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Start here => M.O.-Introductions => Topic started by: midlifeaspie on August 30, 2011, 08:48:26 AM
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Welcome to Intensity. Pull up a chair and tell us a little bit about yourself.
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Yes, an intro thread would be nice.
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Yes, just broadstrokes. No pressure.
Something simple like "Do you like penises or vaginas?"
Describe then in a little bit more depth your first sexual experience and were you alone at the time
Oh and welcome. If you are a bit stuck and want to get to know the people here a bit better, I can help you out here too and post you a bit of a helpful guide so you can get your feet.
I am Les by the way. I am the Pussycat of the forum. Says so in my title. :)
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Hi Steadfast.
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:welcome:
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:welcome:
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Welcome, etc.
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:santa: Hey and welcome, steadfast.
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hmmm...i was going to post a lovely welcome
pic for you... but i think i will wait to see
if you show up first!
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I wonder if he's a little rocky.
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Welcome.
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Welcome. Bar's in the corner, your shout.
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Steadfast
sounds like a breakfast food :viking:
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I have already said :welcome: but :welcome: again!
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:bunny:
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Should I ask the question?? :evillaugh:
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Should I ask the question?? :evillaugh:
What question is that? Oh, this one....
Wanna cyber? :zoinks:
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:welcome: steadfast!
After 10 posts you will get to see more of the site! Be sure to check out all the smilies! :snowman:
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Should I ask the question?? :evillaugh:
YES!!!
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Noooo, I want to ask the question!
Are you :viking: ?
Oooooops, I think Scrap wants to ask "The Other Question".
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SHOW YOUR BOOBZ PLEEZ THANX
:zoinks: :trollface: :toporly: :evillaugh: :squiddy:
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Maybe Steadfasts a guy. Do we really want to see his moobs? I do, but thats only because I think moobs are funny.
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Another member who is here to stay?
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Another member who is here to stay?
Hard to say. She actually made two posts. :thumbup:
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Another member who is here to stay?
Hard to say. She actually made two posts. :thumbup:
Really?
/me checks.
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Thanks for the welcomes!
What makes you think that I am female?
Does that show your boobs or moobs request ever work?
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Thanks for the welcomes!
What makes you think that I am female?
Does that show your boobs or moobs request ever work?
Some people have shown us their stuff, moobs, boobs, cock, and cunt :eyebrows: :eyebrows:
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Thanks for the welcomes!
What makes you think that I am female?
Does that show your boobs or moobs request ever work?
Hey, you finally respond. :thumbup:
Your writing style screams female.
http://www.intensitysquared.com/index.php/topic,16809.msg722687.html#msg722687 (http://www.intensitysquared.com/index.php/topic,16809.msg722687.html#msg722687)
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well looky look, you came back : ) I know I said hi but since you are going to stick around thought I would give you some insight into who eris really is.
I am 31, female, very oral, into giving humiliation and pain. Oh and I have this thing called Aspergers Syndrome that makes me kind of an asshole sometimes.
welcome aboard !
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Thanks for the welcomes!
What makes you think that I am female?
Does that show your boobs or moobs request ever work?
You mentioned your husband in an earlier post.
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I have this thing called Aspergers Syndrome that makes me kind of an asshole sometimes.
:plus:
Stealing that for my sig. :green:
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Thanks for the welcomes!
What makes you think that I am female?
Does that show your boobs or moobs request ever work?
You mentioned your husband in an earlier post.
There is something like same-sex marriage.
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Thanks for the welcomes!
What makes you think that I am female?
Does that show your boobs or moobs request ever work?
You mentioned your husband in an earlier post.
There is something like same-sex marriage.
Unless they are female/female, it would be assumed the kids are adopted. I'm assuming that by the mention of the children, Steadfast is in a man/woman relationship, and Steadfast is a woman.
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I think steadfast is really Chair.
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I think steadfast is really Chair.
That seems to be the default position for a lot of new members. I wish I knew who the hell he was, and why everyone is so suspicious. :dunno:
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Do you ever touch the tip of your nose with your tongue?
Do you ever touch the tip of other peoples noses with your tongue?
Enquiring minds want to know
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I think steadfast is really Chair.
That seems to be the default position for a lot of new members. I wish I knew who the hell he was, and why everyone is so suspicious. :dunno:
i just automatically accuse random people of being Chair because I'm an asshole. I dont really think steadfast is Chair :D
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I think steadfast is really Chair.
That seems to be the default position for a lot of new members. I wish I knew who the hell he was, and why everyone is so suspicious. :dunno:
i just automatically accuse random people of being Chair because I want to sit on him. I dont really think steadfast is Chair :D
Fixed. ;) :zoinks:
I think steadfast is really Chair.
That seems to be the default position for a lot of new members. I wish I knew who the hell he was, and why everyone is so suspicious. :dunno:
Chair is a bit of a creep , one of Kit's friends is all I need to tell you for you to figure out his character. :laugh:
if you want to visit him his forum is called hikiculture or something , ask Schleed. :P
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Thanks for the welcomes!
What makes you think that I am female?
Does that show your boobs or moobs request ever work?
You mentioned your husband in an earlier post.
There is something like same-sex marriage.
You are right. I am female, but I would have rather remained mysterious.
Alas, my tongue does not reach my nose.
I don't generally touch other people's noses with my tongue, but I might in the future.
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Ok, so how about the b00bs? :zoinks:
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I think steadfast is really Chair.
:laugh: No way, it's buttcoffee.
