Ask Eclair anything.

[McGiver]

i forgot, you don't live in america.


just stating a preference.  i have several black friends, but i would never want one of my daughters to date one.

[Eclair]

i forgot, you don't live in america.


just stating a preference.  i have several black friends, but i would never want one of my daughters to date one.

I've posted my thoughts in your thread.  Yes, we do have black indigenous people here...are you being totally ignorant?
And no, I don't have a kangaroo as a pet.

[McGiver]

i forgot, you don't live in america.


just stating a preference.  i have several black friends, but i would never want one of my daughters to date one.

I've posted my thoughts in your thread.  Yes, we do have black indigenous people here...are you being totally ignorant?
And no, I don't have a kangaroo as a pet.

you are being ignorant.  you have never walked in my shoes, seen what i have seen.

i stated that it was a personal preference.  and i resent the accusation that you are stating that my comment(of personal experience) is likened to Lits comment about rape.
one is a crime against another.  the other is simply the statements of a well trained pessimist.

[Eclair]

i forgot, you don't live in america.


just stating a preference.  i have several black friends, but i would never want one of my daughters to date one.

I've posted my thoughts in your thread.  Yes, we do have black indigenous people here...are you being totally ignorant?
And no, I don't have a kangaroo as a pet.

you are being ignorant.  you have never walked in my shoes, seen what i have seen.

i stated that it was a personal preference.  and i resent the accusation that you are stating that my comment(of personal experience) is likened to Lits comment about rape.
one is a crime against another.  the other is simply the statements of a well trained pessimist.

I was about to log off to do something, but you'd probably misinterpret that as me backing off.

I'm not being ignorant.  A sweeping statement means all or nothing to me...as in not one of them is worth my time...and I personally just don't like those sorts of statements generally, it actually wasn't an attack as such...but if you want to make it one?

And no, I haven't walked in other people's shoes.  And I'm not going to get the violins out and play you my sad songs either.
I just live in hope that not every race, minority group, whatever means that each and every one of those people is a piece of shit of no worth.

[McGiver]

it would be ignorant to clump every race into one category.

it would be prudent to take ones lifes experiences and try to hedge their bets in their favor.
i want my girls to be treated right by a man.

[Eclair]

it would be ignorant to clump every race into one category.

it would be prudent to take ones lifes experiences and try to hedge their bets in their favor.
i want my girls to be treated right by a man.

And I hope they are treated right.
Just make sure it doesn't come and bite you on the butt!   

My Dad is quite racist.  Perhaps where I learnt my debating on the subject!

[Calandale]

I was raised as about as un-racist as possible,
given my era, but experience has taught me
to be much more so.

[McGiver]

an example of my bias:

alot of the west coast rappers come from near where i have lived my whole life:
compton, watts, inglewood, etc....

also, remember that i have lived through the LA riots.

the rappers and the riot are not isolated instances either....these morals seem to be fairly strong in the black community.

also, where i work is probably the most diverse workplaces there is.
there are hard working black people, but it is fairly common that when someone has to pull the weight for another, it is a black person who is slouching their work load....entitlement?  i am not sure.


btw- one of my two work partners, who i work with everyday is black.  he works hard, doesn't make excuses, and i might not be too hesitant for one of my daughters to get involved with a guy like him. however, i do not know how he acts behind closed doors.  he may just be acting like he thinks that white people want others to act....to my face.
incidently, his uncle is the reverend, jessy jackson of the rainbow coalition.

[Eclair]

an example of my bias:

alot of the west coast rappers come from near where i have lived my whole life:
compton, watts, inglewood, etc....

also, remember that i have lived through the LA riots.

the rappers and the riot are not isolated instances either....these morals seem to be fairly strong in the black community.

also, where i work is probably the most diverse workplaces there is.
there are hard working black people, but it is fairly common that when someone has to pull the weight for another, it is a black person who is slouching their work load....entitlement?  i am not sure.


btw- one of my two work partners, who i work with everyday is black.  he works hard, doesn't make excuses, and i might not be too hesitant for one of my daughters to get involved with a guy like him. however, i do not know how he acts behind closed doors.  he may just be acting like he thinks that white people want others to act....to my face.
incidently, his uncle is the reverend, jessy jackson of the rainbow coalition.

I think the basic issue has been debated here at length on various debates.  Everyone is a product of past hatreds and how they are raised as individuals...it's like families...some have bad eggs or one good egg or whatever...I think you know what I mean anyway.

It doesn't change the fact that I only answered Cal's enquiry specifically and said yes, I would like to have sex with a black man, at least once.

[McGiver]

did you get my pm?

[Eclair]

Thanks for the tip... I have a super duper pop up blocker.
Nice song.
My favourite is Gimme Shelter...it's just edgy, the music...love it.

[McGiver]

Thanks for the tip... I have a super duper pop up blocker.
Nice song.
My favourite is Gimme Shelter...it's just edgy, the music...love it.

lots of people love that song.


i personally like their non commercial songs best.

[Eclair]

It's not commercial here.  You would never hear it on the radio, in fact I don't think I have.

[McGiver]

It's not commercial here.  You would never hear it on the radio, in fact I don't think I have.

i find that hard to imagine, since, many people have stated to me that that is their all time favorite stones song.

[Eclair]

And they were from Australia???