Am I going to eventually lose him?

[Natalia Evans]

I've been told by a few people on WP I am going to lose my boyfriend because of lack of sex and I keep sending off the wrong signals to him that I want to have it. But he keeps saying he will never leave me but I never buy it because men have said that before to their women and bam they leave them one day but he says he isn't like other men. He says he is the luckiest guy in the world and the other two blew it lol.

[GalileoAce]

There are some males (few are far between but they do exist) that have little or no interest in sex.

[renaeden]

I lost two boyfriends because of this but then I met GA. It may be the same with your boyfriend. He may really mean it when he says he feels like the luckiest guy in the world.

[vodz]

You should dump him before he dumps you, believe me it's much easier if you are calling the shots.

Get "hand" in the relationship.

[Calandale]

Nothing lasts forever. Even if he sticks with you,
one of you is going to die first (likely). Enjoy
what you have, as much as you possibly can,
and that will only make the time better - and
probably longer. A lesson I HOPE that I've learned.

[Tristeza]

Cal is correct.

[GalileoAce]

Cal is correct.

Surprising isn't it?

[Calandale]

Cal is correct.

Surprising isn't it?

Not at all. I usually am.

[Callaway]

Cal is correct.

Surprising isn't it?

Not at all. I usually am.

Even a broken clock is right twice a day.

 :lol:

[The_P]

I've been told by a few people on WP I am going to lose my boyfriend because of lack of sex and I keep sending off the wrong signals to him that I want to have it. But he keeps saying he will never leave me but I never buy it because men have said that before to their women and bam they leave them one day but he says he isn't like other men. He says he is the luckiest guy in the world and the other two blew it lol.

Why do you pay attention to what some muppets say on WP? Just because they had bad experiences with men doesn't necessarily mean that you automatically will.

[ozymandias]

I have to agree.  Some relationships work, some don't, why, who knows, nobody knows.  There's no set formula.  There's a lot of luck, work, and a lot of little odd bits that combine in different ways for different people.  An advice columnist wrote the best line in regard to this.  "Are you better with or without him?" 

As the "P" said, who gives a shit what a bunch of electrons think about your relationship.  It's none of my business and it's none of theirs.  Your the one who has to live your life.

[Tristeza]

^Well said.  I wouldn't bother asking anyone for advice about relationships.  I think deep down we all know what we need to do with our lives.  Asking someone else means you need their validation to feel good about yourself, and screw that.  If someone close to you really cares about you, they'll tell you when you're fucking up.   

 

[Calandale]

I KNOW that I know more now (about me
and what I need and can give) than I did
before though. It wasn't so clear then.
So, advice IS helpful, if only to consolidate
and refine your own views.

[ozymandias]

^Well said.  I wouldn't bother asking anyone for advice about relationships.  I think deep down we all know what we need to do with our lives.  Asking someone else means you need their validation to feel good about yourself, and screw that.  If someone close to you really cares about you, they'll tell you when you're fucking up.   

 

Agreed, the ONLY people you should accept advice from is people that you have learned to trust and who have given you good advice before.  People who's opinions you value.  AND then ONLY accept what truly fits your situation.  What do you want?  Are you happy??  What are your plans??  Those are the questions that only you have the answer for.  Not people on a message board.

[ALLDAYGLOWRANDY]

I would be thinking about self actualization, am I bringing to the table my best, and if so, let em fuck off.