i try to move on from thing if someone does something that makes me angry or hurts me. i spent a lot of time holding grudges in high school and college. and it didn't help, so now i try to forget and move on for most things.
but there comes a point where i WON'T just forget or forgive. after starbuline died, i decided to start over again with everybiody. all the people i'd argued with on wp etc. and i did. but then some of them spat it back in my face, and posted disgusting lies about me and sophie. that's the point where i just thing, Fuck you. up to a point, i will try not to hold a grudge, and i'll try and help people. but if they cross that line, i won't. and beatlebitch crossed that line in the "tribute" thread. then she kept coming back and crossing it again and again and again.