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I think steadfast is really Chair.
:laugh: No way, it's buttcoffee.
Well, that would be the appropriate place for it.
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You must be steadfast and stay online longer making more posts and once you reach ten more of the site opens up including a nice non public board to post your boobs on :autism:
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Are you autistic too steadfast?
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Have you ever stood on your head? Have you ever stood on anyone else's?
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I have considered going on Jerry Springer to show my boobs. I don't see the advantage of doing it here. You don't even give Jerry beads. Also, since I have several adult children, you must have figured out by now that I am no spring chicken. My boobs were nice in their day, but now, I don't think it is such a pretty sight.
I am not autistic. I think the internet is great for autistic people. The ones that hate social interaction don't feel threatened and can communicate quite well in writing, like my son. The Asperger's type, which can be very annoying in person because they don't know when they are being annoying, are less annoying in writing and easier to ignore when they do say annoying things. I am thinking of my niece, who hasn't been diagnosed but I know that she has it. I am not trying to insult present company who I am sure can be very nice in their own way.
I have stood on my head. I can't remember standing on anyone else's, but I do remember a time when all three of my kids stood on each other's heads in the pool.
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I have considered going on Jerry Springer to show my boobs. I don't see the advantage of doing it here. You don't even give Jerry beads. Also, since I have several adult children, you must have figured out by now that I am no spring chicken. My boobs were nice in their day, but now, I don't think it is such a pretty sight.
I am not autistic. I think the internet is great for autistic people. The ones that hate social interaction don't feel threatened and can communicate quite well in writing, like my son. The Asperger's type, which can be very annoying in person because they don't know when they are being annoying, are less annoying in writing and easier to ignore when they do say annoying things. I am thinking of my niece, who hasn't been diagnosed but I know that she has it. I am not trying to insult present company who I am sure can be very nice in their own way.I have stood on my head. I can't remember standing on anyone else's, but I do remember a time when all three of my kids stood on each other's heads in the pool.
OMG. You sound like you've had really bad experiences with aspies :o
Believe it or not, not all Asperger's types are are annoying in real life. Some of us actually have a reasonable sense of self-awareness, and are able to co-exist with non-Asperger's types, and are very nice in our own way. :angel:
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I can tell I am being annoying when people start to treat me like dirt.
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Obvious troll is becoming more obvious. :viking:
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Obvious troll is becoming more obvious. :viking:
I'm not sure she's a troll. I thought she was maybe just hopelessly ignorant, and has no idea how patronizing she sounds.
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Jerry Springer is a big part of the reason the whole world thinks americans are all ignorant inbred rednecks. Our country is much better off if you just show your boobs here.
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:laugh:
We may need a "I love Jack" smiley.
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I have considered going on Jerry Springer to show my boobs. I don't see the advantage of doing it here. You don't even give Jerry beads. Also, since I have several adult children, you must have figured out by now that I am no spring chicken. My boobs were nice in their day, but now, I don't think it is such a pretty sight.
I am not autistic. I think the internet is great for autistic people. The ones that hate social interaction don't feel threatened and can communicate quite well in writing, like my son. The Asperger's type, which can be very annoying in person because they don't know when they are being annoying, are less annoying in writing and easier to ignore when they do say annoying things. I am thinking of my niece, who hasn't been diagnosed but I know that she has it. I am not trying to insult present company who I am sure can be very nice in their own way.
I have stood on my head. I can't remember standing on anyone else's, but I do remember a time when all three of my kids stood on each other's heads in the pool.
You are pretty annoying but I'm sure you can be nice in your own way.
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I think MLA smells a Meadow.
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The Asperger's type, which can be very annoying in person because they don't know when they are being annoying, are less annoying in writing and easier to ignore when they do say annoying things.
I know when I am being annoying ;)
do you ?
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I think MLA smells a Meadow muffin.
Perhaps.
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(http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y116/iamjooish/Sense2BThis2BMakes2BNone.jpg)
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:lol:
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:laugh:
We may need a "I love Jack" smiley.
I'm in favor of that. :thumbup:
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:laugh:
We may need a "I love Jack" smiley.
I'm in favor of that. :thumbup:
Jack is a heathen that does not believe in karma. She must be stopped. :soapbox:
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:laugh:
We may need a "I love Jack" smiley.
I'm in favor of that. :thumbup:
Jack is a heathen that does not believe in karma. She must be stopped. :soapbox:
Worry first about your own heathen soul, atheist infidel! :christ:
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Obvious troll is becoming more obvious. :viking:
I'm not sure she's a troll. I thought she was maybe just hopelessly ignorant, and has no idea how patronizing she sounds.
I don't think it is a troll either, for a few different reasons. The biggest is I think a troll wouldn't have wasted so much time.
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I hate it when you all do that shit :D
gotta hit the post button every time just to read it
:finger:
fuckers
:D
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Obvious troll is becoming more obvious. :viking:
I'm not sure she's a troll. I thought she was maybe just hopelessly ignorant, and has no idea how patronizing she sounds.
I don't think it is a troll either, for a few different reasons. The biggest is I think a troll wouldn't have wasted so much time.
Check back on those Meadow threads. One of them went for about 25 pages, I think.
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maybe this is one of the ways in which we all dont know we are being annoying
:P
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Obvious troll is becoming more obvious. :viking:
I'm not sure she's a troll. I thought she was maybe just hopelessly ignorant, and has no idea how patronizing she sounds.
I don't think it is a troll either, for a few different reasons. The biggest is I think a troll wouldn't have wasted so much time.
