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Start here => Free For ALL => Topic started by: Adam on September 14, 2009, 05:15:29 PM
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does this mean i am a bad person? :(
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Not at all 8) I want to kick their lardy arses for assulting my eyes.
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me too
i find it disgusting when people eat anyway, but it's even more annoying when they're fat
when i went to stretford arndale the other day there were a load of women sat on the benches stuffing their face
looked like fat chavvy ones with no brain... you know the type
serves me right for going to stretford though probably
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I hate it when they eat on the Tube cause they drop bits on the floor and the smell of their food gets overpowering and makes you sick :thumbdn:
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yeah people shouldn't do disgusting things in public, especially in places where you're trapped there with them or can't escape it
i still stand by my proposed Designated Eating Zones (DEZs) idea, whereby it is illegal to eat outside of the canteens/cafes etc where eating is allowed
walking down the street, on the bus etc is not a Designated Eating Zone and therefore anyone caught eating there will face a £500 on-the-spot fine
repeat offenders risk jail or penal servitude for life
you might think this scheme would be dangerous, but i have taken into account people with diabetes etc, who could be provided cards exempting them from these rules under certain circumstances
once the Secular Republic has been created, i will rush through the legislation, don't worry
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Awesome :orly: If you eve rmake it to Parliament, your party has my vote :thumbup:
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Eeeexcellent :chin:
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does this mean i am a bad person? :(
I sort of feel the same way when people get themselves morbidly obese but I am inclined to let potbellies off the hook. Maybe its because I am a fatass that needs to lose 15 pounds? ???
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does this mean i am a bad person? :(
Not all at, it is a perfectly normal reaction.
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I sort of feel the same way when people get themselves morbidly obese but I am inclined to let potbellies off the hook. Maybe its because I am a fatass that needs to lose 15 pounds? ???
Do you weigh over 300lbs (136 kg)? If not, you are not a fatass.
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I sort of feel the same way when people get themselves morbidly obese but I am inclined to let potbellies off the hook. Maybe its because I am a fatass that needs to lose 15 pounds? ???
Do you weigh over 300lbs (136 kg)? If not, you are not a fatass.
195 lbs @ 5'10".
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195 lbs @ 5'10".
Nothing to worry about then :)
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I sort of feel the same way when people get themselves morbidly obese but I am inclined to let potbellies off the hook. Maybe its because I am a fatass that needs to lose 15 pounds? ???
Do you weigh over 300lbs (136 kg)? If not, you are not a fatass.
195 lbs @ 5'10".
That's fat. I'm 5'10" too and only 163 lbs. 8)
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My sister in law can't stand chewing. We get annoyed when people have to eat EVERYWHERE on the ferry. No matter where we sit some fat person starts eating. We have to get up and move because it annoys her so much. We get up and move a lot on the ferry.
it's even more annoying when people bring their own food cause the smell of old bread, juice boxes and banana peels is disgusting.
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Hmm, I might go eat something now.
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My sister in law can't stand chewing. We get annoyed when people have to eat EVERYWHERE on the ferry. No matter where we sit some fat person starts eating. We have to get up and move because it annoys her so much. We get up and move a lot on the ferry.
it's even more annoying when people bring their own food cause the smell of old bread, juice boxes and banana peels is disgusting.
Totally agree. Especially farmers and environmentalists seem to do that here in Sweden, usually on buses and trains. That's one of the reasons that I hate public transportations. Not that we even have any where I live.
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i feel great disgust when i see any person stuffing their face with food
Fixed I don't watch people eat yuck.
I don't see what fat has to do with it you don't want to be judged by your appearance why judge others?
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i feel great disgust when i see any person stuffing their face with food
Fixed I don't watch people eat yuck.
I don't see what fat has to do with it you don't want to be judged by your appearance why judge others?
You can help if you're fat, unlike being an aspie, for instance, unless you have a fucked up methabolism.
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Stuffing yourself in public is a big no for me too. Even if they're good for business, I wouldn't allow fat gluttony types to enter my restaurant if I had one.
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I just weighed myself after lunch: 73.8 kilos.
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I just weighed myself after lunch: 73.8 kilos.
That's slim/normal for a hallstatt nordid.
I'm some sort of atlantonordid (mostly) with random racial elements and I'm 180 cm 63 kg.
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I was 61 kilos when I was 18. I can see it in my military papers (I dodged military, though). I'm 1.78 cm tall.
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I was 61 kilos when I was 18. I can see it in my military papers (I dodged military, though). I'm 1.78 cm tall.
So you're a bit stocky now?
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:laugh:
Yes, compared to what I looked like before. But I have no greater difficulties losing weight if I want. I have a pretty fast methabolism.
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You can help being a racist too twat too. :zoinks:
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i feel great disgust when i see any person stuffing their face with food
Fixed I don't watch people eat yuck.
I don't see what fat has to do with it you don't want to be judged by your appearance why judge others?
i get shit for being an autistic spazz and being transgendered. i don't mind if people give me shit for my weight (and they often have - double standards)
fatness is something the person could have avoided 99% of the time
it's just something i find disgusting
judging someone for being fat and greedy isn't the same as judging someone for being weird even when they're trying to be normal, or because you can't tell what sex they are and think you have a right to know
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I'm fat because I have a crazy diet. Irregular eating habits plus slow metabolism isn't such a great thing.
