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Start here => What's your crime? Basic Discussion => Topic started by: ALLDAYGLOWRANDY on January 31, 2008, 01:55:49 PM
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I am not responding to your comments anymore about what you think I am.
You are not perfect, get over it.
You want to continue getting drunk and saying I am stupid, its up to you, I am just telling you don't waste your energy, I really don't care.
One who refused to look upon themselves has problems.
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I have problems. And I'm a wanker. I know it though :kinanna:
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you first randy.
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
Like what?
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I am not answering dumb questions, nor am I going to respond to dumb answers.
I have problems. And I'm a wanker. I know it though :kinanna:
Just don't be to hard on yourself, let me do that :bananas:
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I am perfect :zoinks:
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I am perfect :zoinks:
Yes and your mouth full of cunt.
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
but in your case, it's so much easier to find something to improve.
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what a stupid fucking topic this is. who gives a shit randy? take your natural cure remedy babbling bullshit on a forum about herbs dumbass
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I am perfect :zoinks:
Yes and your mouth full of cunt.
Oooh, yeah, you burned him.
Just because he's gotten closer
to pussy than you ever will.
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
but in your case, it's so much easier to find something to improve.
Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
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I am not responding to your comments anymore about what you think I am.
You are not perfect, get over it.
You want to continue getting drunk and saying I am stupid, its up to you, I am just telling you don't waste your energy, I really don't care.
One who refused to look upon themselves has problems.
You want the comments to stop? Then stop telling us how disabled we are.
(You can tell Hadron, though; he agrees with you, to an extent.)
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
but in your case, it's so much easier to find something to improve.
Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Well, he does struggle with bad self esteem, he is constantly searching for ways to improve himself. Doesn't sound to me that he is happy, but yeah, sure he is probably happier then most people here. Not happier then me though, I am perfectly fine if it wasn't for the fact that people are constantly dying and getting cancer. But other then that, I feel splendid.
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I am not responding to your comments anymore about what you think I am.
You are not perfect, get over it.
You want to continue getting drunk and saying I am stupid, its up to you, I am just telling you don't waste your energy, I really don't care.
One who refused to look upon themselves has problems.
You want the comments to stop? Then stop telling us how disabled we are.
(You can tell Hadron, though; he agrees with you, to an extent.)
Stop denying it then. At least Randy accepts he is who he is. Can you say that yourself?
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
but in your case, it's so much easier to find something to improve.
Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Well, he does struggle with bad self esteem, he is constantly searching for ways to improve himself. Doesn't sound to me that he is happy, but yeah, sure he is probably happier then most people here. Not happier then me though, I am perfectly fine if it wasn't for the fact that people are constantly dying and getting cancer. But other then that, I feel splendid.
I am probably a lot happier than most of the membership here. Though I do wish that I wasnt so ill most of the time. *sighs*
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I am perfect :zoinks:
Yes and your mouth full of cunt.
Jealous?
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I am not responding to your comments anymore about what you think I am.
You are not perfect, get over it.
You want to continue getting drunk and saying I am stupid, its up to you, I am just telling you don't waste your energy, I really don't care.
One who refused to look upon themselves has problems.
You want the comments to stop? Then stop telling us how disabled we are.
(You can tell Hadron, though; he agrees with you, to an extent.)
Stop denying it then. At least Randy accepts he is who he is. Can you say that yourself?
Yes, I accept what, and who, Randy is.
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I am not responding to your comments anymore about what you think I am.
You are not perfect, get over it.
You want to continue getting drunk and saying I am stupid, its up to you, I am just telling you don't waste your energy, I really don't care.
One who refused to look upon themselves has problems.
You want the comments to stop? Then stop telling us how disabled we are.
(You can tell Hadron, though; he agrees with you, to an extent.)
Stop denying it then. At least Randy accepts he is who he is. Can you say that yourself?
Yes, I accept what, and who, Randy is.
But you dont accept who you are yourself. Thats the real point.
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So what if he doesn't? Isn't it ok to think that you are the greatest while you are just a piece of shit instead of thinking of shitty you are and try to fix it up all the time? I don't get it Biggie.
If I accepted who I was I would be suicidal or something, but I don't because I do actually think that I am a good person, but I am not, but I am happy to think that I am.
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
and you know this how? you are the least 'fuctional', most retarded person on this board. you're too 'fuckn' deluded to even think to wipe your arse after you take a shit, and that you're somehow qualified to give sex advice despite being less likely to ever get any than most on this board due to being utterly without a fucking clue.
honestly, if it wasnt for the entertainment value and because I occasionally feel sorry for your cretinous self I'd have told you to get the fuck out of here long ago. not autistic my arse. you have so little theory of mind its hilarious - which is why the rest of us patrons - and the super fuctional NTs at WalMart you imagine yourself to be too good to work along side - are usually splitting our sides laughing at you.
enjoy the reality check ginseng boy - if you actually recognise it as one. fucktard.
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So what if he doesn't? Isn't it ok to think that you are the greatest while you are just a piece of shit instead of thinking of shitty you are and try to fix it up all the time? I don't get it Biggie.
If you dont recognise what problems you have, how can you attempt to solve them?
If I accepted who I was I would be suicidal or something, but I don't because I do actually think that I am a good person, but I am not, but I am happy to think that I am.
The problem with deluding yourself is that it all comes falling down at some point. That is when it really sucks.
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Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Probably. But, I rather view happiness
as a disability. :laugh:
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So what if he doesn't? Isn't it ok to think that you are the greatest while you are just a piece of shit instead of thinking of shitty you are and try to fix it up all the time? I don't get it Biggie.
If you dont recognise what problems you have, how can you attempt to solve them?
If I accepted who I was I would be suicidal or something, but I don't because I do actually think that I am a good person, but I am not, but I am happy to think that I am.
The problem with deluding yourself is that it all comes falling down at some point. That is when it really sucks.
No, not doing something about your problems isn't the same as thinking you are the greatest. BUT creating problems, which Randy does, is totally different, and if you can't see it, he has some serious self esteem issues. No, there is no problem with deluding yourself other then you feeling great and on top of the mountain. Whatever happens to you, you just think "It's ok, I'm great, I'll get through with this", while Randy just takes it all in and breaks down. Like he has done now with this thread. You see, his bad self esteem makes him take in everything negative that comes to him, which makes him very vulnerable and people notice that and go after him even more. But if you feel great, you don't take it in, you are rock hard, you just diss back and have fun.
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Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Probably. But, I rather view happiness
as a disability. :laugh:
How on earth did you come to that view? :laugh:
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I am not responding to your comments anymore about what you think I am.
You are not perfect, get over it.
You want to continue getting drunk and saying I am stupid, its up to you, I am just telling you don't waste your energy, I really don't care.
One who refused to look upon themselves has problems.
You want the comments to stop? Then stop telling us how disabled we are.
(You can tell Hadron, though; he agrees with you, to an extent.)
Stop denying it then. At least Randy accepts he is who he is. Can you say that yourself?
Yes, I accept what, and who, Randy is.
But you dont accept who you are yourself. Thats the real point.
I don't? And you'd know this how? A little heavy coming from a teenage wanker with delusions of adequacy locked away in a second-rate uni in the middle of nowhere, I must say.
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So what if he doesn't? Isn't it ok to think that you are the greatest while you are just a piece of shit instead of thinking of shitty you are and try to fix it up all the time? I don't get it Biggie.
If you dont recognise what problems you have, how can you attempt to solve them?
If I accepted who I was I would be suicidal or something, but I don't because I do actually think that I am a good person, but I am not, but I am happy to think that I am.
The problem with deluding yourself is that it all comes falling down at some point. That is when it really sucks.
No, not doing something about your problems isn't the same as thinking you are the greatest. BUT creating problems, which Randy does, is totally different, and if you can't see it, he has some serious self esteem issues.
Nothing wrong with creating problems to solve, I do it at times when I am bored. Randy does take this a little too far though, but bear in mind the guy has gotten over cancer. That in itself is quite an achievement.
No, there is no problem with deluding yourself other then you feeling great and on top of the mountain. Whatever happens to you, you just think "It's ok, I'm great, I'll get through with this", while Randy just takes it all in and breaks down.
He doesnt break down anything like as hard as you will do when reality shows and bites you hard.
Like he has done now with this thread. You see, his bad self esteem makes him take in everything negative that comes to him, which makes him very vulnerable and people notice that and go after him even more. But if you feel great, you don't take it in, you are rock hard, you just diss back and have fun.
No, for most people, if you are on an internet forum you are either ill (so stuck at your computer at times), or miserable.
I am not responding to your comments anymore about what you think I am.
You are not perfect, get over it.
You want to continue getting drunk and saying I am stupid, its up to you, I am just telling you don't waste your energy, I really don't care.
One who refused to look upon themselves has problems.
You want the comments to stop? Then stop telling us how disabled we are.
(You can tell Hadron, though; he agrees with you, to an extent.)
Stop denying it then. At least Randy accepts he is who he is. Can you say that yourself?
Yes, I accept what, and who, Randy is.
But you dont accept who you are yourself. Thats the real point.
I don't? And you'd know this how? A little heavy coming from a teenage wanker with delusions of adequacy locked away in a second-rate uni in the middle of nowhere, I must say.
You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
but in your case, it's so much easier to find something to improve.
Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Well, he does struggle with bad self esteem, he is constantly searching for ways to improve himself. Doesn't sound to me that he is happy, but yeah, sure he is probably happier then most people here. Not happier then me though, I am perfectly fine if it wasn't for the fact that people are constantly dying and getting cancer. But other then that, I feel splendid.
flo is deluded, if not actually delusional. and this isn't a snide comment - i'm talking clinically, here.
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
but in your case, it's so much easier to find something to improve.
Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Well, he does struggle with bad self esteem, he is constantly searching for ways to improve himself. Doesn't sound to me that he is happy, but yeah, sure he is probably happier then most people here. Not happier then me though, I am perfectly fine if it wasn't for the fact that people are constantly dying and getting cancer. But other then that, I feel splendid.