But a *good* troll would count on your believing that, and would use that belief to his/her own advantage. :mwhaha:
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CONSPIRACAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!
I'm blind, don't forget.
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maybe this is one of the ways in which we all dont know we are being annoying
:P
I would totally know if I were being annoying, and I never am! :snowman:
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Obvious troll is becoming more obvious. :viking:
I'm not sure she's a troll. I thought she was maybe just hopelessly ignorant, and has no idea how patronizing she sounds.
I don't think it is a troll either, for a few different reasons. The biggest is I think a troll wouldn't have wasted so much time.
But a *good* troll would count on your believing that, and would use that belief to his/her own advantage. :mwhaha:
very very true. It's an art form. I suck at it. I would enjoy the reactions but have no patience and little attention span.
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im a whore :)
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I mean an obsessive whore.
Go ahead, look to the left. It's true. Just hit it.
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I mean an obsessive whore.
Go ahead, look to the left. It's true. Just hit it.
:plus: Your many hours of hard work have paid off! Welcome to the next level!
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Obvious troll is becoming more obvious. :viking:
I'm not sure she's a troll. I thought she was maybe just hopelessly ignorant, and has no idea how patronizing she sounds.
I don't think it is a troll either, for a few different reasons. The biggest is I think a troll wouldn't have wasted so much time.
Check back on those Meadow threads. One of them went for about 25 pages, I think.
I vaguely remember those threads (old age, ya know)
didnt she turn out to be someone else
or was that someone else, who turned out to be someone else :-\
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:laugh:
We may need a "I love Jack" smiley.
I'm in favor of that. :thumbup:
Jack is a heathen that does not believe in karma. She must be stopped. :soapbox:
Worry first about your own heathen soul, atheist infidel! :christ:
:pee:
maybe this is one of the ways in which we all dont know we are being annoying
:P
Au contraire. Je sais que je suis ennuyant. :finger: :laugh:
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:laugh:
We may need a "I love Jack" smiley.
I'm in favor of that. :thumbup:
Jack is a heathen that does not believe in karma. She must be stopped. :soapbox:
Worry first about your own heathen soul, atheist infidel! :christ:
:pee:
No peeing in the church, young man! Say an Act of Contrition! :prude:
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Obvious troll is becoming more obvious. :viking:
I'm not sure she's a troll. I thought she was maybe just hopelessly ignorant, and has no idea how patronizing she sounds.
I don't think it is a troll either, for a few different reasons. The biggest is I think a troll wouldn't have wasted so much time.
Check back on those Meadow threads. One of them went for about 25 pages, I think.
I vaguely remember those threads (old age, ya know)
didnt she turn out to be someone else
or was that someone else, who turned out to be someone else :-\
Meadow has never been unmasked as anyone else AFAIK. I still don't think she's a troll.
I think Duckfettishgirl might have pretended to be Meadow very briefly, a long time ago though, but I'm not sure.
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Obvious troll is becoming more obvious. :viking:
I'm not sure she's a troll. I thought she was maybe just hopelessly ignorant, and has no idea how patronizing she sounds.
I don't think it is a troll either, for a few different reasons. The biggest is I think a troll wouldn't have wasted so much time.
Check back on those Meadow threads. One of them went for about 25 pages, I think.
I vaguely remember those threads (old age, ya know)
didnt she turn out to be someone else
or was that someone else, who turned out to be someone else :-\
Meadow has never been unmasked as anyone else AFAIK. I still don't think she's a troll.
I think Duckfettishgirl might have pretended to be Meadow very briefly, a long time ago though, but I'm not sure.
that must be what I am thinking of
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Have read a few posts of wp meadow and was never sure it to be the same person as I2 meadow.
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Have read a few posts of wp meadow and was never sure it to be the same person as I2 meadow.
Strange.
If Meadow was a troll, they went to the bother of understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and then perfectly portraying the condition in its most severe condition possible. All without the payoff that I would expect a troll to eventually aim for.
I was absolutely convinced she was a troll, until I read about NPD, and then I changed my mind and became completely sure she was for real.
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Not sure what you're saying. Don't know much about the meadow at wp. Does she have NPD? Not saying it wasn't a troll, if it was really meadow or not, just saying it's possible two people have impersonated meadow here.
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Not sure what you're saying. Don't know much about the meadow at wp. Does she have NPD? Not saying it wasn't a troll, if it was really meadow or not, just saying it's possible two people have impersonated meadow here.
The Meadow muffin I have seen at WP is the same vitriol spewing cunt that was here.
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Not sure what you're saying. Don't know much about the meadow at wp. Does she have NPD? Not saying it wasn't a troll, if it was really meadow or not, just saying it's possible two people have impersonated meadow here.
The Meadow muffin I have seen at WP is the same vitriol spewing cunt that was here.
Lol, okay. Have only read a few things here and there; must have missed the action.
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I have considered going on Jerry Springer to show my boobs. I don't see the advantage of doing it here. You don't even give Jerry beads. Also, since I have several nigger/faggot children, you must have figured out by now that I am no spring chicken. My boobs were nice in their day, but now, I don't think it is such a pretty sight.
I am not a nigger/faggot. I think the internet is great for nigger/faggot people. The ones that hate social interaction don't feel threatened and can communicate quite well in writing, like my son. The nigger/faggot's type, which can be very annoying in person because they don't know when they are being annoying, are less annoying in writing and easier to ignore when they do say annoying things. I am thinking of my niece, who hasn't accepted/come out yet but I know that she has it. I am not trying to insult present company who I am sure can be very non-niggetry/faggotry in their own way.
