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Title: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
Post by: Conspiracy Nut on August 22, 2020, 10:45:40 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRprOhOaDSo
Title: Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
Post by: Jesse on March 13, 2023, 01:54:54 PM
A lot of people have childhood trauma issues and people pleasing is one of them. I used to people please but then I realized I needed to learn how to love myself. Once I figured that out I never people pleased again
Title: Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
Post by: Genesis on April 16, 2024, 01:05:36 PM
I still have issues... only I'm making progress in therapy for it
Title: Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
Post by: Gopher Gary on April 16, 2024, 06:58:44 PM
I don't mind being a people pleaser, but then again I don't really know that many people.  :lol1:
Title: Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
Post by: Genesis on April 16, 2024, 07:25:49 PM
I don't mind being a people pleaser, but then again I don't really know that many people.  :lol1:

Apparently throughout my life, I knew too many people.... didn't matter if they were in the Windy City, Pakistan, or even KC itself. There's always a connection with my family somewhere.
Title: Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
Post by: Genesis on April 16, 2024, 07:26:28 PM
I don't mind being a people pleaser, but then again I don't really know that many people.  :lol1:

Apparently throughout my life, I knew too many people.... didn't matter if they were in the Windy City, Pakistan, or even KC itself. There's always a connection with my family somewhere.

I tried being a people pleaser as well... and it didn't get me anywhere
Title: Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
Post by: renaeden on April 16, 2024, 07:41:52 PM
I'll people please if it pleases me, so in a way I'm putting myself first. I used to be very anxious about pleasing other people but over time that has reduced.
Title: Re: 5 Tips to STOP People Pleasing
Post by: Genesis on April 16, 2024, 07:47:32 PM
I usually don't like putting myself first :(

Other times, I am reminded that I need to do so if someone and/or something is making me rather uncomfortable.