I am probably a lot happier than most of the membership here. Though I do wish that I wasnt so ill most of the time. *sighs*
:LMAO:
what a fucking emo! get the back of your hand off your forehead, you pathetic draaaaaaama queen!
:LMAO:
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
but in your case, it's so much easier to find something to improve.
Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Well, he does struggle with bad self esteem, he is constantly searching for ways to improve himself. Doesn't sound to me that he is happy, but yeah, sure he is probably happier then most people here. Not happier then me though, I am perfectly fine if it wasn't for the fact that people are constantly dying and getting cancer. But other then that, I feel splendid.
I am probably a lot happier than most of the membership here. Though I do wish that I wasnt so ill most of the time. *sighs*
:LMAO:
what a fucking emo! get the back of your hand off your forehead, you pathetic draaaaaaama queen!
:LMAO:
I could quote my doctor instead, if you like. In person I can just pull out my bottle of narcotic painkillers.
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By creating problems you just make it harder for yourself, and doing it because you are bored is even more disturbing. You don't sound so well. Yes, he has gotten cancer, but as it seems like it right now, so does most people. Sure, it is a tough thing to handle but it has nothing to do with self esteem and happiness (other that happiness might shrink VERY much).
You have no idea how I will handle things when "reality shows"? All I am saying is that instead of being insecure about my body and my everything is that I just feel great about who I am, nothing anyone can say will change it, and trust me people have tried. For all my life I've heard that I'm ugly and stupid, but I don't think so, and that is what really matters.
No, for most people that is on the internet it's either killing time (instead of creating problems for you), meeting new people or just simply job. Or learning something new. If you seriously think that most people isn't well and that's why they are in a forum, then WHY are you hear? What message are you sending to us?
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
but in your case, it's so much easier to find something to improve.
Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Well, he does struggle with bad self esteem, he is constantly searching for ways to improve himself. Doesn't sound to me that he is happy, but yeah, sure he is probably happier then most people here. Not happier then me though, I am perfectly fine if it wasn't for the fact that people are constantly dying and getting cancer. But other then that, I feel splendid.
I am probably a lot happier than most of the membership here. Though I do wish that I wasnt so ill most of the time. *sighs*
:LMAO:
what a fucking emo! get the back of your hand off your forehead, you pathetic draaaaaaama queen!
:LMAO:
I could quote my doctor instead, if you like. In person I can just pull out my bottle of narcotic painkillers.
your doctor has prescribed a course of melodrama for you? how extraordinary.
:LMAO:
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
but in your case, it's so much easier to find something to improve.
Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Well, he does struggle with bad self esteem, he is constantly searching for ways to improve himself. Doesn't sound to me that he is happy, but yeah, sure he is probably happier then most people here. Not happier then me though, I am perfectly fine if it wasn't for the fact that people are constantly dying and getting cancer. But other then that, I feel splendid.
I am probably a lot happier than most of the membership here. Though I do wish that I wasnt so ill most of the time. *sighs*
:LMAO:
what a fucking emo! get the back of your hand off your forehead, you pathetic draaaaaaama queen!
:LMAO:
I could quote my doctor instead, if you like. In person I can just pull out my bottle of narcotic painkillers.
your doctor has prescribed a course of melodrama for you? how extraordinary.
:LMAO:
And schrooms for yourself? Yes, now I see the connection...
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
As for what you should deny, reread the thread. I dont want to insult the intelligence of the other members here by reposting.
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
oh? i thought you went to durham?
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Not really. I suspect Randy is a lot happier than the majority of people on here. Asides, he is right to an extent, lots of you sit around and whine about too much.
Probably. But, I rather view happiness
as a disability. :laugh:
How on earth did you come to that view? :laugh:
A sign that one is hiding from the horror
of the truth.
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I'd rather live a happy life being confident in myself and then at one time being brought down to earth and be truly miserable rather then being truly miserable all the time and not experience happiness and self-confidence.
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:sheep:
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
oh? i thought you went to durham?
Which is top in some areas of Maths and Physics. The only reason Oxford still top the league tables (ones written by their own graduates I might add) is because they have a large asset base. Completely ignoring the fact that this asset base is functionally as useful as a modern one costing a quarter of the price. If that were taken into account, Oxford would sink.
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How long are you going to have this chip on your shoulder for?
Get over it already. :toporly:
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
oh? i thought you went to durham?
Which is top in some areas of Maths and Physics. The only reason Oxford still top the league tables (ones written by their own graduates I might add) is because they have a large asset base. Completely ignoring the fact that this asset base is functionally as useful as a modern one costing a quarter of the price. If that were taken into account, Oxford would sink.
You wouldn't be saying that if you'd got in :zoinks:
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How long are you going to have this chip on your shoulder for?
Get over it already. :toporly:
It wasnt me who raised it. Though I would not be disappointed to see Oxford wrecked at all.
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How long are you going to have this chip on your shoulder for?
Get over it already. :toporly:
It wasnt me who raised it. Though I would not be disappointed to see Oxford wrecked at all.
Well that makes two of us. I'm just happy i didnt go to Durham.
Edit: Hey: that's all you are getting off me, i'm not feeding your grudge any longer.
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I'm pissed I didn't get into CMU. :laugh:
There were people working on
shit I'm interested in there.
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How long are you going to have this chip on your shoulder for?
Get over it already. :toporly:
you beat me to it.
::)
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You've been REALLY slow, recently.
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I always look for ways to improve, you have not.
::) Gee, it's nice to know that you have judged my entire life a waste! ::)
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I am not responding to your comments anymore about what you think I am.
You are not perfect, get over it.
You want to continue getting drunk and saying I am stupid, its up to you, I am just telling you don't waste your energy, I really don't care.
One who refused to look upon themselves has problems.
Seriously. QQ Moar.
:bigcry: time for you Randy.
You can tell how super serious I am when I use memes.
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I am not responding to your comments anymore about what you think I am.
You are not perfect, get over it.
You want to continue getting drunk and saying I am stupid, its up to you, I am just telling you don't waste your energy, I really don't care.
One who refused to look upon themselves has problems.
So do you not want to be a member here anymore Randy?
Why do you come here if you think we all have a problem (and don't post any of that "helping" bs either, all I have seen you do lately is insult people.)?
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You've been REALLY slow, recently.
the O Meister keeps distracting me. :eyebrows:
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
As for what you should deny, reread the thread. I dont want to insult the intelligence of the other members here by reposting.
Some shit about me denying that I'm myself, or something to that effect. And no, I'm not denying I'm me. I'm not denying that Flo is Flo, either, which was your first insinuation.
Now, if you can get reading assistance at that second-rate uni of yours, I say go for it. You really, really need it.
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
oh? i thought you went to durham?
Classic. :LMAO: :plus:
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You've been REALLY slow, recently.
the O Meister keeps distracting me. :eyebrows:
Moi?
:angel:
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You've been REALLY slow, recently.
the O Meister keeps distracting me. :eyebrows:
Moi?
:angel:
toi.
and you can get rid of the angel, unless its very, very fallen, you psycho hose sex beast.
:laugh:
:-*
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
As for what you should deny, reread the thread. I dont want to insult the intelligence of the other members here by reposting.
Some shit about me denying that I'm myself, or something to that effect. And no, I'm not denying I'm me. I'm not denying that Flo is Flo, either, which was your first insinuation.
Now, if you can get reading assistance at that second-rate uni of yours, I say go for it. You really, really need it.
I thought Odeon was being himself and Randy was being himself.....
what, are you telling me this site is full of fakes??????????????? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
As for what you should deny, reread the thread. I dont want to insult the intelligence of the other members here by reposting.
Some shit about me denying that I'm myself, or something to that effect. And no, I'm not denying I'm me. I'm not denying that Flo is Flo, either, which was your first insinuation.
Now, if you can get reading assistance at that second-rate uni of yours, I say go for it. You really, really need it.
I thought Odeon was being himself and Randy was being himself.....
what, are you telling me this site is full of fakes??????????????? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
noooooo! odeon is being everybody, and flo is being ginseng poster boy.
and the site is full of flakes, yes.
:laugh:
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But we think that Hadron is probably Flo.
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or something.
hang on a tick...
are you telling me what to think again?
/zombie
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But we think that Hadron is probably Flo.
Hadron is too coherent to be Flo, Nobody can't really imitate his posts, they do not make sense a lot of the time, but they have a style to them.
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But we think that Hadron is probably Flo.
Hadron is too coherent to be Flo, Nobody can't really imitate his posts, they do not make sense a lot of the time, but they have a style to them.
So it's the other way around? Flo is hadron on pills?
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So it's the other way around? Flo is hadron on pills?
I do not think so, Flo consider himself above the need for meds, well prescribed ones, he is a big user of herbal supplements although. Hadron would need to be extremely obsessive about sex, make really crude jokes and sexual remarks, before I would start changing my mind.
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I am kidding, actually. ;)
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
As for what you should deny, reread the thread. I dont want to insult the intelligence of the other members here by reposting.
Some shit about me denying that I'm myself, or something to that effect. And no, I'm not denying I'm me. I'm not denying that Flo is Flo, either, which was your first insinuation.
No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Now, if you can get reading assistance at that second-rate uni of yours, I say go for it. You really, really need it.
They run courses for the international students. Want me to enroll you on one?
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But we think that Hadron is probably Flo.
He is my sockpuppet, did you not know?
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But we think that Hadron is probably Flo.
He is my sockpuppet, did you not know?
In that case, nice work posting the stuff about playing tiddlers. That really threw me off thinking you could be the same person, since I know Randy's not gay.
;D
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But we think that Hadron is probably Flo.
He is my sockpuppet, did you not know?
In that case, nice work posting the stuff about playing tiddlers. That really threw me off thinking you could be the same person, since I know Randy's not gay.