I have stood on my head. I can't remember standing on anyone else's, but I do remember a time when all three of my kids stood on each other's heads in the pool.
There, now with MOAR obvious discriminative overtones. :zoinks:
But seriously, the tone of that post came off as patronizing a minority when I first read it lol.
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I think it's the long paragraphs. Meadow tended to use them a lot.
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I grew up with three sisters for most of my childhood so I learnt pretty quickly if I was being annoying. And if I am annoying now, my mum tells me. Which is not very often.
The people at the autism group I go to are pretty good as well. Not annoying.
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Not sure what you're saying. Don't know much about the meadow at WP. Does she have NPD? Not saying it wasn't a troll, if it was really meadow or not, just saying it's possible two people have impersonated meadow here.
I haven't really seen the WP Meadow. The Meadow that was here exhibited the most extreme case of NPD imaginable.
That's why I don't think Meadow's a troll. If a troll went to the trouble of creating a persona, and perfectly demonstrating a severe mental illness not commonly associated with AS, then I think that troll would have wanted a spectacular payoff. Meadow just kind of showed up, took a lot of abuse, and then quietly disappeared.
I think it's the long paragraphs. Meadow tended to use them a lot.
I don't think Meadow would ever be able to admit to having saggy breasts. Remember, she was a beautiful precious flower :zombiefuck:
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Not sure what you're saying. Don't know much about the meadow at WP. Does she have NPD? Not saying it wasn't a troll, if it was really meadow or not, just saying it's possible two people have impersonated meadow here.
I haven't really seen the WP Meadow. The Meadow that was here exhibited the most extreme case of NPD imaginable.
That's why I don't think Meadow's a troll. If a troll went to the trouble of creating a persona, and perfectly demonstrating a severe mental illness not commonly associated with AS, then I think that troll would have wanted a spectacular payoff. Meadow just kind of showed up, took a lot of abuse, and then quietly disappeared.
I think it's the long paragraphs. Meadow tended to use them a lot.
I don't think Meadow would ever be able to admit to having saggy breasts. Remember, she was a beautiful precious flower :zombiefuck:
Oh yes, and an acclaimed artist as well. :green:
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Not sure what you're saying. Don't know much about the meadow at WP. Does she have NPD? Not saying it wasn't a troll, if it was really meadow or not, just saying it's possible two people have impersonated meadow here.
I haven't really seen the WP Meadow. The Meadow that was here exhibited the most extreme case of NPD imaginable.
That's why I don't think Meadow's a troll. If a troll went to the trouble of creating a persona, and perfectly demonstrating a severe mental illness not commonly associated with AS, then I think that troll would have wanted a spectacular payoff. Meadow just kind of showed up, took a lot of abuse, and then quietly disappeared.
I think it's the long paragraphs. Meadow tended to use them a lot.
I don't think Meadow would ever be able to admit to having saggy breasts. Remember, she was a beautiful precious flower :zombiefuck:
Oh yes, and an acclaimed artist as well. :green:
Wasn't there a story in the news about a chimpanzee artist a little while ago? :zoinks:
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That was a REAL artist. :zoinks:
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Not sure what you're saying. Don't know much about the meadow at WP. Does she have NPD? Not saying it wasn't a troll, if it was really meadow or not, just saying it's possible two people have impersonated meadow here.
I haven't really seen the WP Meadow. The Meadow that was here exhibited the most extreme case of NPD imaginable.
That's why I don't think Meadow's a troll. If a troll went to the trouble of creating a persona, and perfectly demonstrating a severe mental illness not commonly associated with AS, then I think that troll would have wanted a spectacular payoff. Meadow just kind of showed up, took a lot of abuse, and then quietly disappeared.
I think it's the long paragraphs. Meadow tended to use them a lot.
I don't think Meadow would ever be able to admit to having saggy breasts. Remember, she was a beautiful precious flower :zombiefuck:
Oh yes, and an acclaimed artist as well. :green:
Wasn't there a story in the news about a chimpanzee artist a little while ago? :zoinks:
Meadow only painted in one colour......
Brown.
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That was a REAL artist. :zoinks:
I'm sure Meadow makes very pretty pictures with her crayola. :zoinks:
Oh and , can one of you change Meadows custom title to "Chimpanzee artist" ?
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That was a REAL artist. :zoinks:
I'm sure Meadow makes very pretty pictures with her crayola. :zoinks:
Oh and , can one of you change Meadows custom title to "Chimpanzee artist" ?
Bullshit artist would be more apt, but chimpanzee artist is funny. :lol:
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That was a REAL artist. :zoinks:
I'm sure Meadow makes very pretty pictures with her crayola. :zoinks:
Oh and , can one of you change Meadows custom title to "Chimpanzee artist" ?
Only if she comes back.
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I hope she doesn't come back.
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She was entertaining.
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She was annoying and she does a good job at it. One of the worst good trolls ever. Or she could have had NPD so that would have explained her trollish behavior.
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I think she was a weak troll
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I think she's a deluded cunt.
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I think she was a weak troll
I would bet almost anything that she is mostly for real.
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Oh, she's NPD, no question.
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
Never underestimate the power of narcissism. Even in their absence, their ego still casts a shadow over everything that crosses their path. :zoinks:
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
We miss her.
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
Threads often go off on tangents here, but of course you are always welcome to get it back on track.
:welcome:
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
It's a Mystery.
