friend and moved back to his home in CA. He told me about how she judged him like everyone else does and he wishes his DX was mentioned in the media so the lady feel bad for how she treated him. That be good enough revenge. I told him just don't tell people you visit their kid's graves or they might get mean. I even told him he needs to quit saying online he collects childrens shoes and longalls and likes hanging around toddlers or else he gets all this crap. He's been judged for what he collects and my reaction is "I suppose all those stupid people judge people who collect Happy Meal toys and other vintage toys."

Why does he refuse adult friends? Because they are all mean and judgmental and all those people are doing him a big favor to not be a man by calling him a pedo and judging him and calling him retarded. It makes him go to the little kids more because they don't judge him or hurt him and they are nice to him. Sad isn't it?

With the rest of us, we just withdraw more from people and not go to kids to be with for our peers when we get the same crap minus the "pedohile." Even I can't stand lot of people because they are so ignorant and shallow, stupid but I don't let it stop me from talking to people or going to places or posting online or meeting aspies off the internet.


Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Celticgoddess on October 08, 2009, 06:00:58 PM
Okay. Well I think people should still be nice to people. People only deserve meanness if they are mean. At least Callaway was understanding and Soph because they didn't judge him. I am not sure how many others here judged him.

I've never been mean to your friend (heck I don't even know him, not even from WP) all I've said is that what he did was sociallly inappropriate.

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People could have told him nicely that is unacceptable and he shouldn't do it and tell him why. The mother should have told him "I would really appreciate it if you didn't visit my daughter's grave anymore because it makes me very uncomfortable and it creeps me out when you do. Did you use me to get closer to my daughter?" and she could have also said she appreciates that he is honoring her daughter but he has visit her daughter's grave long enough now and seen it many times enough so he can stop now.

But when the issue is around an emotional topic, people very rarely think clearly. They say the first thing that pops out of their head and it's usually more fierce and direct than if they had had some time to process it, and then respond.

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When she got all mean, he got all defensive and went to court to fight when she was going around saying he stalked her daughter's grave and having it go in the media. Like he told me, people think the worst when they see the word stalking. They think he was harassing the mother by calling her and sending her flowers and cards and all instead of thinking he was seeing the grave over and over. I figured that's what he was doing and he told me so on the phone. Then he shares a funny story on how he also thinks the worst too. When he saw my PM saying "Ah Crap" he thought I messed up on Wimzie's House like I forgot to record an episode or something happened with the DVD but instead it was about this. I'm recording those shows for him to send to him.

I see what you're saying. YOU know him to be an nice guy. Mother of the baby just knows him to be a guy who won't leave her baby's grave alone. So yes, she's jumps to the worst conclusions but her only interaction with him has been over the death of her child and wounds like that don't heal. Do I think he meant to hurt her? Of course not. But when you're someone outside of the issue, it makes it easier to look at the big picture.

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Heck when people get mean to me for no reason and I did nothing wrong to them, my reaction goes "Fuck you bitch, I'm glad I offended you and I hope to piss you off again because you're a jerk." But if they told me nicely to not do this or that, I am less defensive. That's why I don't even care if I upset that bitch. In fact I look forward to hoping to piss her off again on accident because well she is a bitch. I'll just bring my camera with me and turn it on and record her freak out and post it online to my friends so they can see what a jerk she is. I like showing people they can't mess with me because I am not some helpless victim they can pick on. I swear that's the charm I have on me and people see it and go "oh she is easy to pick on, lets do it since she can't fend for herself." I used to be picked on a lot more when I was 17 until I picked on a jerk and caused his forum to crash thanks to me and my online friends I involved. Since then, lot of people have left me alone. I think they realized I am not as naive they thought I was and not as innocent they thought I was. I showed them all. I even scared the man off the net but I am sure he still posts online in the AB/DL community but he goes by a different name to ditch me but I wouldn't pick a fight with him again anyway because it's been six years now since the incident.

I think it's good that you stand up for yourself.

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But isn't driving by peoples homes from movies impeding on privacy?

No. This is where the lines of social appropriate rules gets blurry. Technically, people aren't surprised by this because it's something a lot of people do, therefore, it's more accepted. What your friend does is something not a lot of people do (or openly admit to doing) therefore it comes across as creepy.

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My friend did move away from his ex friend and moved back to his home in CA. He told me about how she judged him like everyone else does and he wishes his DX was mentioned in the media so the lady feel bad for how she treated him. That be good enough revenge. I told him just don't tell people you visit their kid's graves or they might get mean. I even told him he needs to quit saying online he collects childrens shoes and longalls and likes hanging around toddlers or else he gets all this crap. He's been judged for what he collects and my reaction is "I suppose all those stupid people judge people who collect Happy Meal toys and other vintage toys."

Collecting children's toys? Socially appropriate. Lots of people do it (Barbie, GI Joe, Happy Meal etc). Adults hanging out with toddlers as friends, not socially appropriate and therefore he will be judged for it.

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Why does he refuse adult friends? Because they are all mean and judgmental and all those people are doing him a big favor to not be a man by calling him a pedo and judging him and calling him retarded. It makes him go to the little kids more because they don't judge him or hurt him and they are nice to him. Sad isn't it?

Yes, it's sad. No one should be treated that way. But he has to learn social skills that will get him by in the adult world because him hanging around toddler to befriend him only hurts him further. He is setting himself up as a target. There are actual classes that one can attend to learn adult social skills. Maybe he would benefit?