;D
:laugh:
Neither of us are, we are just very secure about our sexuality.
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
As for what you should deny, reread the thread. I dont want to insult the intelligence of the other members here by reposting.
Some shit about me denying that I'm myself, or something to that effect. And no, I'm not denying I'm me. I'm not denying that Flo is Flo, either, which was your first insinuation.
No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Now, if you can get reading assistance at that second-rate uni of yours, I say go for it. You really, really need it.
They run courses for the international students. Want me to enroll you on one?
Americanised Brit.
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You dont even bother to deny it, looks like I am right yet again. The rest of your comment is well more deluded than anything Randy has said here on a really bad day.
And go and indulge on your misery, you seem to almost thrive on it...
You still haven't specified what it is I should deny. Does the second-rate uni offer help with your reading problems?
What second rate uni. My departments are top in the country for the areas that I am interested in.
As for what you should deny, reread the thread. I dont want to insult the intelligence of the other members here by reposting.
Some shit about me denying that I'm myself, or something to that effect. And no, I'm not denying I'm me. I'm not denying that Flo is Flo, either, which was your first insinuation.
No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Now, if you can get reading assistance at that second-rate uni of yours, I say go for it. You really, really need it.
They run courses for the international students. Want me to enroll you on one?
Americanised Brit.
I typed it in as enrol, the auto correct made it enroll
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No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Get that second-rate uni of your to help you with the writing, too. ::)
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No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Get that second-rate uni of your to help you with the writing, too. ::)
Why dont you make an application, you could make me go to all my lectures ::)
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blimey, O Man - he wants me to move in with him and you go to his uni. d'you reckon he's some sort of swinger?
:yikes:
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No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Get that second-rate uni of your to help you with the writing, too. ::)
Why don't you make an application? You could make me go to all my lectures... ::)
I just had to...
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No, shut the fuck up, all of you, I am sick of your aspie selfishness, you can do better. Its that part that makes me sick.
I was tried yesterday, I am not psychotic or depressed, just was simply tired.
Tell me I am stupid, while you make depressive statements 5 minutes later.
You have been pissing me off since I got on this internet, and I told you right off the back. When did you say sorry?, just simple social skill. You know who esle dose that shit, my girlfriend. It don't feel good to say sorry?
I admited I was acting nutty, and told you why. Stupid fuckn gluten, dairy, lack of sleep, and trauma was driving me nuts, but I tried to deal with it. You just kept getting drunk, and some of you still do, while calling me stupid. I can't imagine why I am so impervious to your rationale.
I won't respond to your nonsense, about this and that one's dx, while you be selfish and not consider their feelings. Just a simple sorry would have been nice, but no!!!!!!!!!
If you make the effort, I will listen, but I am not responding anymore to your bullshit, that you need to stick back up your ass so far, it comes out your mouth.
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I am not responding anymore to your bullshit
yay!
:woohoo:
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I am not responding anymore to your bullshit
yay!
:woohoo:
You want back flips, 50 push ups, and cheese fries now? :laugh:
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I am not responding anymore to your bullshit
yay!
:woohoo:
Guess again...
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I am not responding anymore to your bullshit
yay!
:woohoo:
You want back flips, 50 push ups, and cheese fries now? :laugh:
you do the monkey tricks, i'll have the cheesy chips. ta.
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I am not responding anymore to your bullshit
yay!
:woohoo:
Guess again...
why am i not surprised...?
:laugh:
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I am not responding anymore to your bullshit
yay!
:woohoo:
You want back flips, 50 push ups, and cheese fries now? :laugh:
you do the monkey tricks, i'll have the cheesy chips. ta.
Yes, I do stand out from the out of shape fat assed idiots, especially the ones with additional problems, like getting drunk.
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Most productive quick way to deal with such things is to help abolish those behaviors.
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Most productive quick way to deal with such things is to gnaw my own head off.
fixed.
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Most productive quick way to deal with such things is to gnaw my own head off.
fixed.
Yes, your head was attached to body :laugh:
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Yeah those Fuckn intensity members I hate them all the worthless sacks of shit :evillaugh:
Oh wait a minute I'm one, never mind.
Those fuckn people who bitch about intensity members :litigious:
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Yeah those Fuckn intensity members I hate them all the worthless sacks of shit :evillaugh:
Oh wait a minute I'm one, never mind.
Those fuckn people who bitch about intensity members :litigious:
Yes fuck them, they have it so much better, they don't need alcohol to feel good about themselves. Fuck them with lots of women. :laugh:
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Yeah those Fuckn intensity members I hate them all the worthless sacks of shit :evillaugh:
Oh wait a minute I'm one, never mind.
Those fuckn people who bitch about intensity members :litigious:
Yes fuck them, they have it so much better, they don't need alcohol to feel good about themselves. Fuck them with lots of women. :laugh:
John Alden is my direct descendent, who settled disputes with indians and came from mayflower.
My wife's direct descendant lead the colonists in the Pequot Massacre and killed lots of Indians
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Most productive quick way to deal with such things is to gnaw my own head off.
fixed.
Yes, your head was attached to body :laugh:
thank christing fuck for that.
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Yeah those Fuckn intensity members I hate them all the worthless sacks of shit :evillaugh:
Oh wait a minute I'm one, never mind.
Those fuckn people who bitch about intensity members :litigious:
Yes fuck them, they have it so much better, they don't need alcohol to feel good about themselves. Fuck them with lots of women. :laugh:
John Alden is my direct descendent, who settled disputes with indians and came from mayflower.
My wife's direct descendant lead the colonists in the Pequot Massacre and killed lots of Indians
Aren't you an aspie, with little or no social skills? :laugh:
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Ok, that was low.
I will be quite now, It may hurt later.
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randy why are you using a sock puppet?
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I am not responding anymore to your bullshit
yay!
:woohoo:
You want back flips, 50 push ups, and cheese fries now? :laugh:
you do the monkey tricks, i'll have the cheesy chips. ta.
Yes, I do stand out from the out of shape fat assed idiots, especially the ones with additional problems, like getting drunk.
Getting drunk isnt a problem. Not unless you are a Muslim.
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randy why are you using a sock puppet?
cos Mr fuckn fuctional self-actualiser changed his password since he kept getting his account doctored, then promptly forgot it. :hahaha:
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really?
:LMAO:
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No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Get that second-rate uni of your to help you with the writing, too. ::)
Why dont you make an application, you could make me go to all my lectures ::)
You'd still have to do the work yourself. Lazy sod.
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No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Get that second-rate uni of your to help you with the writing, too. ::)
Why dont you make an application, you could make me go to all my lectures ::)
You'd still have to do the work yourself. Lazy sod.
True, but you could save me trawling though all those keeping of term emails I get...
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randy why are you using a sock puppet?
cos Mr fuckn fuctional self-actualiser changed his password since he kept getting his account doctored, then promptly forgot it. :hahaha:
We have told him that he can reset the original account,
haven't we? :angel:
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randy why are you using a sock puppet?
cos Mr fuckn fuctional self-actualiser changed his password since he kept getting his account doctored, then promptly forgot it. :hahaha:
We have told him that he can reset the original account,
haven't we? :angel:
Of course we have. I even offered to do it for him.
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No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Get that second-rate uni of your to help you with the writing, too. ::)
Why dont you make an application, you could make me go to all my lectures ::)
You'd still have to do the work yourself. Lazy sod.
True, but you could save me trawling though all those keeping of term emails I get...
Why would I do that?
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No, you are missing my point that Flo is happier than yourself....
Get that second-rate uni of your to help you with the writing, too. ::)
Why dont you make an application, you could make me go to all my lectures ::)
You'd still have to do the work yourself. Lazy sod.
True, but you could save me trawling though all those keeping of term emails I get...
Why would I do that?
Because you are bored. I just ignore them anyway...
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damn, how does one go about forgetting there password? and why wouldnt they let the admins fix it for them????????????? something aint right with randy :laugh:
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;)
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damn, how does one go about forgetting there password? and why wouldnt they let the admins fix it for them????????????? something aint right with randy :laugh:
Therein lies the riddle, wrapped in an enigma and is the Rubiks cube that is Ginsengboy! Just when you come up with the answer, he changes the question. :P
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:indeed: :plus:
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damn, how does one go about forgetting there password? and why wouldnt they let the admins fix it for them????????????? something aint right with randy :laugh:
He has a sister who knows how to lock him out, or even borrow his acc.
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I don't think she locked him out.
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No, I think he has trouble remembering the password.
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No, I think he has trouble remembering what day it is.
fixed.
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No, I think he has trouble remembering what day it is.
fixed.
Month even?
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planet?
:laugh:
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planet?
:laugh:
galaxy? ;)
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reality?
:LMAO:
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No, I think he has trouble.
Fixed. :P
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reality?
:LMAO:
:laugh:
Quasality?
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No, I think he has truama issues.
Fixed. :P
properly fixed. :laugh:
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:LMAO: :rofl: :LMAO: :plus:
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/me remembers the rules for nirvana, let go of negative emotions. We all have our issues. Just because I have sticky fingers doesn't mean I am stupid, infact, I have liked to read for a long time, I just stopped from emotional issues. Working out did help to manage those, so I continued. You talk out your asshole, and wonder why I don't listen to your rationale. Quite a few of you are getting drunk also, that doesn't help your intellegence or mood. That is more dumb, and I hope you stop your ominous behavior. :) Alcoholics symptoms partially mirror aspergers syndrome, however the person with this syndrome fairs far better. It would seem smart that such a person should not add to their disabillity. The disablity in question should be set on a healthy base of good habits.