The Santa Mystery gets revealed when the age is appropriate, this mystery may remain a mystery for ever.
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
We miss her.
Terribly. :'(
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
She is more interesting
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
She is more interesting
Ouch. :laugh:
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
She is more interesting
So is Dengue Fever, but that doesn't mean I want to get it.
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
She is more interesting
So is Dengue Fever, but that doesn't mean I want to get it.
I don't want to "get" Meadow either. :)
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So how did Meadow, who isn't even here, hijack my welcome thread?
She is more interesting
So is Dengue Fever, but that doesn't mean I want to get it.
:lol:
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Saw you there lurking, steadfast. One more post and you can see more forums.
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Saw you there lurking, steadfast. One more post and you can see more forums.
Are you :viking: enough to make that one post?
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Saw you there lurking, steadfast. One more post and you can see more forums.
Are you :viking: enough to make that one post?
Do it! POST! POST! POST! :asthing: :asthing: :asthing:
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Goddammit Im fucking horny. I'm gonna go play with myself but I'll be back. You've been warned.
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less than 15 minutes. Damn, im good.
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Honestly guys ? you cant smell the rat ? This is obviously Chair. He recruited meadow to troll us again, but this time they are being more patient. There will be some misunderstood ignorance posted once a month, then ignored, all the while being really boring elsewhere. But this is only to confuse us ! Or minds are obviously too weak to see what is really going on , BUT I GOT YOU FIGURED OUT STEADFAST ! Then they are going to Norway to get General Razorbeard to make a batch of E chemicals to distribute to all of us. I say that we are all doomed, but have until 2045.
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Honestly guys ? you cant smell the rat ? This is obviously Chair. He recruited meadow to troll us again, but this time they are being more patient. There will be some misunderstood ignorance posted once a month, then ignored, all the while being really boring elsewhere. But this is only to confuse us ! Or minds are obviously too weak to see what is really going on , BUT I GOT YOU FIGURED OUT STEADFAST ! Then they are going to Norway to get General Razorbeard to make a batch of E chemicals to distribute to all of us. I say that we are all doomed, but have until 2045.
:nerdy: :police:
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I am a very patient person.
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:D
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I am a very patient person.
So am I. Post.
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Patience is a virtue, just not one of mine.
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POST ALREADY!!!
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The ultimate troll. Irks us by silence. Meadows got nothing on her.
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Fucking meadow, I'd flame her to the fucking kuiper belt and back.
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I sent her a message ( a nice one ) saying she was called out and I think she should go read it.
Then like 15 minutes later she comes back, after I sent the message. Then she was "posting" in this thread but disappeared again.
This is either going to be funny or really disappointing. Someone needs to tell her this isnt a support forum.
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No sense in denying the lurve and support sometimes found on this forum.
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No sense in denying the lurve and support sometimes found on this forum.
I agree. I've met some of the nicest people in the world here.
But it is genuine. There arent going to be a lot of fake hugs thrown around, and I think that makes the real ones more sincere. I mean that this isnt a FAKE support forum, to just blah blah and expect sympathy.
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That is my sentiment, too, so I'm glad it's not just me.
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Patience is a virtue, just not one of mine.
I'm going to steal this one as a sig. :laugh:
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You must be more steadfast in the posting arena
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Patience is a virtue, just not one of mine.
I'm going to steal this one as a sig. :laugh:
:)
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Jack and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.
Are you coming back?
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I wonder if she's playing hard to get with the guys?
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Nah, she's probably just a troll.
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That ... or I scared her away. Quite good for the I2 business
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I don't know if I am coming back or not. I have issues in dealing with rejection.
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I will give you a tip. Free of charge.
You will never be the;
Smartest
Prettiest
Sexiest
Most popular
Most charismatic
Life is a game you will never win at and will die trying to.
Alternatively harden up
Love
Al
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I don't know if I am coming back or not. I have issues in dealing with rejection.
You should give it another shot; never know about these things.
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I don't know if I am coming back or not. I have issues in dealing with rejection.
:bigcry:
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Oh, she's NPD, no question.
Online DX's are impossible to make!!! :police: :tard:
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Oh, she's NPD, no question.
Online DX's are impossible to make!!! :police: :tard:
Yes, you are right.
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Okay this is my last post. I didn't realize that this was an Aspie only forum. It makes sense because people with other forms of autism aren't very driven to communicate so I doubt they would be active on this type of forum. My son does not have Asperger's, although he does belong to forums that pertain to his interests. He doesn't even know that he is autistic. I felt he would be happier not knowing. What is the point of knowing you have something that you can't do anything about? Before I go though, I would like to thank those who were nice to me and make a few last comments.
Jack: You have been very nice and I thank you for that. I don't even know why you felt you had to apologize but thanks for that as well.
Here is something you said on 9/23/11:
There's plenty of forums strictly designed for parents to talk to others parents. Parents might consider the possible impact of sharing details about child's personal life on forums the child might one day wish to join.
Jack 9/23/11
My response is that there was millions of forums on the net and the chance that my child will stumble on the same forum and recognize himself described therein is almost nil. Secondly, by the time those children have children of their own and are interested in joining parenting forums, either those forums will no longer exist or posts that are several years old would have been deleted.
Eris: I don't think that you really hate me. I think you just enjoy watching the show.