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What about fat and jolly or giving like Santa. Fat people aren't all greedy. You also talked of the cloths well they can be easily changed also but should you have too
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i have a shit diet but fast metabolism
i need to build up muscle apparently
i do try and get exercise, but i feel incredibly unfit and get out of breath easily so can't be arsed a lot of the time
if i start getting fat though i will make sure i exercise and eat less shit
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You also talked of the cloths well they can be easily changed also but should you have too
not really. i don't actually dress how i'd like to at all actually. i just do the best i can - somewhere between comfort and what's socially acceptable. it's not like i go out in fancy dress or anything. my clothes just don;t fit me well and that's mainly sensory stuff.
being fat is unhealthy as well. having AS and being trans might be too in a way, but neither of those are choices. the way i am is actually more healthy for me than to change to suit other people. whereas fat people are being fat because they eat too much and are too lazy to exercise
they get in the way a lot as well, and are often very slow. not to mention the effect it has on the NHS and society in general. especially when fat people have children
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The thing is, you can be fat and fit at the same time.
I also have my arthritis working against me, and my weight working against my arthritis. I probably need to go see a nutritionist or something.
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I dress a bit excentric at times but I still get annoyed and sometimes talk down to people like "I'm not here to discuss my looks with you" when I get the usual "wooow, you're a really special guy aren't you?".
Even when it's someone who's in awe of me, like alternative art-type/theater girls who think I'm cool and isn't doing it to ridicule or trying to "get me down to earth" I get annoyed.
Even if I usually manage to scare people into not ridiculing me publicly, there's always some insecure, average (guy usually, women tend to be more fascinated) people who look at me with a slight and insecure smirk on their faces. When drunk they can sometimes approach me with annoying questions, I hate that too.
I have a certain "gayness" about me even if I don't speak in a feminine way and don't walk or use feminine body language. That's probably why girls more commonly look at me with awe while guys look at me with suspicion. Girls seem to compare their clothes etc to mine and check out how I'm styled, my designer sunglasses etc while guys just look scared or do the insecure smirk thing. Older men, funny enough, seem to se the more military and orderly in me and treat me very respectfully despite the fact I sometimes dress slightly exhibitionistic. The same type of men who would be openly rude or trying to lecture young boys/men with a more careless attitude.
Some immigrants also treat me better and aren't as scared of me. Black people for example. I've seen white male security guards walk away nervously when I come close and leave the body search/control check to a black guy instead. It happened so many times I think it's not coincidence. Black cab drivers always fetch me on the street before I even have time to ask for a taxi. This is just in general though, not saying everyone of a certain race is one way.
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You probably get more shit for being gay than the way you dress. The way you dress probably just gets you more attention than you'd rather want.
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So fat is the new tobacco okay to bust on people about it, to tax them and such because it's for there own good?
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I have a certain "gayness" about me even if I don't speak in a feminine way and don't walk or use feminine body language.
yeah, this is the kinda thing i mean. not much you can "easily" do about it even if you're prepared to change it, so it's not as simple as just changing your clothes and then you fit in fine.
i think i am fairly androgynous and, while some of this is down to what I wear, most of it is more subtle and would still be there regardless of the clothes you wear. so it's different to just eating too much
Phlexor - i'm mainly thinking of the ones that do just eat too much and don't get exercise. sure there are some who aren't greedy/lazy, but a lot of it comes down to that, or there wouldn't be such an increase in obesity
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So fat is the new tobacco okay to bust on people about it, to tax them and such because it's for there own good?
who's taxing fat people for their extra fat?
it's ok if they're taking up two seats on a plane or something, yes
people have to pay extra for heavy luggage, so why not make people pay extra if that heavy luggage just happens to be inside them?
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So fat is the new tobacco okay to bust on people about it, to tax them and such because it's for there own good?
who's taxing fat people for their extra fat?
it's ok if they're taking up two seats on a plane or something, yes
people have to pay extra for heavy luggage, so why not make people pay extra if that heavy luggage just happens to be inside them?
They are trying here to introduce a fast food tax and a soda tax. I agree about the two seats though if they really need them and if they have firm rules set up about who is and is not
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Phlexor - i'm mainly thinking of the ones that do just eat too much and don't get exercise. sure there are some who aren't greedy/lazy, but a lot of it comes down to that, or there wouldn't be such an increase in obesity
I'm not trying to make an excuse for why I'm the way I am. Clearly I could do something about it.
It would be a lot of hard work, I know that, and I'm generally allergic to hard work. :zoinks:
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Phlexor - i'm mainly thinking of the ones that do just eat too much and don't get exercise. sure there are some who aren't greedy/lazy, but a lot of it comes down to that, or there wouldn't be such an increase in obesity
I'm not trying to make an excuse for why I'm the way I am. Clearly I could do something about it.
It would be a lot of hard work, I know that, and I'm generally allergic to hard work. :zoinks:
Me too :headbang2: Fuck I do enough of it at work for me climbing ladders and such
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Fuck, I need some good running shoes so I can at least start some daily walking or something.
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I recently gave up on soft drinks still don't have running shoes running hurts
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Phlexor - i'm mainly thinking of the ones that do just eat too much and don't get exercise. sure there are some who aren't greedy/lazy, but a lot of it comes down to that, or there wouldn't be such an increase in obesity
I'm not trying to make an excuse for why I'm the way I am. Clearly I could do something about it.
It would be a lot of hard work, I know that, and I'm generally allergic to hard work. :zoinks:
You're careless and at the same time arrogant. A bad combination.