It seems desperate to poke fun at typos. :laugh:
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/me remembers the rules for nirvana, let go of negative emotions. We all have our issues. Just because I have sticky fingers doesn't mean I am stupid, infact, I have liked to read for a long time, I just stopped from emotional issues. Working out did help to manage those, so I continued. You talk out your asshole, and wonder why I don't listen to your rationale. Quite a few of you are getting drunk also, that doesn't help your intellegence or mood. That is more dumb, and I hope you stop your ominous behavior. :) Alcoholics symptoms partially mirror aspergers syndrome, however the person with this syndrome fairs far better. It would seem smart that such a person should not add to their disabillity. The disablity in question should be set on a healthy base of good habits.
It seems desperate to poke fun at typos. :laugh:
but more charitable, given what people could poke fun at.
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/me remembers the rules for nirvana, let go of negative emotions. We all have our issues. Just because I have sticky fingers doesn't mean I am stupid, infact, I have liked to read for a long time, I just stopped from emotional issues. Working out did help to manage those, so I continued. You talk out your asshole, and wonder why I don't listen to your rationale. Quite a few of you are getting drunk also, that doesn't help your intellegence or mood. That is more dumb, and I hope you stop your ominous behavior. :) Alcoholics symptoms partially mirror aspergers syndrome, however the person with this syndrome fairs far better. It would seem smart that such a person should not add to their disabillity. The disablity in question should be set on a healthy base of good habits.
It seems desperate to poke fun at typos. :laugh:
but more charitable, given what people could poke fun at.
I hold my ground, you don't have anything, it would me more talk out your asshole, and I won't respond to your nonsense. Really, you should know me better than that, I knew you were going to say that. If you expecting less, you don't have a brain.
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You could not pay me any money in the world to be any one of you, especially the ones with drinking problems.
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/me remembers the rules for nirvana, let go of negative emotions. We all have our issues. Just because I have sticky fingers doesn't mean I am stupid, infact, I have liked to read for a long time, I just stopped from emotional issues. Working out did help to manage those, so I continued. You talk out your asshole, and wonder why I don't listen to your rationale. Quite a few of you are getting drunk also, that doesn't help your intellegence or mood. That is more dumb, and I hope you stop your ominous behavior. :) Alcoholics symptoms partially mirror aspergers syndrome, however the person with this syndrome fairs far better. It would seem smart that such a person should not add to their disabillity. The disablity in question should be set on a healthy base of good habits.
It seems desperate to poke fun at typos. :laugh:
but more charitable, given what people could poke fun at.
:agreed: :plus:
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You could not pay me any money in the world to be any one of you, especially the ones with drinking problems.
What? Not even me? I'd be awesome to be. :)
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I doubt that there's a male on
here, that I'd want to be.
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I know I'd rather be an alcoholic than a creepy asshole. At least I could eventually give up alcohol or even stop drinking for periods at a time.
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I can stop being a creepy ass
now and then though. :laugh:
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Quite a few of you are getting drunk also, that doesn't help your intellegence or mood. That is more dumb, and I hope you stop your ominous behavior. :)
What is with you and talking about alcohol all of a sudden?
Also, you seem to be lumping a lot of us into the same group. I have never been drunk in my life.
Why don't you go to another forum where your "self-actualising" will be appreciated? There has to be one out there. Somewhere. Maybe.
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People drink for different reasons as well
I think people who go out binge drinking and throwing up in the streets every night are kind of sad really, but then who am I to judge? :lol:
I drink at home alone, in the middle of the night
I know it's not good, I don't feel great about it, but people have different reasons for doing it, and sometimes it's the only things that helps
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Why don't you go to another forum where your "self-actualising" will be appreciated? There has to be one out there. Somewhere. Maybe.
I appreciate it. Good comedy,
now and then.
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People drink for different reasons as well
I think people who go out binge drinking and throwing up in the streets every night are kind of sad really
:finger:
I drink at home alone, in the middle of the night
Emo!
I've never been able to get drunk on my
own, except listening to music. Having a
good time. I never drink for depression.
I know it's not good, I don't feel great about it, but people have different reasons for doing it, and sometimes it's the only things that helps
Yeah. I'm not proud of my drinking.
Much the opposite. It's a bad habit,
when it becomes one. I'm trying to
fight it, now. But, it's so fucking easy
to just want more.
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People drink for different reasons as well
I think people who go out binge drinking and throwing up in the streets every night are kind of sad really
:finger:
I drink at home alone, in the middle of the night
Emo!
I've never been able to get drunk on my
own, except listening to music. Having a
good time. I never drink for depression.
I know it's not good, I don't feel great about it, but people have different reasons for doing it, and sometimes it's the only things that helps
Yeah. I'm not proud of my drinking.
Much the opposite. It's a bad habit,
when it becomes one. I'm trying to
fight it, now. But, it's so fucking easy
to just want more.
Yeah
If there's alcohol there now, I'll drink it
I know I should try not to though, or at least not much
I tried drinking for fun when I was younger
Didn't do anything for me though
I actually have a reason now though and it actually helps with something
So even though it tastes like piss, I will still drink it :laugh:
And I am not emo :P
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If you like drinking piss, we should try and
hook you up with lit, even if you're a bit
old for him.
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I can stop being a creepy ass
now and then though. :laugh:
That's not what the restraining order says :toporly:
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I can stop being a creepy ass
now and then though. :laugh:
That's not what the restraining order says :toporly:
:lol:
:plus:
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You could not pay me any money in the world to be any one of you, especially the ones with drinking problems.
Nor would we accept money for you to be us. :finger:
As far as the drinking goes. I would not bother Randy.
Sober Randy, drunk Randy.....you would still be Randy. :evillaugh:
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I can stop being a creepy ass
now and then though. :laugh:
That's not what the restraining order says :toporly:
Only because I only pick on those in power.
Well, and those I just can't HELP picking on.
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Quite a few of you are getting drunk also, that doesn't help your intellegence or mood. That is more dumb, and I hope you stop your ominous behavior. :)
What is with you and talking about alcohol all of a sudden?
Also, you seem to be lumping a lot of us into the same group. I have never been drunk in my life.
Why don't you go to another forum where your "self-actualising" will be appreciated? There has to be one out there. Somewhere. Maybe.
:lol:
(can't plus you, cos i just have, for the shoes :heart: ).
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I guess I have to spell it out for you, I am prone to getting annoyed easier when you say I am stupid because I am working so hard. I honestly don't find myself stupid over typo, I would certainly get depressed very easily, then you might have something over me. Renaeden, I was refering to the others, and no offense when you get confused, it looks dumber than when I make a typo. Typos are not as bothersome to me as you getting confused. Although, I would rather have everything equal, even if that means I have to ask for some help. Smart people can ask for help if they need it. You have what your good at.
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Quite a few of you are getting drunk also, that doesn't help your intellegence or mood. That is more dumb, and I hope you stop your ominous behavior. :)
What is with you and talking about alcohol all of a sudden?
Some peoples lives revolve around the stuff, I dont see why it should be a talking point. Its a change from the Ginseng.
Also, you seem to be lumping a lot of us into the same group. I have never been drunk in my life.
Thats pretty sad if you havent to be honest with you. Having said that, I suspect you have been wasted on more than one occasion, giving the different meds you have tried.
Why don't you go to another forum where your "self-actualising" will be appreciated? There has to be one out there. Somewhere. Maybe.
It is appreciated, I find Randy hilarious. Do things have to be universally popular or something now...?
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Also, you seem to be lumping a lot of us into the same group. I have never been drunk in my life.
Thats pretty sad if you havent to be honest with you. Having said that, I suspect you have been wasted on more than one occasion, giving the different meds you have tried.
That's bullshit
If it weren't for depression, I would never have been drunk either, and would have no intention of getting drunk
Some people can actually have a good time without getting fucked off their face
What you view as being a worthwhile way to spend your time, isn't necessarily what everyone else wants to do
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Also, you seem to be lumping a lot of us into the same group. I have never been drunk in my life.
Thats pretty sad if you havent to be honest with you. Having said that, I suspect you have been wasted on more than one occasion, giving the different meds you have tried.
That's bullshit
If it weren't for depression, I would never have been drunk either, and would have no intention of getting drunk
If you were not depressed you would go out and have the almost obligatory drink, or at least I hope.
Some people can actually have a good time without getting fucked off their face
What you view as being a worthwhile way to spend your time, isn't necessarily what everyone else wants to do
You dont have to get fucked off your face all the time, but if you try alcohol there is an inevitability you are going to get drunk, until you know your limits.
As for some people, who on here are you referring to on here?
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Rationalizing one's behavior doesn't usually help, and there seems to be some of that going on here.
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Also, you seem to be lumping a lot of us into the same group. I have never been drunk in my life.
Thats pretty sad if you havent to be honest with you. Having said that, I suspect you have been wasted on more than one occasion, giving the different meds you have tried.
That's bullshit
If it weren't for depression, I would never have been drunk either, and would have no intention of getting drunk
If you were not depressed you would go out and have the almost obligatory drink, or at least I hope.
Some people can actually have a good time without getting fucked off their face
What you view as being a worthwhile way to spend your time, isn't necessarily what everyone else wants to do
You dont have to get fucked off your face all the time, but if you try alcohol there is an inevitability you are going to get drunk, until you know your limits.
As for some people, who on here are you referring to on here?
I doubt I would go out and have a drink even if I wasn't depressed. I've been to the pub before and didn't like it, was a waste of time for me
I dion't like alcohol so unless I want to get drunk, I doubt I'd have any reason to drink it
And I have tried alcohol a lot without getting drunk
Having a couple of drinks now and then is one thing, actually getting pissed is another
The "some people" was in general
I don't think I was referring to anyone on here
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Btw I'm not bothered about people getting drunk, I'm not criticisng you for that or anything - it was just the assumption that it's sad not to that I disagreed with
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Also, you seem to be lumping a lot of us into the same group. I have never been drunk in my life.
Thats pretty sad if you havent to be honest with you. Having said that, I suspect you have been wasted on more than one occasion, giving the different meds you have tried.
That's bullshit
If it weren't for depression, I would never have been drunk either, and would have no intention of getting drunk
If you were not depressed you would go out and have the almost obligatory drink, or at least I hope.