I just dont really see anything horrible that the kid did. Wanting to be independent is just natural at that age and you will clash with your parents. It shouldnt be a huge surprise that teenagers are rebellious and it doesnt mean her kid is a bad person but she is basically saying that her daughter is a "bad person". . If she was off stealing cars and shooting up supermarkets then maybe I would agree. I just think she doesnt like the person he daughter has become and as a parent she should take some responsibility for that.
quote from eris on 9/23/11
Maybe you missed the part where I said that my daughter stole a car. It was difficult to know what to do as a parent because nothing we tried helped. Her hatred of us at the time was so strong that her aim was to do as much damage as she could. Like I said, she blamed us for events that were beyond our control. Now she is working very hard to make us proud of her.
Ive known a lot of parents that say " look my kid is a bad person !" right to the kids face. So, they become a bad person.
So I guess I really dont know what motives she had for bashing her kids like that, but I still think it was excessive, and inappropriate to start out new somewhere like that. First impressions, etc etc, And the " I was asked so I told" excuse is lame. If someone asked her for her credit card info would she give that out too ?
eris 9/24/11
I don't believe I was bashing my kids. It was anonymous and the possibility that they would see my posts is almost nonexistent. I never once told my kids that they were bad people. I always told them that I loved them and that I would never abandon them. I told them there was nothing they could do that would make me stop loving them. I will never do what my own parents did.
Calavera: You'll believe whatever you want to, so I am done trying to explain myself to you.
Ron Hoek: You weren't nice.
Midlife Aspie: You were neutral.
Squid Ink: You were neutral generally, but you asked me the totally inappropriate "boob" question and called me a "tad bratty." I don't take offense.
PPK: You had no opinion of me.
Odeon: You were neutral.
Al Swearengen: You were annoying but I believe you meant it as a joke. I hope you enjoyed being Obama rolled.
Callaway: You were supportive, thank you.
I try not to take an hour to tell someone about a ninety minute movie I recently watched and I try to watch for people rolling their eyes or glancing at their watches to realize that I'm talking too long, but I'm definitely not a mind-reader.
Callaway 9/23/11
My husband and I love our daughter more than anything, but her behavior can be very challenging sometimes. I know that some people might think that her challenging behavior is caused by the way we are parenting her, but that's just not true. I think that sometimes, despite good parenting, children can make poor choices. It's possible that this could be the case with Steadfast's daughter. As far as I have read, she seems proud of how her autistic son is turning out and she raised him too.
Callaway 9/24/11
I feel responsible because I was the person who asked her. I asked because I was curious about what happened with her daughter. I could see my daughter at some point maybe calling the police to tattle on me for something silly and I wondered how she handled her daughter doing that. I wonder if maybe her daughter could be a narcissist.
Callaway 9/25/11
My totally "normal" daughter takes 90 minutes to describe a 90 minute movie too.
Miss Brown: You were supportive, thank you.
As for the callout, MCalavera obviously is the winner! but i do understand the frustrations of steadfast - just maybe get your feet under the table and make a few friends first before making bold statements. Do stay though.
Miss Brown 9/25/11
Just to say i am glad that you have taken the time to try
and explain. I think it may be hard for you to stick around, but
i, personally (and i am not an influential member here) would be
happy to talk to you about your children, and your issues with
them if you do. I don't think you are a troll, i think you
made some poorly worded comments which you have
apologised for. Welcome back, and stick around. There are
lots of really cool people here.
Miss Brown 10/3/11
Butterflies: You were understanding, thank you.
I'm not sure. Some of her most trollish comments came during her intro thread, where people were asking her to show her tits.
What we see as trolling, may have been her showing her butthurt at what she saw as an unpleasant welcome.
Butterflies 10/3/11
I was never a troll. I never meant to say anything rude or controversial. How great it is that the internet is so vast that I can go to another forum and start over without having to move to a new town. Maybe I'll get it right next time.
I am a very curious person. These are some of the questions I was going to ask:
1. How did you find out about your autism? How old were you?
2. Before you were told, did you think you were any different from anyone else?
3. How did knowing about it change your behavior? Did you ever use your diagnosis as an excuse instead of trying to conform?
4. What do you think about the vaccine theory? (I know it isn't true in my son's case)
5. When you meet people, how soon do you tell them about it? (I know that most diabetics keep their disease secret)
6. If no one had told you about your autism, do you think you would have figured it out by now due to the publicity the syndrome has gotten in recent times?
7. Does it bother you when they have autistic characters in TV and movies because of the stereotyping? Does that kid on Alphas bother you?
8. Has having autism affected your ability to get a job?
9. What would you say to an autistic person who didn't realize that he was offending people by the way he was speaking to them?
10. What do you think about those people who claim to have cured people of autism?
11. Now that you are grown, do you have any insights that would help other parents in how to teach correct behaviors to their autistic children?
12. What is WP? Is it a site I would be interested in?
13. On another forum they were discussing a study about atheism that postulated that autistic people were more likely to be atheist than the general population. Is this true? If so, why?
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you're right, I don't hate you :) What do they taste like ? your own farts I mean. You DO eat your own farts, right ?
tl; dr
only caught this part:
Okay this is my last post.
now that you blah blahed, gtfo.
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Steadfast--I do think you should tell your son that he is autistic. Most likely he'll know that he is different from others and knowing why can be a huge help. You cannot change being autistic but when you know what you have, you can avoid sensory overload and meltdowns, find coping strategies for autistic stuff you have problems with (could be anything from eye contact to all kinds of social stuff), and--perhaps above all--get help for any of the comorbids you might have.
I'm autistic but (probably as a result) I also have OCD and strong ADD tendencies, both of which I can manage with the help of medication and CBT.