The person that comes to mind was a fat guy at my high school who wore his long, thin hair unwashed and uncut, always wore a cheap grey military coat every day and didn't seem to ever have seen a shower in his life. He lived inside his roleplaying world but the thing that really made me hate him was the fact he acted as if he was extremely knowledgeable about everything. He would tell people in a short, arrogant way how things worked and he was allergic to anyone being "better than him". He joined the kendo practice but couldn't even keep up with the physical warmup, he stood panting like the only retarded loser on the side. Instead, before and after the training he would show people his home made sword fighting skills, inspired by LoTR and his fantasy roleplaying and claim "none could beat him". It was embarassing.
The fact that he clearly thought he was great himself, and took pride in and stated openly how awesome he was for living on a diet of crisps/chips and playing roleplay games all his spare time and the fact he couldn't seem to accept when anyone else was good at something, made me sickened by him. I found out that he had problems with his self image, when I ventured into his own field of roleplaying and made a "manga stereotype alter ego" for all the members of a discussion board. 95% of people were amazed and satisfied with the stereotype I picked for them and agreed it even looked like them IRL, but for the fat narcissist guy I picked an unfit thief/charlatan stereotype who made a living by posing as famous hero in cheap taverns and displaying his home made, "glorious" martial arts skills with cheap painted sticks which were copies of real weapons. The model I picked even looked like him, fat and ugly. He was really unhappy with being associated with that stereotype.
You remind me of him, just that you seem a little older and more experienced.
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Phlexor - i'm mainly thinking of the ones that do just eat too much and don't get exercise. sure there are some who aren't greedy/lazy, but a lot of it comes down to that, or there wouldn't be such an increase in obesity
I'm not trying to make an excuse for why I'm the way I am. Clearly I could do something about it.
It would be a lot of hard work, I know that, and I'm generally allergic to hard work. :zoinks:
You're careless and at the same time arrogant. A bad combination.
The person that comes to mind was a fat guy at my high school who wore his long, thin hair unwashed and uncut, always wore a cheap grey military coat every day and didn't seem to ever have seen a shower in his life. He lived inside his roleplaying world but the thing that really made me hate him was the fact he acted as if he was extremely knowledgeable about everything. He would tell people in a short, arrogant way how things worked and he was allergic to anyone being "better than him". He joined the kendo practice but couldn't even keep up with the physical warmup, he stood panting like the only retarded loser on the side. Instead, before and after the training he would show people his home made sword fighting skills, inspired by LoTR and his fantasy roleplaying and claim "none could beat him". It was embarassing.
The fact that he clearly thought he was great himself, and took pride in and stated openly how awesome he was for living on a diet of crisps/chips and playing roleplay games all his spare time and the fact he couldn't seem to accept when anyone else was good at something, made me sickened by him. I found out that he had problems with his self image, when I ventured into his own field of roleplaying and made a "manga stereotype alter ego" for all the members of a discussion board. 95% of people were amazed and satisfied with the stereotype I picked for them and agreed it even looked like them IRL, but for the fat narcissist guy I picked an unfit thief/charlatan stereotype who made a living by posing as famous hero in cheap taverns and displaying his home made, "glorious" martial arts skills with cheap painted sticks which were copies of real weapons. The model I picked even looked like him, fat and ugly. He was really unhappy with being associated with that stereotype.
You remind me of him, just that you seem a little older and more experienced.
I'm nothing like the guy you described.
I know I don't know shit in the grand scale of things. I'm not proud of my diet. I suck at pc/console gaming even though I enjoy it (I only mention this because I'm not a big fan of rpg games).
My main problem is motivation coupled with the fact that it takes me hours to wake up. I don't feel fully awake until sundown, and by then, it's too late to do anything really.
Everything works out in the end, so something will come along to make me get off my ass and do something.
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I'm getting podgy :zombiefuck:
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I'm getting podgy :zombiefuck:
You need a bit of chub.
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I don't need chub and chub doesn't need me. We are not compatible :thumbdn:
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I don't need chub and chub doesn't need me. We are not compatible :thumbdn:
Soft is better than boney.
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I don't think she needs a bit of chub (not saying she would be fat if she put on a bit of weight either btw lol), but I don't see what's wrong with her being thin either
And none of you can use the usual excuse about not having curves or looking like a boy. From what I remember, that isn't the case :lol: :bounce:
btw again with the double standards
People would get shit for telling a fat person they need to lose a bit of the fat (even though that's almost ALWAYS true - fat people are unhealthy), yet it's perfectly acceptable (and often encouraged) to tell thin people to get a bit of fat
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I do neither. You don't even know the half of the shit you get when over weight. Every time I go to the doctor it's all they blame everything on migraines , the flu even eye problems. They seem disappointed when you blood pressure comes in normal I had one lie to me about my blood sugar once when I went in for bronchitis telling me it was way to high I saw the number and looked it up when I got home it was withing the normal range. I'm not saying I shouldn't lose some weight, I am working on it, or that people who are naturally thin should gain some just that I am sick of it. If you don't think most heavier people would lose weight if they could then why does the diet industry make so much
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I do neither. You don't even know the half of the shit you get when over weight. Every time I go to the doctor it's all they blame everything on migraines , the flu even eye problems. They seem disappointed when you blood pressure comes in normal I had one lie to me about my blood sugar once when I went in for bronchitis telling me it was way to high I saw the number and looked it up when I got home it was withing the normal range. I'm not saying I shouldn't lose some weight, I am working on it, or that people who are naturally thin should gain some just that I am sick of it. If you don't think most heavier people would lose weight if they could then why does the diet industry make so much
Oh yeah I'm so sick of that when I go see the doc. Last time I needed to see the doc to get a new prescription, I got my wife to ring the doc first and tell them I didn't want any talk about my weight or else I'm not coming in.