Some people can actually have a good time without getting fucked off their face
What you view as being a worthwhile way to spend your time, isn't necessarily what everyone else wants to do
You dont have to get fucked off your face all the time, but if you try alcohol there is an inevitability you are going to get drunk, until you know your limits.
As for some people, who on here are you referring to on here?
I doubt I would go out and have a drink even if I wasn't depressed. I've been to the pub before and didn't like it, was a waste of time for me
I dion't like alcohol so unless I want to get drunk, I doubt I'd have any reason to drink it
Yes you would. Being more social almost certainly will drag you into it, until you enjoy your drink.
And I have tried alcohol a lot without getting drunk
Having a couple of drinks now and then is one thing, actually getting pissed is another
But if you do drink socially, eventually you will get drunk. Its almost a certainty
The "some people" was in general
I don't think I was referring to anyone on here
Muslims?
Btw I'm not bothered about people getting drunk, I'm not criticisng you for that or anything - it was just the assumption that it's sad not to that I disagreed with
It is sad, when you examine the reasons why.
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I doubt I would go out and have a drink even if I wasn't depressed. I've been to the pub before and didn't like it, was a waste of time for me
I dion't like alcohol so unless I want to get drunk, I doubt I'd have any reason to drink it
Yes you would. Being more social almost certainly will drag you into it, until you enjoy your drink.
No I wouldn't
My not going out drinking isn't down to depression, or even just anxiety.
When I was younger I wasn't depressed like this, and my anxiety wasn't as severe, I went out sometimes and never got drunk
And I have tried alcohol a lot without getting drunk
Having a couple of drinks now and then is one thing, actually getting pissed is another
But if you do drink socially, eventually you will get drunk. Its almost a certainty
It depends
I could go out and have a couple drinks and not get drunk
I've drank plenty of times, without getting drunk
The "some people" was in general
I don't think I was referring to anyone on here
Muslims?
I don't get drunk except to deal with depression, and I'm not muslim
I'm atheist and can't stand religion
You don't have to be muslim to have no desire to get pissed
Btw I'm not bothered about people getting drunk, I'm not criticisng you for that or anything - it was just the assumption that it's sad not to that I disagreed with
It is sad, when you examine the reasons why.
Not everyone's reasons are the same
SOME people don't drink becuase of their religion or their upbringing and think it's "wrong" or whatever
But there are plenty of people who just don't want to
That's not sad
What WOULD be sad, is those people then drinking anyway just because other people are or other people are telling them to
I don't think it's sad to not do something just because you don't want to
It makes sense
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I doubt I would go out and have a drink even if I wasn't depressed. I've been to the pub before and didn't like it, was a waste of time for me
I dion't like alcohol so unless I want to get drunk, I doubt I'd have any reason to drink it
Yes you would. Being more social almost certainly will drag you into it, until you enjoy your drink.
No I wouldn't
My not going out drinking isn't down to depression, or even just anxiety.
When I was younger I wasn't depressed like this, and my anxiety wasn't as severe, I went out sometimes and never got drunk
Because you didnt enjoy going out in the first place. If you are enjoying yourself, the last thing you pay attention to is your alcohol intake.
And I have tried alcohol a lot without getting drunk
Having a couple of drinks now and then is one thing, actually getting pissed is another
But if you do drink socially, eventually you will get drunk. Its almost a certainty
It depends
I could go out and have a couple drinks and not get drunk
I've drank plenty of times, without getting drunk
So have I. Although there have been occasions when I have overstepped the mark, which happen if you go out drinking often enough, especially as a student.
The "some people" was in general
I don't think I was referring to anyone on here
Muslims?
I don't get drunk except to deal with depression, and I'm not muslim
I'm atheist and can't stand religion
You don't have to be muslim to have no desire to get pissed
Yeah, but that does mean you have little or no reason not to get pissed. (not that being a member of some bullshit religion is an excuse)
Btw I'm not bothered about people getting drunk, I'm not criticisng you for that or anything - it was just the assumption that it's sad not to that I disagreed with
It is sad, when you examine the reasons why.
Not everyone's reasons are the same
SOME people don't drink becuase of their religion or their upbringing and think it's "wrong" or whatever
Its really sad that they define themselves on whatever circumstances they were born into.
But there are plenty of people who just don't want to
That's not sad
What WOULD be sad, is those people then drinking anyway just because other people are or other people are telling them to
What is sad is that they dont trust their friends at all. Most people who refuse to drink do it because of one form of cowardice or another.
I don't think it's sad to not do something just because you don't want to
It makes sense
No, what makes sense is you try new things. If you dont try new things, you become a recluse
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You're quite used to making those excuses, aren't you?
("I don't have a problem, I just like to socialise.")
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You're quite used to making those excuses, aren't you?
("I don't have a problem, I just like to socialise.")
I can stop drinking whenever I want to, quite comfortably. I choose not to.
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Yeah, that's the other one.
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Yeah, that's the other one.
I might have to stop permanently soonish, so I am enjoying it while I can. Problemo?
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Yeah, that's the other one.
I might have to stop permanently soonish, so I am enjoying it while I can. Problemo?
I suspect you'll find an excuse.
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Because you didnt enjoy going out in the first place. If you are enjoying yourself, the last thing you pay attention to is your alcohol intake.
Yes, I don't like going out and drinking etc, that's just me - I enjoy other things, and I doubt that will change much
Yeah, but that does mean you have little or no reason not to get pissed. (not that being a member of some bullshit religion is an excuse)
I have little or no reason not to, other than that I don't want to. That's reason enough
SOME people don't drink becuase of their religion or their upbringing and think it's "wrong" or whatever
Its really sad that they define themselves on whatever circumstances they were born into.
I agree
Iw as just saying that although some people do it for shit reasons like that, others just don't want to get drunk anyway
What is sad is that they dont trust their friends at all. Most people who refuse to drink do it because of one form of cowardice or another.
A lot of people do it just because they're not internested in getting drunk
No, what makes sense is you try new things. If you dont try new things, you become a recluse
I'm willing to try new things
If it's something I have no interest in whatsoever, and am pretty sure I won't like it, I won't bother though
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Because you didnt enjoy going out in the first place. If you are enjoying yourself, the last thing you pay attention to is your alcohol intake.
Yes, I don't like going out and drinking etc, that's just me - I enjoy other things, and I doubt that will change much
If you enjoyed these other things so much, you would not be depressed I suspect.
Yeah, but that does mean you have little or no reason not to get pissed. (not that being a member of some bullshit religion is an excuse)
I have little or no reason not to, other than that I don't want to. That's reason enough
You havent actually suggested any reason why not so far...
SOME people don't drink becuase of their religion or their upbringing and think it's "wrong" or whatever
Its really sad that they define themselves on whatever circumstances they were born into.
I agree
Iw as just saying that although some people do it for shit reasons like that, others just don't want to get drunk anyway
Out of the all the students in my college, I do not know one person like that (despite being well known enough to be running for exec)
What is sad is that they dont trust their friends at all. Most people who refuse to drink do it because of one form of cowardice or another.
A lot of people do it just because they're not internested in getting drunk
No, what makes sense is you try new things. If you dont try new things, you become a recluse
I'm willing to try new things
If it's something I have no interest in whatsoever, and am pretty sure I won't like it, I won't bother though
Alcohol used to be like that for me, and a whole host of other things. Sometimes you can be wrong.
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
:laugh:
Exactly, I dont want any fine booze to go to waste.
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If you enjoyed these other things so much, you would not be depressed I suspect.
You know nothing about my depression
If it was as simple as finding something I liked and going out more, I wouldn't even be depressed
That is the least of my problems
You havent actually suggested any reason why not so far...
I don't WANT to. It's not that I actively dislike it; it's that I lack a reason to want to. I don't need to explain that. Just like I don't regularly play chess. I don't hate chess - i'm just disinterested in it
Out of the all the students in my college, I do not know one person like that (despite being well known enough to be running for exec)
I'm not interested in being like all the other students in your college
And I still don't understand why you seem to think getting drunk is so important to your degree
Alcohol used to be like that for me, and a whole host of other things. Sometimes you can be wrong.
I know i can be wrong. But I've been out to pubs, parties, clubs even. And I didn't like it. I see no reason why I should bother trying that, I have a load of other things I'm actually interested in trying.
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.
:hadron:
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If you enjoyed these other things so much, you would not be depressed I suspect.
You know nothing about my depression
If it was as simple as finding something I liked and going out more, I wouldn't even be depressed
That is the least of my problems
Really? So why havent you tried it?
You havent actually suggested any reason why not so far...
I don't WANT to. It's not that I actively dislike it; it's that I lack a reason to want to. I don't need to explain that. Just like I don't regularly play chess. I don't hate chess - i'm just disinterested in it
No, but you must have at least tried chess and given it a good go. Its sad if you havent. You cannot judge everything from observation you know.
Out of the all the students in my college, I do not know one person like that (despite being well known enough to be running for exec)
I'm not interested in being like all the other students in your college
And I still don't understand why you seem to think getting drunk is so important to your degree
I also came to uni to have a good time, which is a big part of the point of it. Ever heard of personal development?
Alcohol used to be like that for me, and a whole host of other things. Sometimes you can be wrong.
I know i can be wrong. But I've been out to pubs, parties, clubs even. And I didn't like it. I see no reason why I should bother trying that, I have a load of other things I'm actually interested in trying.
You went with a negative attitude, I suspect. If you are intrested in trying stuff, why havent you? I suspect you easily have the time on your hands.
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.
:hadron:
Like the last thread of yours that I turned out to be right on (after you had jumped though all the hoops and gotten paranoid about it)
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.
:hadron:
Like the last thread of yours that I turned out to be right on (after you had jumped though all the hoops and gotten paranoid about it)
You turned out to be right?
Refresh my memory, please.