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Squid Ink: You were neutral generally, but you asked me the totally inappropriate "boob" question
He asked you if you wanted to drink his breaks milk so he would burn calories easier ? Are you sure that wasnt Kit ?
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I never asked steadfast anything
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Sorry that you are leaving. I would be glad to answer your questions
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Never mind. Good luck to you, :thumbup:
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Yes I did and yes I did.
You will see me when I am noit joking. Though sometimes it is hard to distinguish. Take care
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Lots of people replying to this thread right now. I really am trying to wait around to read it all, but I must MUST go and masturbate furiously to homosexual pornography. back in 20 minutes. I hope I get at least one lol out of the replies.
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I don't believe I was bashing my kids. It was anonymous and the possibility that they would see my posts is almost nonexistent. I never once told my kids that they were bad people. I always told them that I loved them and that I would never abandon them. I told them there was nothing they could do that would make me stop loving them. I will never do what my own parents did.
Honestly, I was thinking maybe I fucked it up and went too harsh on you and maybe I made a poor judgement of you projected from my perception of one of my own parents who gains pleasure talking about his kids. But then I read this and see how I'm not so far off.
You could've just said that you did bash your own daughter in public among random strangers and that it was wrong to do so, but you just justified this act by saying that it's anonymous anyway. You show no shame in having said something against your daughter.
I don't think you're a troll actually, but you're not the best parent. Good luck to you anyway.
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Steadfast--I do think you should tell your son that he is autistic. Most likely he'll know that he is different from others and knowing why can be a huge help. You cannot change being autistic but when you know what you have, you can avoid sensory overload and meltdowns, find coping strategies for autistic stuff you have problems with (could be anything from eye contact to all kinds of social stuff), and--perhaps above all--get help for any of the comorbids you might have.
I'm autistic but (probably as a result) I also have OCD and strong ADD tendencies, both of which I can manage with the help of medication and CBT.
I agree on telling.
Wish I had known about mine around 20. That would have made a big difference.
My oldest wanted to know what was different for her herself, when she was 9. She always knew, but then it had a name, an explanation, and there was advise on how to work around things that were nearly impossible for her.
Knowledge does help in this case.
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Lots of people replying to this thread right now. I really am trying to wait around to read it all, but I must MUST go and masturbate furiously to homosexual pornography. back in 20 minutes. I hope I get at least one lol out of the replies.
Is that number 6 or 7 for this night?
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Midlife Aspie: You were neutral.
Squid Ink: You were neutral generally, but ...
PPK: You had no opinion of me.
Odeon: You were neutral.
Am I the only one who found this bit hilarious?
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I was left out. Boo hoo.
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Damn, that was more like 40 minutes :S
Lots of people replying to this thread right now. I really am trying to wait around to read it all, but I must MUST go and masturbate furiously to homosexual pornography. back in 20 minutes. I hope I get at least one lol out of the replies.
Is that number 6 or 7 for this night?
6
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You have to admit, it was quite a verbose exit. :toporly:
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You have to admit, it was quite a verbose exit. :toporly:
Definitely a Mechanised one.
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You have to admit, it was quite a verbose exit. :toporly:
Definitely a Mechanised one.
Well if it proves anything, it is that steadfast is Chair.
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You have to admit, it was quite a verbose exit. :toporly:
Definitely a Mechanised one.
Well if it proves anything, it is that steadfast is Chair.
But then, who was Table? :orly:
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You have to admit, it was quite a verbose exit. :toporly:
Definitely a Mechanised one.
Well if it proves anything, it is that steadfast is Chair.
But then, who was Table? :orly:
Meadow.
But I know what you are up to. You only said that because YOU are Chair and you wanted to take the heat off of that other Chair. >:D
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What are you playing at? Oh I see, you want my chair dooonnn't you? Well you're not getting it, no you're not... Take Stimpy's chair, that lazy asshole never sits on it. >:(
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I am a very curious person. These are some of the questions I was going to ask:
1. How did you find out about your autism? How old were you? 30
2. Before you were told, did you think you were any different from anyone else? Yes
3. How did knowing about it change your behavior? Did you ever use your diagnosis as an excuse instead of trying to conform? No it doesn't make it any easier for you and conforming is what everyone has to do in society. It makes you accept yourself and not hate yourself for being what you are and an understanding of why you are what you are.
4. What do you think about the vaccine theory? (I know it isn't true in my son's case) It is a lie spread for people wanting to buy in to a fix and a blame
5. When you meet people, how soon do you tell them about it? (I know that most diabetics keep their disease secret) Generally never. Some close friends do know and that is it. No one else's business and itis not that I want to be acknowledged as different or see a need to have people treat me differently, much less inferior, because of it
6. If no one had told you about your autism, do you think you would have figured it out by now due to the publicity the syndrome has gotten in recent times? Probably not.
7. Does it bother you when they have autistic characters in TV and movies because of the stereotyping? Does that kid on Alphas bother you? No i guess I have not really seen any and have no idea what Alphas is.
8. Has having autism affected your ability to get a job? Yes and no. Now I don't list it as an existing condition that may affect my job, no worries :)
9. What would you say to an autistic person who didn't realize that he was offending people by the way he was speaking to them? Simple. Logicall and not emotionally explain the situation.
