Today at work, I am going to the elevator with my cart, I see the other ladies already in the elevator and they have room for me and I am coming and they can see me from their eye sight but they don't hold the door. I say "jerks" after the doors close. Then it happens again later this morning but this time it was someone from the kitchen department and I say "Jerk" again. This time another houseperson hears me as he is putting newspapers in the recycling dumpster. I say "He didn't even hold the door for me. I always try to hold the door when I see someone coming," and he says "Some people just aren't as nice."
Then I realized something. All these people are immigrants so maybe their culture is different and there is no such thing as holding the elevator when you see someone coming. Or maybe they didn't see me because they were maybe talking to each other in their primary language so they weren't paying attention outside the elevator. Maybe the guy couldn't respond quick enough to take action by trying to hold the elevator, or he just didn't see me because he wasn't paying attention.
Funny how I am ignorant and narrow minded when something pisses me off and when I am calm, I get open minded.