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.
:hadron:
Like the last thread of yours that I turned out to be right on (after you had jumped though all the hoops and gotten paranoid about it)
You turned out to be right?
Refresh my memory, please.
Look in the problems forum, where you eventually got told pretty much what I told you by the proffessor... ::)
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You know nothing about my depression
If it was as simple as finding something I liked and going out more, I wouldn't even be depressed
That is the least of my problems
Really? So why havent you tried it?
We're going round in circles here
I just don't WANT to
It's not going to help me with my depression, and I doubt I'd enjoy it, therefore why would I bother when I have so many other things to worry about?
No, but you must have at least tried chess and given it a good go. Its sad if you havent. You cannot judge everything from observation you know.
I haven't tried chess
Just like I haven't tried sky-diving or stamp-collecting or baseball
I don't have any interest in it
I'm not saying chess is shit. I don't know. I'm NOT judging it, becuase I havne't don it
But at the same time, I don't feel any need to try chess either
I also came to uni to have a good time, which is a big part of the point of it. Ever heard of personal development?
Yes I've heard of personal development. I'm not stupid
I came to uni because I enjoy my course and wanted a degree. Not to go out drinking. I could do that anyway
You went with a negative attitude, I suspect. If you are intrested in trying stuff, why havent you? I suspect you easily have the time on your hands.
I've already told you before, I didn't go with a negative attitude. This was before I knew I had AS and was TRYING to enjoy these things, because everyone else was. If anything I went there were a more positive attitude
I'm interested in trying things I think I might like. Why try something I'm pretty sure I will dislike?
And it's not about having the time. I have plenty of time, but I haven't been doing things I even enjoy, why would I spend it doing things I don't think I'll enjoy?
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You know nothing about my depression
If it was as simple as finding something I liked and going out more, I wouldn't even be depressed
That is the least of my problems
Really? So why havent you tried it?
We're going round in circles here
I just don't WANT to
It's not going to help me with my depression, and I doubt I'd enjoy it, therefore why would I bother when I have so many other things to worry about?
Being less of a pessimist would be a start. Having a distraction would be even better.
No, but you must have at least tried chess and given it a good go. Its sad if you havent. You cannot judge everything from observation you know.
I haven't tried chess
Just like I haven't tried sky-diving or stamp-collecting or baseball
I don't have any interest in it
I'm not saying chess is shit. I don't know. I'm NOT judging it, becuase I havne't don it
But at the same time, I don't feel any need to try chess either
Thats just sad tbh, especially given the free time you have.
I also came to uni to have a good time, which is a big part of the point of it. Ever heard of personal development?
Yes I've heard of personal development. I'm not stupid
I came to uni because I enjoy my course and wanted a degree. Not to go out drinking. I could do that anyway
You went with a negative attitude, I suspect. If you are intrested in trying stuff, why havent you? I suspect you easily have the time on your hands.
I've already told you before, I didn't go with a negative attitude. This was before I knew I had AS and was TRYING to enjoy these things, because everyone else was. If anything I went there were a more positive attitude
I'm interested in trying things I think I might like. Why try something I'm pretty sure I will dislike?
And it's not about having the time. I have plenty of time, but I haven't been doing things I even enjoy, why would I spend it doing things I don't think I'll enjoy?
Because you are being a fool...
How you get through life is largely dependent on your attitude. Something you need to look at, I suspect.
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This thread makes me want a drink. :angel:
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.
:hadron:
Like the last thread of yours that I turned out to be right on (after you had jumped though all the hoops and gotten paranoid about it)
You turned out to be right?
Refresh my memory, please.
Look in the problems forum, where you eventually got told pretty much what I told you by the proffessor... ::)
You could not possibly know what I heard from the professor or how the meeting went yesterday. I have not posted anything but a brief note.
I just looked back at your posts and you approached the issues no closer than a tangent.
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.
:hadron:
Like the last thread of yours that I turned out to be right on (after you had jumped though all the hoops and gotten paranoid about it)
You turned out to be right?
Refresh my memory, please.
Look in the problems forum, where you eventually got told pretty much what I told you by the proffessor... ::)
You could not possibly know what I heard from the professor or how the meeting went yesterday. I have not posted anything but a brief note.
I just looked back at your posts and you approached the issues no closer than a tangent.
Same with you, as I said you were being paranoid about it. I could have just written "do it" if I was less bored.
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Being less of a pessimist would be a start. Having a distraction would be even better.
A distraction is not going to help me with what I'm going through right now
Thanks for the advice though ::) But I think I know myself better than you do
And so far, distractions have just made me worse
Thats just sad tbh, especially given the free time you have.
I'm sad because I've never played chess?
I have a lot of free time now, yes
But there are plenty of other things I'd enjoy a LOT more than chess and going out drinking
I'm more likely to do those
Because you are being a fool...
How you get through life is largely dependent on your attitude. Something you need to look at, I suspect.
I'm being a fool? If anyone's being a fool, you are
My problems are nothing to do with my attitude
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But I think I know myself better than you do
You're wrong. Hadron knows everything
better than anyone.
I'm sad because I've never played chess?
Yes. But Go is better.
My problems are nothing to do with my attitude
Here, I disagree. A lot of what you
are plagued by is VERY dependent upon
your attitude. You are intrinsically defeatist,
from when I first saw you, at WP, to today.
Yeah, good things (like love) can overcome
that - but you make them less plausible, BY your
attitude.
And yes, this applies to me, as well.
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Here, I disagree. A lot of what you
are plagued by is VERY dependent upon
your attitude. You are intrinsically defeatist,
from when I first saw you, at WP, to today.
Yeah, good things (like love) can overcome
that - but you make them less plausible, BY your
attitude.
And yes, this applies to me, as well.
How?
How would me being more positive change any of this?
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How awas I defeatist on wp?
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How?
How would me being more positive change any of this?
You'd take the opportunities which came your
way.
How awas I defeatist on wp?
You would, even then, shoot down every
bloody suggestion of how to make things
a little easier. Never try - just see some possible
excuse why not to.
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You'd take the opportunities which came your
way.
I take an opportunity if it's one I want or that I think will help
I've taken drugs when I didn't particularly want to
I've spent weeks with counselors when I hated it
I'm paying MONEY to try and get help
I'm going to see the mental health person when I don't want to
I do LOADS of things I don't want, to try and get better
And I don't make excuses
What excuses am I making?
You would, even then, shoot down every
bloody suggestion of how to make things
a little easier. Never try - just see some possible
excuse why not to.
That's bullshit
I don't make excuses
And I accept suggestions when i think they will actually help
Why do you think I ask people to help or for what they think I should do?
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I try REALLY fucking hard
I'm sick of people saying I just whine about things and don't tryI'm doing several things at the moment, to try and get better. I've tried loads
I don't WANT to be fucking depressed, of course I try
I have problems I don't post about on here, which I am trying to fix
And I do loads of things I hate or don't want to do, just to get better
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You'd take the opportunities which came your
way.
I take an opportunity if it's one I want or that I think will help
I've taken drugs when I didn't particularly want to
I've spent weeks with counselors when I hated it
I'm paying MONEY to try and get help
I'm going to see the mental health person when I don't want to
I do LOADS of things I don't want, to try and get better
And I don't make excuses
What excuses am I making?
You would, even then, shoot down every
bloody suggestion of how to make things
a little easier. Never try - just see some possible
excuse why not to.
That's bullshit
I don't make excuses
And I accept suggestions when i think they will actually help
Why do you think I ask people to help or for what they think I should do?
When you think they'll help
Both times. You know EXACTLY what I'm
talking about here. You just won't give it a
chance. And, it's damned well going to be
too late.
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.
:hadron:
Like the last thread of yours that I turned out to be right on (after you had jumped though all the hoops and gotten paranoid about it)
You turned out to be right?
Refresh my memory, please.
Look in the problems forum, where you eventually got told pretty much what I told you by the proffessor... ::)
You could not possibly know what I heard from the professor or how the meeting went yesterday. I have not posted anything but a brief note.
I just looked back at your posts and you approached the issues no closer than a tangent.
Same with you, as I said you were being paranoid about it. I could have just written "do it" if I was less bored.
Fool.
Yes, you accused me of being paranoid and then, in the exact same post, told me to do the very research that you were thinking of as evidence of my paranoia. That was the deciding factor in my awarding you the thread trophy.
I'm surprised that you haven't figured out what I put in the trophy before I gave it to you.
:D
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Both times. You know EXACTLY what I'm
talking about here. You just won't give it a
chance. And, it's damned well going to be
too late.
I don't know what you're talking about
What was suggested to me on wp that I didn't do?
I've got bigger problems to try and sort out now than fuckin about doing things that aren't going to help
How am I doing "nothing?"
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Both times. You know EXACTLY what I'm
talking about here. You just won't give it a
chance. And, it's damned well going to be
too late.
I don't know what you're talking about
What was suggested to me on wp that I didn't do?
I've got bigger problems to try and sort out now than fuckin about doing things that aren't going to help
How am I doing "nothing?"
Nothing to do with WP, with that.
Whatever. I give up too.
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You said I ignore suggestions and never do anything since wp
Some things WON'T help me, whatever other people seem to think
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You said I ignore suggestions and never do anything since wp
Some things WON'T help me, whatever other people seem to think
Right. And those seem to be anything and everything.
Damned near.
Anyhow, 'tis not my life.
I just saw enough things in
you that I thought I could give
some insight. I'm either wrong
(which I doubt) or you're unwilling.
Either way, nothing I can do.
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You said I ignore suggestions and never do anything since wp
Some things WON'T help me, whatever other people seem to think
Right. And those seem to be anything and everything.
Damned near.
Anyhow, 'tis not my life.
I just saw enough things in
you that I thought I could give
some insight. I'm either wrong
(which I doubt) or you're unwilling.
Either way, nothing I can do.
ok
You're wrong though
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.