10. What do you think about those people who claim to have cured people of autism? Arseholes...in a word
11. Now that you are grown, do you have any insights that would help other parents in how to teach correct behaviors to their autistic children? Yes I have an autistic son and much of what you woul seek to pass on as a parent does not change. Have pride in your kids , teach them right from wrong, teach them responsibilitya nd praise them for what they do right, expect to be patient and wise and a source of fallback for them, Most of all do not expect them to "be" NT they aren't
12. What is WP? Is it a site I would be interested in? Probably. It is a shitty site run in a shitty way with shitty mods and a shiity admin. There are plenty of shitty members whining incessenatly over shitty things. The only really good thing is that there are plenty of people on the spectrum there and therefore you may be able to pick out gems of people and advice there so long as you are not frustrated by the shiitiness an dtry to address this.
13. On another forum they were discussing a study about atheism that postulated that autistic people were more likely to be atheist than the general population. Is this true? If so, why? I think that many Autistic people have a deeprooted hold on logic and rationality and taking a leap of faith is at best difficult. That said i think that Autistics will follow mostly what they have been taught to hold as truth and rational irrespectively and deep seeded beliefs are hard to foist off, regardless.
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I am a very curious person. These are some of the questions I was going to ask:
1. How did you find out about your autism? How old were you?
2. Before you were told, did you think you were any different from anyone else?
3. How did knowing about it change your behavior? Did you ever use your diagnosis as an excuse instead of trying to conform?
4. What do you think about the vaccine theory? (I know it isn't true in my son's case)
5. When you meet people, how soon do you tell them about it? (I know that most diabetics keep their disease secret)
6. If no one had told you about your autism, do you think you would have figured it out by now due to the publicity the syndrome has gotten in recent times?
7. Does it bother you when they have autistic characters in TV and movies because of the stereotyping? Does that kid on Alphas bother you?
8. Has having autism affected your ability to get a job?
9. What would you say to an autistic person who didn't realize that he was offending people by the way he was speaking to them?
10. What do you think about those people who claim to have cured people of autism?
11. Now that you are grown, do you have any insights that would help other parents in how to teach correct behaviors to their autistic children?
12. What is WP? Is it a site I would be interested in?
13. On another forum they were discussing a study about atheism that postulated that autistic people were more likely to be atheist than the general population. Is this true? If so, why?
I think you are still missing the part where this isn't a support forum. We don't tend to get touchy feely and answer personal questions posed to us by strangers, just like IRL.
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Oops, spoke too soon. I didn't account for our most touchy-feely member :zoinks:
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I am a very curious person. These are some of the questions I was going to ask:
1. How did you find out about your autism? How old were you?
2. Before you were told, did you think you were any different from anyone else?
3. How did knowing about it change your behavior? Did you ever use your diagnosis as an excuse instead of trying to conform?
4. What do you think about the vaccine theory? (I know it isn't true in my son's case)
5. When you meet people, how soon do you tell them about it? (I know that most diabetics keep their disease secret)
6. If no one had told you about your autism, do you think you would have figured it out by now due to the publicity the syndrome has gotten in recent times?
7. Does it bother you when they have autistic characters in TV and movies because of the stereotyping? Does that kid on Alphas bother you?
8. Has having autism affected your ability to get a job?
9. What would you say to an autistic person who didn't realize that he was offending people by the way he was speaking to them?
10. What do you think about those people who claim to have cured people of autism?
11. Now that you are grown, do you have any insights that would help other parents in how to teach correct behaviors to their autistic children?
12. What is WP? Is it a site I would be interested in?
13. On another forum they were discussing a study about atheism that postulated that autistic people were more likely to be atheist than the general population. Is this true? If so, why?
I think you are still missing the part where this isn't a support forum. We don't tend to get touchy feely and answer personal questions posed to us by strangers, just like IRL.
dead right really. I only answered because i am the pussycat of teh Aspie Elite and a "friendly Bastard" but then you all know that. :autism:
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When did I ask a boob question and call her a tad bratty? ???
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When did I ask a boob question and call her a tad bratty? ???
Psssshhhh. Fucking NTs can't keep anything straight ;)
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When did I ask a boob question and call her a tad bratty? ???
Psssshhhh. Fucking NTs can't keep anything straight ;)
:lol:
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Jack: You have been very nice and I thank you for that. I don't even know why you felt you had to apologize but thanks for that as well.
Here is something you said on 9/23/11:
There's plenty of forums strictly designed for parents to talk to others parents. Parents might consider the possible impact of sharing details about child's personal life on forums the child might one day wish to join.
Jack 9/23/11
My response is that there was millions of forums on the net and the chance that my child will stumble on the same forum and recognize himself described therein is almost nil. Secondly, by the time those children have children of their own and are interested in joining parenting forums, either those forums will no longer exist or posts that are several years old would have been deleted.
I'm not autistic. I really don't want what I said to be taken as too harsh or be the reason for you leaving, but do stand by what I said. There aren't millions of sites designed for autistics and I don't agree with the nil. I would have said something similar if you were here to discuss an autistic spouse. The only other way I know how to word it would be rude, so will stick with my initial statement of something parents might want to consider. Your 'secondly' sentence seems to be talking about strictly parenting forums, which I agree it would be much less likely though. Kind of feeling like maybe misunderstanding you, but if that was really your last post then good luck to you.
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I was left out. Boo hoo.
As was I. Oh well.
I agree with odeon, the son should be told. If I never found out, I would be dead by now from never knowing why I was so different compared to other people. steadfast's son might benefit from going to a group for autistics to learn more about his condition and learn coping strategies and stuff.
They were interesting questions too but it steadfast is not coming back, then no point answering.