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With the rest of us, we just withdraw more from people and not go to kids to be with for our peers when we get the same crap minus the "pedohile." Even I can't stand lot of people because they are so ignorant and shallow, stupid but I don't let it stop me from talking to people or going to places or posting online or meeting aspies off the internet.

It's one of those things where no matter how innocent the intent is, you can't set yourself up to be a target. There are rules in society that we have to live by or else you end up making life very difficult for yourself.

I have nothing against you or your friend, SG. I'm just offering up the other side. ;)
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 08, 2009, 06:44:29 PM
Okay. Thanks for your understanding.


Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: RPM1978 on October 08, 2009, 06:49:46 PM


I bully my bullies. They don't deserve my respect.

And FYI, he was only visiting the grave of Bailey and he even befriended the mother and then she freaked out when he told her he moved to OK city to be closer to her child so she turned against him and was mean to him. But thanks to her, that's how he got diagnosed lol. He sees it as she helped him get that diagnoses because the judge ordered psychiatric treatment on him.
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Sounds to me like the Mom took things out of proportion

It so reminds me of the time that back when I worked at GAP Outlet, I was working in the backroom, and I heard a message on the walkie talkie where someone was asking if # 32 is OJ Simpson's Jersey number and a guy I worked with who had played football in High School said yes it is.

Later a co-worker who was involved in the incident that led to the question had told the story of what happened, a customer had come in and her kid was interested in a kids sports related shirt that had # 32 on it and this Mom says it might be OJ Simpson's Jersey number (hence the reason the question was asked).

So then when it is found out yes it is, the Mom complains and says you are representing a killer, and my co-worker says "excuse me lady, those shirts were made in Cambodia, the people who made them probably have no idea what Football is, the numbers were selected randomly on a computer, and we do not endorse any sports stars."

And the lady says "well you better be careful and you ought to be ashamed of yourselfs." then the 4 yr old asked if he could have that shirt and the Mom said "no, you will get made fun of for wearing the Jersey number of a man who killed his wife and got away with it."

And I was like # 32 can stand for any athlete for pete's sake, this lady was nuts.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: jman on October 08, 2009, 06:55:10 PM

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I bully my bullies. They don't deserve my respect.

And FYI, he was only visiting the grave of Bailey and he even befriended the mother and then she freaked out when he told her he moved to OK city to be closer to her child so she turned against him and was mean to him. But thanks to her, that's how he got diagnosed lol. He sees it as she helped him get that diagnoses because the judge ordered psychiatric treatment on him.

Sounds to me like the Mom took things out of proportion

It so reminds me of the time that back when I worked at GAP Outlet, I was working in the backroom, and I heard a message on the walkie talkie where someone was asking if # 32 is OJ Simpson's Jersey number and a guy I worked with who had played football in High School said yes it is.

Later a co-worker who was involved in the incident that led to the question had told the story of what happened, a customer had come in and her kid was interested in a kids sports related shirt that had # 32 on it and this Mom says it might be OJ Simpson's Jersey number (hence the reason the question was asked).

So then when it is found out yes it is, the Mom complains and says you are representing a killer, and my co-worker says "excuse me lady, those shirts were made in Cambodia, the people who made them probably have no idea what Football is, the numbers were selected randomly on a computer, and we do not endorse any sports stars."

And the lady says "well you better be careful and you ought to be ashamed of yourselfs." then the 4 yr old asked if he could have that shirt and the Mom said "no, you will get made fun of for wearing the Jersey number of a man who killed his wife and got away with it."

And I was like # 32 can stand for any athlete for pete's sake, this lady was nuts.
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 :lol: that funniest shit I've heard all day

now as far as the guy is concerned, you have to keep in mind that he relocated just so he could be close to the grave, that's fucked up. For all the mother knows he could be going there to jerk off. I know I wouldn't some guy always hanging out at my child's grave.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Celticgoddess on October 08, 2009, 06:58:16 PM
^ Well yeah, there's that too. :lol:
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: jman on October 08, 2009, 07:06:01 PM
Spokane how would you feel if I pissed on your grandfather's grave?
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: The_Chosen_One on October 08, 2009, 07:11:15 PM
Spokane how would you feel if I pissed on your grandfather's grave?

I dunno how she'd feel, but her granddad could probably use a drink. And possibly the graden might need a watering.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Celticgoddess on October 08, 2009, 07:12:48 PM
Here I try to be all thoughtful, diplomatic and take the time to explain and you guys waltz in as smartasses. :lol:
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: The_Chosen_One on October 08, 2009, 07:27:54 PM
Hey, I've got a T-shirt that says Smartass University on it.
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Celticgoddess on October 08, 2009, 07:30:45 PM
It's better to be a smartass then a dumbass ;)
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: The_Chosen_One on October 08, 2009, 07:41:16 PM
It's better to be a smartass then a dumbass ;)

True.  :thumbup:
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: RPM1978 on October 09, 2009, 12:01:27 AM
Spokane how would you feel if I pissed on your grandfather's grave?

I know I wouldn't be happy if anyone peed on the graves of any of my Grandparents but luckily those cemeteries are well protected as people of historical importance are also buried in those cemeteries (my Dad's parents are buried in the same cemetery as the founder of the city they are buried in, and my Mom's parents are buried in the same cemetery as a former Congressman).
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: Natalia Evans on October 09, 2009, 12:51:01 AM
"Hey why are you pissing there?"
Title: Re: Hey Bitchiane
Post by: The_Chosen_One on October 09, 2009, 01:50:08 AM
"Hey why are you pissing there?"

Cos over there was taken.