:hadron:
Like the last thread of yours that I turned out to be right on (after you had jumped though all the hoops and gotten paranoid about it)
You turned out to be right?
Refresh my memory, please.
Look in the problems forum, where you eventually got told pretty much what I told you by the proffessor... ::)
You could not possibly know what I heard from the professor or how the meeting went yesterday. I have not posted anything but a brief note.
I just looked back at your posts and you approached the issues no closer than a tangent.
Same with you, as I said you were being paranoid about it. I could have just written "do it" if I was less bored.
Fool.
Yes, you accused me of being paranoid and then, in the exact same post, told me to do the very research that you were thinking of as evidence of my paranoia. That was the deciding factor in my awarding you the thread trophy.
I told you to do the research because its easier than persuading you over an internet forum. The fact is you ended up in agreeance after doing it. You could have saved yourself lots of steps, here, if only you had listened.
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I'm surprised that you haven't figured out what I put in the trophy before I gave it to you.
:D
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I have, and I dont appreciate it, thank you very much.
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Being less of a pessimist would be a start. Having a distraction would be even better.
A distraction is not going to help me with what I'm going through right now
Thanks for the advice though ::) But I think I know myself better than you do
And so far, distractions have just made me worse
Have you tried it? I suspect not.
Thats just sad tbh, especially given the free time you have.
I'm sad because I've never played chess?
I have a lot of free time now, yes
But there are plenty of other things I'd enjoy a LOT more than chess and going out drinking
I'm more likely to do those
But havent. Why?
Because you are being a fool...
How you get through life is largely dependent on your attitude. Something you need to look at, I suspect.
I'm being a fool? If anyone's being a fool, you are
My problems are nothing to do with my attitude
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Really? So why is your life not quite where you want it to be? Care to explain?
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Have you tried it? I suspect not.
Tried what?
Going out and getting drunk? No. And I've already explained this about 50 times
But havent. Why?
I'm not doing much at all right now
Half the time I can't even get out of bed
I'm not really in the mood for going out all the time
Really? So why is your life not quite where you want it to be? Care to explain?
I've had a fucking shit year
And I have mental health problems I haven't been able to get out of yet
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Fucking hell, will you fuckers lay off??
If someone wont take your advice, maybe its shit advice, or maybe you dont know how to deliver said advice.
No need to get your panties in a twist cos someone wont take your expert advice. Shit, if their life is hard enough, no matter what is causing it or has caused it, telling them that their life would have been better had they listened to you isnt going to help things.
Why do people get it in their head that if you tell them a string of negative things about themselves, that they are magically going to turn around and start following your sage advice?
Oh and Hadron, once again you have proven the asshat that you are. In one breath you say ppl shouldnt follow the station in life that they are born into, yet then turn around and say that there is no escaping the social norm of drinking, partying and chess? Even to the point of saying its sad or stupid or it isnt possible.
Hang on, there is something on your face, yeh, just near your lips, no no, the other side, yep, you got it. It was just a piece of shit that got on there while you were delivering your verbal diarrhoea.
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Fucking hell, will you fuckers lay off??
Don't lump me with hadron here.
You don't know shit.
I might be wrong. But, I did what I
felt bound to, out of the demands of
friendship.
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Fucking hell, will you fuckers lay off??
If someone wont take your advice, maybe its shit advice, or maybe you dont know how to deliver said advice.
No need to get your panties in a twist cos someone wont take your expert advice. Shit, if their life is hard enough, no matter what is causing it or has caused it, telling them that their life would have been better had they listened to you isnt going to help things.
Why do people get it in their head that if you tell them a string of negative things about themselves, that they are magically going to turn around and start following your sage advice?
Oh and Hadron, once again you have proven the asshat that you are. In one breath you say ppl shouldnt follow the station in life that they are born into, yet then turn around and say that there is no escaping the social norm of drinking, partying and chess? Even to the point of saying its sad or stupid or it isnt possible.
Hang on, there is something on your face, yeh, just near your lips, no no, the other side, yep, you got it. It was just a piece of shit that got on there while you were delivering your verbal diarrhoea.
:agreed: :plus:
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Have you tried it? I suspect not.
Tried what?
Going out and getting drunk? No. And I've already explained this about 50 times
Explained yes. But for the wrong reasons. Your real reason is so you can excuse your own mistakes and continue to make them.
But havent. Why?
I'm not doing much at all right now
Half the time I can't even get out of bed
I'm not really in the mood for going out all the time
Then drag yourself out of bed. Find something to do. Being in bed isnt going to help you to be completely honest.
Really? So why is your life not quite where you want it to be? Care to explain?
I've had a fucking shit year
I have had plenty of shit too. Paddle through it.
And I have mental health problems I haven't been able to get out of yet
Doesnt nearly everyone have mental health problems of some sort? What matters is not what problems you have, but how you deal with them.
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Fucking hell, will you fuckers lay off??
At least we can fuck...
If someone wont take your advice, maybe its shit advice, or maybe you dont know how to deliver said advice.
Or just maybe they are in denial. Its normally the case.
No need to get your panties in a twist cos someone wont take your expert advice. Shit, if their life is hard enough, no matter what is causing it or has caused it, telling them that their life would have been better had they listened to you isnt going to help things.
Yeah, lets get people to continually repeat their mistakes as opposed learn from them. Is that the best wisdom you have to offer?
Why do people get it in their head that if you tell them a string of negative things about themselves, that they are magically going to turn around and start following your sage advice?
Erm, because if you dont point out their mistakes, how can they learn from them? Lets all take schrooms and be delusional instead... ::)
Oh and Hadron, once again you have proven the asshat that you are. In one breath you say ppl shouldnt follow the station in life that they are born into, yet then turn around and say that there is no escaping the social norm of drinking, partying and chess? Even to the point of saying its sad or stupid or it isnt possible.
No, my point is that there is no point in not trying those things. Obviously if you properly try drinking, you will get drunk.
Hang on, there is something on your face, yeh, just near your lips, no no, the other side, yep, you got it. It was just a piece of shit that got on there while you were delivering your verbal diarrhoea.
How about you suck on this :finger and get back to whatever great things you do in your life... ::)
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can is not do
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All Im saying is if the person isnt taking your advice, dont be quick to blame the person, maybe you arent great at giving that person advice.
You already admit things like they could be in denial, and I think in most cases that's a given. Its also part of their problem. Its not like you can turn around as say "yes, I have denial". Most ppl deny they have denial.
Its almost like you have a built in excuse for when your advice doesnt work. "Oh you're not taking my advice cos you are in denial".
If denial is getting in the way of a person doing something about their problems, then work on the denial first. If thats not working, you are probably not qualified to be giving said advice to that person. Better to be there as a friend.
I think sometimes people are mean to their friends when they wont take their advice as a sort of punishment because their ego has been brused.
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Explained yes. But for the wrong reasons. Your real reason is so you can excuse your own mistakes and continue to make them.
And who the fuck are you to tell me why I do things?
You don't know anything about me
If I make mistakes, I recognise that, accept it, do what I can to improve the situation, and move on
It's not me who has a problem there
Then drag yourself out of bed. Find something to do. Being in bed isnt going to help you to be completely honest.
I have dragged myself out of bed and been to places I previously enjoyed
It doesn't help me. It's made me worse so far - physically ill in some cases
"dragging myself out of bed" has failed. I'm getting professional help to be able to do that properly now
I have had plenty of shit too. Paddle through it.
Paddle through it?
I've tried "paddling through" it, and that hasn't worked
Some things are too big to be able to just push aside and ignore
Doesnt nearly everyone have mental health problems of some sort? What matters is not what problems you have, but how you deal with them.
And I am trying to deal with it
These aren't things that can be fixed by me clicking my fingers and suddenly making everything ok
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All Im saying is if the person isnt taking your advice, dont be quick to blame the person, maybe you arent great at giving that person advice.
You already admit things like they could be in denial, and I think in most cases that's a given. Its also part of their problem. Its not like you can turn around as say "yes, I have denial". Most ppl deny they have denial.
Its almost like you have a built in excuse for when your advice doesnt work. "Oh you're not taking my advice cos you are in denial".
If denial is getting in the way of a person doing something about their problems, then work on the denial first. If thats not working, you are probably not qualified to be giving said advice to that person. Better to be there as a friend.
I think sometimes people are mean to their friends when they wont take their advice as a sort of punishment because their ego has been brused.
Yeah. I just feel I have to try, now
and then. And that this was the best
time, given certain circumstances. Call
it a (near) last chance for something.
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All Im saying is if the person isnt taking your advice, dont be quick to blame the person, maybe you arent great at giving that person advice.
You already admit things like they could be in denial, and I think in most cases that's a given. Its also part of their problem. Its not like you can turn around as say "yes, I have denial". Most ppl deny they have denial.
Its almost like you have a built in excuse for when your advice doesnt work. "Oh you're not taking my advice cos you are in denial".
If denial is getting in the way of a person doing something about their problems, then work on the denial first. If thats not working, you are probably not qualified to be giving said advice to that person. Better to be there as a friend.
I think sometimes people are mean to their friends when they wont take their advice as a sort of punishment because their ego has been brused.
:agreed:
Yes, I think that's part of what's happening here.
If someone asks for advice and someone else offers it, that does not obligate the recipient to take the advice offered.
The recipient knows more about herself and her own life than the advice offerer does, and she may accept or reject the advice based on this knowledge.
That is not a signal for the advice offerer to argue about this and say nasty things about the recipient.
I think that sometimes people forget that the point of offering advice is to be helpful to the other person, and going on and on about it is not helpful.
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If I ask people for advice, I always listen to what they suggest, and take that into consideration
If I know it's not right though or it's not going to work, I'm not going to do it just because I "should" always "try" everything
I'm sick of people telling me I never do anything to fix my problems though, when that's completely the opposite of what I'm doing
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I think sometimes people are mean to their friends when they wont take their advice as a sort of punishment because their ego has been brused.