It worked.
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I had to go through a KGB interrogation to get my Stesolid (same as Valium), and I'm not even fat.
"What's your personal number? Your address? Phone number? Do you take them often? Do they run out before you get a new prescription? Et cetera Et cetera". :thumbdn:
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I had to go through a KGB interrogation to get my Stesolid (same as Valium), and I'm not even fat.
"What's your personal number? Your address? Phone number? Do you take them often? Do they run out before you get a new prescription? Et cetera Et cetera". :thumbdn:
You get stesolid prescribed? I'm so jealous. I have Sobril though. I use it for sleeping sometimes. A sobril + a sleeping pill called zopiklon merck combined is a really nice sleep cocktail.
Anyway, if I wasn't so careful with my health and also aware that I won't have easy access to Sobril once I used up this box, I would eat them like candy. Several times a day...
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If you don't think most heavier people would lose weight if they could then why does the diet industry make so much
because of all the lazy women who have no self-control and refuse to exercise. a lot of these diets are just bullshit.
and the main thing it - why do they let themselves get that bad in the first place? if i felt i was putting on too much weight, I'd quit eating so much junk and start exercising more. I wouldn't allow myself to get fat (unless I had some kind of illness or accident and therefore couldn't exercise or whatever). Most people aren't in a situation where they CAN'T lose weight thoug. they just tell themselves that when really they're just lazy and greedy
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I had to go through a KGB interrogation to get my Stesolid (same as Valium), and I'm not even fat.
"What's your personal number? Your address? Phone number? Do you take them often? Do they run out before you get a new prescription? Et cetera Et cetera". :thumbdn:
You get stesolid prescribed? I'm so jealous. I have Sobril though. I use it for sleeping sometimes. A sobril + a sleeping pill called zopiklon merck combined is a really nice sleep cocktail.
I'm dangerous, so they give me Stesolid, so that I should stay nice and calm.
8)
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btw I get people blaming my health prob;lems on bad diet and being underweight too. all the time. I even get comments on it from people I've literally just met. I accept they're partly right though.
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here I've had Prozac, Dosulepin, Valium, Librium, Seroxat and something else I took the other day, which was similar to Librium but my mum said it was something else.
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If you don't think most heavier people would lose weight if they could then why does the diet industry make so much
because of all the lazy women who have no self-control and refuse to exercise. a lot of these diets are just bullshit.
and the main thing it - why do they let themselves get that bad in the first place? if i felt i was putting on too much weight, I'd quit eating so much junk and start exercising more. I wouldn't allow myself to get fat (unless I had some kind of illness or accident and therefore couldn't exercise or whatever). Most people aren't in a situation where they CAN'T lose weight thoug. they just tell themselves that when really they're just lazy and greedy
It's true most are lazy. It's their own fault they're fat but in certain cultures being fat is so common that it's viewed as society's fault or even "a variation of normal". That's disgusting.
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here I've had Prozac, Dosulepin, Valium, Librium, Seroxat and something else I took the other day, which was similar to Librium but my mum said it was something else.
What's Dosulepin, Librium and Seroxat for?
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If you don't think most heavier people would lose weight if they could then why does the diet industry make so much
because of all the lazy women who have no self-control and refuse to exercise. a lot of these diets are just bullshit.
and the main thing it - why do they let themselves get that bad in the first place? if i felt i was putting on too much weight, I'd quit eating so much junk and start exercising more. I wouldn't allow myself to get fat (unless I had some kind of illness or accident and therefore couldn't exercise or whatever). Most people aren't in a situation where they CAN'T lose weight thoug. they just tell themselves that when really they're just lazy and greedy
It's true most are lazy. It's their own fault they're fat but in certain cultures being fat is so common that it's viewed as society's fault or even "a variation of normal". That's disgusting.
I hate the way people are getting fatter each year, to the point where a skinny average sized person is being told to eat up cause in society's eyes they're apparently too thin.
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yeah over here we're becoming more americanised and the number of obese people is increasing. it's particularly worrying that we're now getting loads of fat children like they have in the US. children should not be fat, they should be running around playing all the time. how are they getting fat? :-\
here I've had Prozac, Dosulepin, Valium, Librium, Seroxat and something else I took the other day, which was similar to Librium but my mum said it was something else.
What's Dosulepin, Librium and Seroxat for?
they're all for anxiety. Dosulepin is a tricyclic antidepressant or something. Seroxat is like Prozac, another SSRI. Librium was a short-term thing, I think it was similar to Valium. I'm just on the Seroxat now. Initially for OCD but it's helped me with social anxiety and depression as well, worked great.
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If you don't think most heavier people would lose weight if they could then why does the diet industry make so much
because of all the lazy women who have no self-control and refuse to exercise. a lot of these diets are just bullshit.
and the main thing it - why do they let themselves get that bad in the first place? if i felt i was putting on too much weight, I'd quit eating so much junk and start exercising more. I wouldn't allow myself to get fat (unless I had some kind of illness or accident and therefore couldn't exercise or whatever). Most people aren't in a situation where they CAN'T lose weight thoug. they just tell themselves that when really they're just lazy and greedy
It's true most are lazy. It's their own fault they're fat but in certain cultures being fat is so common that it's viewed as society's fault or even "a variation of normal". That's disgusting.
I hate the way people are getting fatter each year, to the point where a skinny average sized person is being told to eat up cause in society's eyes they're apparently too thin.
have you seen on the news recently all the stuff about how some people are so huge, they need special measures taken to accommodate them, particularly in hospitals and with super-sized coffins at funerals. it's fucked up, especially when these people have kids. there's no way an extremely unhealthy person can raise a kid. when they're young you need to chase after them and play with them. how can a woman who's too fat to walk run round after a toddler in the garden? yet I saw a parent in the school playground who was so big she'd had to come to pick up her kid on a weheelchair thing
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If you don't think most heavier people would lose weight if they could then why does the diet industry make so much
because of all the lazy women who have no self-control and refuse to exercise. a lot of these diets are just bullshit.
and the main thing it - why do they let themselves get that bad in the first place? if i felt i was putting on too much weight, I'd quit eating so much junk and start exercising more. I wouldn't allow myself to get fat (unless I had some kind of illness or accident and therefore couldn't exercise or whatever). Most people aren't in a situation where they CAN'T lose weight thoug. they just tell themselves that when really they're just lazy and greedy
It's true most are lazy. It's their own fault they're fat but in certain cultures being fat is so common that it's viewed as society's fault or even "a variation of normal". That's disgusting.
I hate the way people are getting fatter each year, to the point where a skinny average sized person is being told to eat up cause in society's eyes they're apparently too thin.
I always got to hear that I was "too thin", when I in fact am normal/slim.
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If you don't think most heavier people would lose weight if they could then why does the diet industry make so much
because of all the lazy women who have no self-control and refuse to exercise. a lot of these diets are just bullshit.
and the main thing it - why do they let themselves get that bad in the first place? if i felt i was putting on too much weight, I'd quit eating so much junk and start exercising more. I wouldn't allow myself to get fat (unless I had some kind of illness or accident and therefore couldn't exercise or whatever). Most people aren't in a situation where they CAN'T lose weight thoug. they just tell themselves that when really they're just lazy and greedy
It's true most are lazy. It's their own fault they're fat but in certain cultures being fat is so common that it's viewed as society's fault or even "a variation of normal". That's disgusting.
I hate the way people are getting fatter each year, to the point where a skinny average sized person is being told to eat up cause in society's eyes they're apparently too thin.
have you seen on the news recently all the stuff about how some people are so huge, they need special measures taken to accommodate them, particularly in hospitals and with super-sized coffins at funerals. it's fucked up, especially when these people have kids. there's no way an extremely unhealthy person can raise a kid. when they're young you need to chase after them and play with them. how can a woman who's too fat to walk run round after a toddler in the garden? yet I saw a parent in the school playground who was so big she'd had to come to pick up her kid on a weheelchair thing
Not to mention them needing double spaces on planes and such. My friend took a coach back to London from his uni and had to sit next the biggest womanbeast ever. She squished him so much that he was literally lying on the window (he had the window seat). It's selfish having a kid when you're morbidly obese. Also, eating habits generally get passed down from parent to child so these kids will probably end up fat too >:(
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I am technically quite a bit under weight, so I am too thin really, but a "bit of fat" is not what I need - it's muscle I am lacking, because I am so weak. Telling someone who's think that they need to fatten up is wrong. They need to work out and be healthy, like all people. Not put on a load of weight in fat
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Also, eating habits generally get passed down from parent to child so these kids will probably end up fat too >:(
yeah and they they often use this as an excuse, saying it must be a genetic thing if my parents were fat too. but that's mostly bullshit - I knew two kids who were fat(and whose parents were fat), but then when they got older the girl started to exercise and went to the gym, and she's now a fairly normal weight. She'll never exactly be skinny, but she's not overweight anymore
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I am technically quite a bit under weight, so I am too thin really, but a "bit of fat" is not what I need - it's muscle I am lacking, because I am so weak. Telling someone who's think that they need to fatten up is wrong. They need to work out and be healthy, like all people. Not put on a load of weight in fat
I used to be like that but since I started living on raw vegetable tuna, baby spinach and fresh broccoli salad and working out 10 minutes every day I built muscle and became normal but still "slim". Call me weaboo but I have an asian body type.
I've told my mom she didn't make nutritious enough food when I was growing up, she didn't make food regularly etc. She won't accept it, she claims her mix of creamy gratins, vegetable soup and pancakes was enough. She didn't even cook real food every day. It was when I started taking control of my own diet, in adult age, that I also started to get a "normal" body.
My mother is even a trained chef but she never practices what she preaches. Nutrition and her just don't go hand in hand. She cooks tasty but very low nutrition value food and she usually uses an excess of meat and dairy products. Unfortunately, eating her food usually just means I upset my own rythm and exchanges a nutritious meal for a non nutritious but "filling" meal (like exchanging the tuna salad for a cheese and meat gratin or a pasta based dish), that's just not good. Best thing for me is to avoid my mom's cooking alltogether.
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My mum believes in a fat, greasy Polish diet. She has no imagination at all when cooking.
Going back to fatness in general, if you think about it, it's actually quite plausible that we might end up like the humans in Wall-E.
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My mum believes in a fat, greasy Polish diet. She has no imagination at all when cooking.
Going back to fatness in general, if you think about it, it's actually quite plausible that we might end up like the humans in Wall-E.
My mom has serious difficultues making anything which doesn't contain 1. Meat 2. Dairy products. At least 50% of what she makes turns into gratin. During her cook training she learned a lot of nice techniques and dishes, more chicken, fish etc but she just reverts back to meat and milk/cheese and gratin no matter what.
She also never accepts that the food sometimes doesn't taste good. Like when she makes the soup too salt, uses too much of something etc... I hate the fact that she expects that all her meals are fit for "royals" or whatever. Is she going to serve some fucking taco gratin for royal dinner? She rates her own cooking too highly. She lacks the finesse of a real chef in many ways, in some ways she's really good though but that's just a few meat dishes she mastered well. I've tried to tell her but it won't sink in. She's convinced that anyone who tries her cooking has a life changing experience and she exaggerates the effect her cooking had on the business of the very average restaurants she worked at.
But she's like that towards her children as well. When I was a child she could shame me in front of professional musicians, because I had good talent for piano, and convince them I was some sort of wonder child when I in fact was just a somewhat talented but still rather crude playing boy. She still lives in the past and thinks I could go play for the king. In a way she's pathetic. She doesn't even know how to take care of a musical intrument (she played the violin as a teenager but uses the piano as a decorating table and never once tuned it) but she speaks as if her genes are "above" those of others in terms of music. As if we have inherited a "musical gift" from her. She's highly average on the violin, she has a rigid and monotone style of playing, a little too loud, a little too violent etc, just like the cooking a little too hard, a little too overdone. She's also convinced the "musical gift" must come from her side of the family, when my father's family were austrian musicians for generations, orchestra leaders and my dad's cousing today is an austrian professor in baroque music. Still it's the "swedish folk music of Hälsingland" the "genious" my mother carries within her that passed to us. She's just so smart, so good according to herself. And she changes personality depending on her mood. I've told her she has a personality disorder and just realizing that helps me battle my own personality disorders which she passed on to me. That's what I inherited.
A few days ago, she made a meat stew with tomatoes and red pepper and called it "hungarian gulasch". I tried to explain to her that not even the "gulasch" they serve on 2-3 star restaurants in Vienna a few miles from the hungarian border is considered true hungarian gulasch. I also told her her stew was good and tasted like a nice stew but nothing like gulasch, and she was so hurt and offended. She doesn't realize she just makes a fool of herself. I used to be like that too but I learned to see where I got it from.
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People in northern Sweden eat very unhealthy food in general. :thumbdn:
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People in northern Sweden eat very unhealthy food in general. :thumbdn:
True northerners just eat salted pork basically. My family is mixed, my mother is from Hälsingland and her cooking isn't typically northern swedish but it's not very nutritious either.
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My mum believes in a fat, greasy Polish diet. She has no imagination at all when cooking.
Going back to fatness in general, if you think about it, it's actually quite plausible that we might end up like the humans in Wall-E.
we're gonna split into two different types: short, podgy, unintelligent humans, and tall, welll-built, intelligent ones. what is interesting is that apparently the superior ones (the second type) will have "perter breasts" and bigger dicks
evolution for you
it's true though - the low-life scum (who are often overweight and illiterate) are interbreeding. they will outnumber us though, as they're more likely to impregnate each other early in life and frequently, while the better educated use contraception and have fewer kids
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People in northern Sweden eat very unhealthy food in general. :thumbdn:
True northerners just eat salted pork basically. My family is mixed, my mother is from Hälsingland and her cooking isn't typically northern swedish but it's not very nutritious either.
Me thinks you need to move to more civilized parts of Sweden.
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My mum believes in a fat, greasy Polish diet. She has no imagination at all when cooking.
Going back to fatness in general, if you think about it, it's actually quite plausible that we might end up like the humans in Wall-E.
we're gonna split into two different types: short, podgy, unintelligent humans, and tall, welll-built, intelligent ones. what is interesting is that apparently the superior ones (the second type) will have "perter breasts" and bigger dicks
evolution for you
it's true though - the low-life scum (who are often overweight and illiterate) are interbreeding. they will outnumber us though, as they're more likely to impregnate each other early in life and frequently, while the better educated use contraception and have fewer kids
I don't know if aspie genes can count as good. I'm not going to have kids.
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Fat people have feelings too you know.
Everyone busies themselves helping someone who is anorexic but when it comes to fat people they just blame them for being lazy and eating too much. Being fat is an eating disorder too.
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People in northern Sweden eat very unhealthy food in general. :thumbdn:
True northerners just eat salted pork basically. My family is mixed, my mother is from Hälsingland and her cooking isn't typically northern swedish but it's not very nutritious either.
Me thinks you need to move to more civilized parts of Sweden.
The national food in Stockholm and Gothenburg is spaghetti, falu sausage and a bottle of ketchup or a bowl of Kellog's Frosties and raw cow's milk. No different from the north really. One thing Västerbotten has a lot of is fresh salmon. of course they can't cook it, but I buy it raw and fresh, local fish, and make sashimi after having frozen it for 24 hours to remove parasites.
Swedes IN GENERAL eat like trash.
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Fat people have feelings too you know.
Everyone busies themselves helping someone who is anorexic but when it comes to fat people they just blame them for being lazy and eating too much. Being fat is an eating disorder too.
Good point. I look down on anorectis as much as I do on compulsive eaters though. I think anorectics are annoying and disgusting.
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I'm not either. I'm not sure I'd make a good parent. My intentions would be right, but I'd be too worried about fucking it up and the poor kid ending up like me. If I do have kids they definitely won't be my genetic offspring anyway. My AS has bee bad enough, but my younger cousin who is being assessed for ASDs has had a really hard time with it. I know a lot of people with AS go on about how great it is and how we're just different, but for a lot of us, it is hell being this "different," especially growing up. If I have kids I'll adopt one that already here, rather than bring another one into the world knowing what its life will never be good enough, no matter what you do for them
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I love salmon. My local pizza place (one of the oldest in Sweden) serves salmon pasta. 8)
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Everyone busies themselves helping someone who is anorexic but when it comes to fat people they just blame them for being lazy and eating too much. Being fat is an eating disorder too.
Not always. Being lazy and greedy isn't the same as being anorexic or bullimic.
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Everyone busies themselves helping someone who is anorexic but when it comes to fat people they just blame them for being lazy and eating too much. Being fat is an eating disorder too.
Not always. Being lazy and greedy isn't the same as being anorexic or bullimic.
No, it just means you hate fat people and have sympathy for anorexics. Bit of a double standard. Most fat people aren't fat just because they are lazy and greedy. That would be like me saying anorexics can eat, they just don't for the attention.
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I'm not either. I'm not sure I'd make a good parent. My intentions would be right, but I'd be too worried about fucking it up and the poor kid ending up like me. If I do have kids they definitely won't be my genetic offspring anyway. My AS has bee bad enough, but my younger cousin who is being assessed for ASDs has had a really hard time with it. I know a lot of people with AS go on about how great it is and how we're just different, but for a lot of us, it is hell being this "different," especially growing up. If I have kids I'll adopt one that already here, rather than bring another one into the world knowing what its life will never be good enough, no matter what you do for them
Adoption is much better, I agree. It can equalize things. Instead of people spreading defect genes. I know I have some defect genes, just like many others. I also have some very nice, talented and healthy genes but overall, I don't want my kids to be like me. Not even physically. Even though most people would call my face normal, I wouldn't want to risk passing it on.
And btw, because I'm gay I also view it as natural for me to not have kids. I'm not really a big fan of gay couples who wants to have children. I think it's disgusting.
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I can see the lazy part but gI don't get the greedy bit :-\
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Maybe greedy isn't the right word. I mean people who stuff their faces with food when they know they are overweight and maybe should reconsider that cake
Anorexia is a terrible disorder. Most fat people are fat because they like the taste of food and they can't be arsed walking when they could get the car - hardly the same
Also for most people with eating disorders it's about having a skewed view of themselves, and seeign themselves as ugly/fat when they're actually incredibly thin. For fat people, they often know they're fat (pretty easy to see when they can't fit through the door), but do nothing about it
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Maybe greedy isn't the right word. I mean people who stuff their faces with food when they know they are overweight and maybe should reconsider that cake
Anorexia is a terrible disorder. Most fat people are fat because they like the taste of food and they can't be arsed walking when they could get the car - hardly the same
Also for most people with eating disorders it's about having a skewed view of themselves, and seeign themselves as ugly/fat when they're actually incredibly thin. For fat people, they often know they're fat (pretty easy to see when they can't fit through the door), but do nothing about it
I don't believe anorexia exists. I think it's just a form of acting out depression. Like self harming/cutting yourself etc. This is also cultural and tied to the human flock mentality. Anorectics is one type of mentally ill who just wants attention. Beating sense into them would probably work better than going the soft way. I just can't respect anorectics. It's obvious they are using the anorexia to try to guilt trip others rather than saying right out what's wrong with them. And ofc, the emotional "empathic" majority are fooled by it and feed the little anorectic emotional vampires. Anorectics are a sort of emotional parasite, nothing more. Like some alcoholics who want to have pity through their abuse. Anorexia is really the epitome of self pity.
I know how to deal with anorectics. Show them no understanding what so ever, lure or force out that anger and hatred they have hidden deep down, just don't play along with their sympathy seeking.
Anorectics are just like the underling vampires in fiction. Those mindless bloodsuckers turned into vampires by a vampire lord, or like the girl from The Excorcist. You just have to wave silver crosses and sprinkle holy water on them (not literally). It's so sad that those little creatures are getting so much focus from the healthcare system.
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Anorexia is really the epitome of self hatred and striving for perfection.
fixed.
I don't disagree that mobid obesity is a form of an eating disorder but whatever you may say fat people still get treated better in society because it is universally "rude" to tell someone they look/are fat.
Urging everyone to be chubby isn't fucking helping either.
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Maybe greedy isn't the right word. I mean people who stuff their faces with food when they know they are overweight and maybe should reconsider that cake
Anorexia is a terrible disorder. Most fat people are fat because they like the taste of food and they can't be arsed walking when they could get the car - hardly the same
Also for most people with eating disorders it's about having a skewed view of themselves, and seeign themselves as ugly/fat when they're actually incredibly thin. For fat people, they often know they're fat (pretty easy to see when they can't fit through the door), but do nothing about it
For me it's not the food but the drink. I don't eat nearly as much as most people think but up until a couple weeks ago would drink 3 or more liters of Coke a day . I have since stopped and anm trying to get a taste for water but it's hard
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Anorexia is really the epitome of self hatred and striving for perfection.
fixed.
I don't disagree that mobid obesity is a form of an eating disorder but whatever you may say fat people still get treated better in society because it is universally "rude" to tell someone they look/are fat.
Urging everyone to be chubby isn't fucking helping either.
:laugh:
Rude like that stops people
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Maybe greedy isn't the right word. I mean people who stuff their faces with food when they know they are overweight and maybe should reconsider that cake
Anorexia is a terrible disorder. Most fat people are fat because they like the taste of food and they can't be arsed walking when they could get the car - hardly the same
Also for most people with eating disorders it's about having a skewed view of themselves, and seeign themselves as ugly/fat when they're actually incredibly thin. For fat people, they often know they're fat (pretty easy to see when they can't fit through the door), but do nothing about it
So when was the last time you were really fat?
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Anorexia is really the epitome of self hatred and striving for perfection.
fixed.
I don't disagree that mobid obesity is a form of an eating disorder but whatever you may say fat people still get treated better in society because it is universally "rude" to tell someone they look/are fat.
Urging everyone to be chubby isn't fucking helping either.
Fat people get treated really bad, you can't say they don't.
And there is nothing wrong with being a little chubby.
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Maybe greedy isn't the right word. I mean people who stuff their faces with food when they know they are overweight and maybe should reconsider that cake
Anorexia is a terrible disorder. Most fat people are fat because they like the taste of food and they can't be arsed walking when they could get the car - hardly the same
Also for most people with eating disorders it's about having a skewed view of themselves, and seeign themselves as ugly/fat when they're actually incredibly thin. For fat people, they often know they're fat (pretty easy to see when they can't fit through the door), but do nothing about it
For me it's not the food but the drink. I don't eat nearly as much as most people think but up until a couple weeks ago would drink 3 or more liters of Coke a day . I have since stopped and anm trying to get a taste for water but it's hard
Have you tried refrigerated water?
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Among gay people in Japan, having fetish for fat people is quite common I hear.
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It's funny when people complain about fat bastards being picked on, but they don't mind taking the piss out of skinnies. Neither are healthy, so either take the piss out of both or not bother at all.
I do love a nice Burger King/KFC/Subway now and then myself, and I have to admit I did stuff my face quite a few times. If it offends you, I couldn't care less, I'm not here to make everyone accept me. I haven't ate much since the past couple of months though, and have lost about a half stone.
Pretty much 100% causes of being overweight is simply overeating and general laziness. In my opinion, "genetically" fat is a pile of bollocks. Want to lose it? Just stop eating the fucking food and do some exercise you eejit, stop making excuses. There's no "easy" way, especially if your metabolism is fucked.
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Processed foods don't help things, plus take being a lot easier than making your own food also doesn't help.
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People manage to be skinny while eating such processed foods. It is possible, just a lot of us fat fucks are just far too lazy. I prefer to be lazy, mind.
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My sons can eat most anything and do one is under weight the other two are right where they are supposed to be
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I can eat almost anything and still be skinny. If I eat very balanced and eat excessive amounts of natural fat, like almonds, cream etc and still stick to my strict diet of rice, fish and raw vegetables, I can gain a tiny amount of extra body fat.
However, if I have coke, fast carbs, pasta, cake or just "normal" food, what most western people eat, I get underweight. I can eat endless amounts of candy, snacks etc (but I don't because it still pollutes the body) without gaining much. I actually lose weight from a diet like that. Only way to get fat for me is to have a healthy diet as a foundation and add on top of that natural fats and extra servings.
So to some degree I believe it's genetical.
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I can eat almost anything and still be skinny. If I eat very balanced and eat excessive amounts of natural fat, like almonds, cream etc and still stick to my strict diet of rice, fish and raw vegetables, I can gain a tiny amount of extra body fat.
However, if I have coke, fast carbs, pasta, cake or just "normal" food, what most western people eat, I get underweight. I can eat endless amounts of candy, snacks etc (but I don't because it still pollutes the body) without gaining much. I actually lose weight from a diet like that. Only way to get fat for me is to have a healthy diet as a foundation and add on top of that natural fats and extra servings.
So to some degree I believe it's genetical.
My brother in law could do that too till he was about 35 then boom and he expanded dramatically
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What I find funny is those women who claim to have lost all their post-pregnancy weight gain with "drinking plenty of water, and doing gentle Pilates, and breastfeeding, and it all just came right off!" :eyelash: Bullshit. A more honest response might be, "The drinking, smoking, drugging and partying take my mind off food just wonderfully, thank you," or "My newly-svelte physique is the result of a vicious, grueling, six-hour-a-day exercise & diet regimen with a full-time personal trainer and specially-prepared meals. My producers must think I'm worth it," or maybe the Mend-It-Like-Beckham technique, wherein the Caesarean section is accompanied by the reinsertion of the breast implants and a quick liposuction on the thighs.
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I could care less about people eating around me unless they're chewing with their mouths open. Sometimes seeing a person eat can be convenient. Gross, but I like knowing beforehand if someone is a finger licker. Ignorance is not bliss in this situation.
Processed foods don't help things, plus take being a lot easier than making your own food also doesn't help.
Do you know how to cook?
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I could care less about people eating around me unless they're chewing with their mouths open. Sometimes seeing a person eat can be convenient. Gross, but I like knowing beforehand if someone is a finger licker. Ignorance is not bliss in this situation.
Processed foods don't help things, plus take being a lot easier than making your own food also doesn't help.
Do you know how to cook?
I do know how to cook, but I have this weird thing where once I've gone to all the effort to cook a meal, I don't fee like eating it afterwards.