:agreed:
Yes, I think that's part of what's happening here.
It's really not. I was trying to shake her a bit.
Should know that's not effective, in her case,
but one gets frustrated, seeing someone else
making the same mistakes that one is prone
to.
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I think sometimes people are mean to their friends when they wont take their advice as a sort of punishment because their ego has been brused.
:agreed:
Yes, I think that's part of what's happening here.
It's really not. I was trying to shake her a bit.
Should know that's not effective, in her case,
but one gets frustrated, seeing someone else
making the same mistakes that one is prone
to.
Do you mean me?
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Yes.
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lol Why is shaking me not effective?
I would be making mistakes either way
There's no one decision I can make right now that will make things better
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lol Why is shaking me not effective?
Not getting you to try what I think would help.
I would be making mistakes either way
We always do.
There's no one decision I can make right now that will make things better
Like I said, I've given up.
Just defending what I had
been doing. This isn't some
ONE decision though, but one step
which I think would make you happier,
for a while. Might be enough to pull
you out of your malaise, for a bit.
Worked for me.
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If I ask people for advice, I always listen to what they suggest, and take that into consideration
If I know it's not right though or it's not going to work, I'm not going to do it just because I "should" always "try" everything
I'm sick of people telling me I never do anything to fix my problems though, when that's completely the opposite of what I'm doing
I know and when you don't take their advice, they should just lay off instead of saying things like that to you.
You know yourself and your life a great deal better than they do, so you know what's right and what's wrong for you a lot more than they do.
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Like I said, I've given up.
Just defending what I had
been doing. This isn't some
ONE decision though, but one step
which I think would make you happier,
for a while. Might be enough to pull
you out of your malaise, for a bit.
Worked for me.
That's cool
I don't think anything will help now though except trying to deal with things better about Sophie
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If I ask people for advice, I always listen to what they suggest, and take that into consideration
If I know it's not right though or it's not going to work, I'm not going to do it just because I "should" always "try" everything
I'm sick of people telling me I never do anything to fix my problems though, when that's completely the opposite of what I'm doing
I know and when you don't take their advice, they should just lay off instead of saying things like that to you.
You know yourself and your life a great deal better than they do, so you know what's right and what's wrong for you a lot more than they do.
It is probably my fault really
I am very defensive about things like that because of crap I've got from Shleed etc about it in the past
So it pisses me off and then I get angry
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Nobody can fault you for wanting to help a friend Calandale. At least that aspect shows you are more human than a lot of people out there.
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I CAN be faulted by letting any
of this come out publicly. That
was wrong.
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Maybe some people value intent over success
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Valueless.
Except internally.
And posting this damaged me.
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I don't think you did anything bad
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GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??
there's plenty for everyone. :beergrin:
Humans are ssoooooooooooooooo silly, wouldn't you say!! :ghey:
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Fucking hell, will you fuckers lay off??
If someone wont take your advice, maybe its shit advice, or maybe you dont know how to deliver said advice.
No need to get your panties in a twist cos someone wont take your expert advice. Shit, if their life is hard enough, no matter what is causing it or has caused it, telling them that their life would have been better had they listened to you isnt going to help things.
Why do people get it in their head that if you tell them a string of negative things about themselves, that they are magically going to turn around and start following your sage advice?
Oh and Hadron, once again you have proven the asshat that you are. In one breath you say ppl shouldnt follow the station in life that they are born into, yet then turn around and say that there is no escaping the social norm of drinking, partying and chess? Even to the point of saying its sad or stupid or it isnt possible.
Hang on, there is something on your face, yeh, just near your lips, no no, the other side, yep, you got it. It was just a piece of shit that got on there while you were delivering your verbal diarrhoea.
:plus:
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If I ask people for advice, I always listen to what they suggest, and take that into consideration
If I know it's not right though or it's not going to work, I'm not going to do it just because I "should" always "try" everything
I'm sick of people telling me I never do anything to fix my problems though, when that's completely the opposite of what I'm doing
I know and when you don't take their advice, they should just lay off instead of saying things like that to you.
You know yourself and your life a great deal better than they do, so you know what's right and what's wrong for you a lot more than they do.
It is probably my fault really
I am very defensive about things like that because of crap I've got from Shleed etc about it in the past
So it pisses me off and then I get angry
In time and with the right help you can learn what to let "slide" or ignore and what to act on. Your doing the best you can at the moment, but, there comes a point when you do have to reach out and see whats out there and decide if it's right for you. I know thats vague, but everyones circumstances are unique and there is no "one size fits all" solution. I'm not the best at taking advice either, more because I learned what I did by getting my ass kicked, "dope slapped upside the head", and making plenty of mistakes along the way. I envy my daughter for all the coaching and counselling that she is getting along the way in her growing up. Especially when she makes mistakes, she has safe harbors to figure and learn where she went wrong.
Good luck!
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I take an opportunity if it's one I want or that I think will help
I've taken drugs when I didn't particularly want to
I've spent weeks with counselors when I hated it
I'm paying MONEY to try and get help
I'm going to see the mental health person when I don't want to
I sort of hope you do want to....but then I sort of feel that way. I don't want to go but I feel I need to, to get some help. So I want to go because of that.
It is hard to explain it. I will be thinking of you on the 21st. And I will be thinking of myself too!
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I kind of want to because I'm getting desperate for help I guess, so I'll try practically anything as long as there's a chance it will work
I am dreading it though lol
I have a feeling it's going to be awful
Obviously I will be keeping my pants on regardless :orly:
I will be thinking of you too, hopefully it will go well for both of us
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I kind of want to because I'm getting desperate for help I guess, so I'll try practically anything as long as there's a chance it will work
I am dreading it though lol
I have a feeling it's going to be awful
Obviously I will be keeping my pants on regardless :orly:
I will be thinking of you too, hopefully it will go well for both of us
Soph, I will be thinking of you as well and sending as much good thoughts your way as I can muster. Take care!
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Thanks :)
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:indeed:
I think it will be easier for me because I know that I want my medication changed and I would like an explanation for what happened when I felt manic.
What I am dreading is that nothing will be done and that they will say it is my autism. ::)
But I will try to be optimistic when I go and also write down what I want to say and the main points of what sort of help I would like.
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Yeah I think it will help you to right it down
What meds are you going on?
I've given up on medication for anxiety
I want some for my depression though and definitely for OCD, that's fucking me up and making things even harder. Stupid messed up brain >:(
I always panic and my mind goes blank and then I forget important things
I might tell this person about Starbuline
I don't think I trust them though
I trust the person I saw yesterday more
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Maybe it would be good for you to write things down as well. I know about the mind-blank and then panic feelings! I wonder if you will get to see that person you saw yesterday again? You could tell them at your appointment that you would prefer to see that person specifically and that it would help you.
I would like to try a different mood stabiliser or increase the dose of the one I am already taking. The one I am already taking is expensive and the higher dose would cost more, so I am hoping that it could be made cheaper for me (the doctors can do this). The anti-depressants are not working anymore so I want to come off them but then I am scared of what could happen. So it is mostly meds help that I want. I don't feel counseling will help and I am already seeing a psychologist anyway for autism stuff.
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Obviously I will be keeping my pants on regardless :orly:
:'(
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Counseling hasn't helped with me either
I find it really hard to tell people things IRL though
But then they only ever tell me things I already know, so I don't learn anything either
It will be a different person I see on the 21st as it's an NHS person at the doctors. THe person I saw yesterday was an autism person who came to my house
I'm really scared about this mental health one though ???
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Maybe it would be good for you to write things down as well.
:intressant:
I know this helps me, in some
circumstances. Don't usually have
a plan, with a doctor, but if I did....
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Writing things down helps me, like when I write things on here and zomg, I'll probably lie to this mental health person though :laugh:
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I was given what seemed like useful
insight by someone. Figure out exactly
what you'd want from them, and direct
the whole proceeding around that.
Might work, if one wanted.
My shrink was too male, and not my
type, so there was really little he could
do for me. :laugh:
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I hope mine is a woman
And hot :laugh:
I don't really see how I'm going to get much help out of it tbh
Without telling them everything
And I don't trust them to do that
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I'm really scared about this mental health one though ???
If they were going to lock you up or do something drastic, I bet they would have done it by now instead of waiting until the 21st.
What I meant before was, you could tell the NHS person that you want to see that autism person for someone to talk to rather than get counseling through them. The NHS could help with medications if you need them, though.
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Kinda list what you ARE willing to discuss
ahead of time, I guess. I just spent my
time entertaining.
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Yeah I don't want to get counseling through them I don't think, feels like I'm being interrogated or something
And it's not going to help me if all I'mk doing is telling them what they want to hear (or what i think they want to hear lol)
I wish Iknew what thy were going to do
They should have told me what was going to happen in the letter
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And it's not going to help me if all I'mk doing is telling them what they want to hear (or what i think they want to hear lol)
Not what I was suggesting.
More along the lines of, figure
out specifically what you want
help with.
Doubt it would work for me.
I mean, when I did say what I
hoped, mine more or less told me
that's not what they're their for.
Well? Fucking point me to someone who
can then. I don't do shit, on my own.
Ah well.
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I don't know what I want though
I want to be less depressed and stop doing stupid things and make my OCD less bad
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Seems a pretty good start.
I want the world to end.
They wouldn't help me. :zoinks:
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I want to be less depressed and stop doing stupid things and make my OCD less bad
There, you do know what you want. ;D That was quite clear to me, you summed it up nicely.
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Yeah I guess I do then :laugh:
I just dunno how to get it
Hopefully they will help me
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I want to be less depressed and stop doing stupid things and make my OCD less bad
I just dunno how to get it
Hopefully they will help me
That is the message you need to get across. What you have written there is really important.
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Hell, you could just write that down,
and hand it to them.
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Hell, you could just write that down,
and hand it to them.
:agreed: