Ask Eclair anything.

[McGiver]

Are you denying you were being a sarcastic knob here?

no i wasn't.

i don't understand.

[Eclair]

so i guess what you are saying is:

even though i have difficulty in communicating with others (always have) i should change now, the best ways that i have learned to cope when interacting with others.


hmmm, you want me to be something that i am not.


is that a fair assessment?

The assessment is, if you push someone to be an ass back to you and you can't take your own medicine, then why keep doing it?
Seems pointless to me.

will you please let me know when you will be off line over the next few weeks?
i will try to avoid this place also, since i will be missing you soooo much.

Stop pretending, it doesn't suit you.  Or maybe it does!

Are you denying you were being a sarcastic knob here?

You were obviously being sarcastic because previously you had made a comment the complete opposite of that.  Essentially that you wouldn't be missing me....which really doesn't bother me....but down crawl up my ass with false comments like the above.

[Natalia Evans]

Do you have Asperger's syndrome?

[McGiver]

so i guess what you are saying is:

even though i have difficulty in communicating with others (always have) i should change now, the best ways that i have learned to cope when interacting with others.


hmmm, you want me to be something that i am not.


is that a fair assessment?

The assessment is, if you push someone to be an ass back to you and you can't take your own medicine, then why keep doing it?
Seems pointless to me.

will you please let me know when you will be off line over the next few weeks?
i will try to avoid this place also, since i will be missing you soooo much.

Stop pretending, it doesn't suit you.  Or maybe it does!

Are you denying you were being a sarcastic knob here?

You were obviously being sarcastic because previously you had made a comment the complete opposite of that.  Essentially that you wouldn't be missing me....which really doesn't bother me....but down crawl up my ass with false comments like the above.

i said that i am sure that i will be able to entertain myself, but that does not mean that you won't be missed.

and after that statement where i said that i would be able to entertain myself i reviewed the situation a little closer and decided that i might need a break from here, and that since i had enjoyed interacting with you so much that i may as well take my break around the same time.


next question:
don't you just hate run-on sentences?

[Eclair]

Do you have Asperger's syndrome?

Me?  Yes, I have been diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome in Dr Tony Attwood's clinic in Brisbane.  Was hoping not to have it, but after a few years I decided that a formal diagnosis one way or the other would help me to understand myself a bit better. 

Have undertaken months of CBT also earlier this year.

[Eclair]

so i guess what you are saying is:

even though i have difficulty in communicating with others (always have) i should change now, the best ways that i have learned to cope when interacting with others.


hmmm, you want me to be something that i am not.


is that a fair assessment?

The assessment is, if you push someone to be an ass back to you and you can't take your own medicine, then why keep doing it?
Seems pointless to me.

will you please let me know when you will be off line over the next few weeks?
i will try to avoid this place also, since i will be missing you soooo much.

Stop pretending, it doesn't suit you.  Or maybe it does!

Are you denying you were being a sarcastic knob here?

You were obviously being sarcastic because previously you had made a comment the complete opposite of that.  Essentially that you wouldn't be missing me....which really doesn't bother me....but down crawl up my ass with false comments like the above.

i said that i am sure that i will be able to entertain myself, but that does not mean that you won't be missed.

and after that statement where i said that i would be able to entertain myself i reviewed the situation a little closer and decided that i might need a break from here, and that since i had enjoyed interacting with you so much that i may as well take my break around the same time.


next question:
don't you just hate run-on sentences?

I think it was the "soooo much' comment that I took as sarcastic.  Since you won't be around when I am on now, I can tolerate you much easier!

[Calandale]

Are you only being bitchy to McJ
because you're bitchy in general
right now, or will this not pass?

[Eclair]

Are you only being bitchy to McJ
because you're bitchy in general
right now, or will this not pass?

Don't know.  I didn't think I was being bitchy...I just prefer consistency in people.

I think however, I have been a little bit bitchy to you lately and I apologise to some degree.  I guess people who talk about how sad life is all the time and how they don't want to go on hit a bit of a personal nerve for me.

[Calandale]

Seemed like you were tossing shit at
both of us. Seems to bug him. I get
off on the abuse, so don't worry.

[purposefulinsanity]

Seemed like you were tossing shit at
both of us. Seems to bug him. I get
off on the abuse, so don't worry.

That's twice in less than 24 hours you've made me think this- 'that explains a lot.'

[Eclair]

Seemed like you were tossing shit at
both of us. Seems to bug him. I get
off on the abuse, so don't worry.

I hardly notice when I bug people.  I'm usually too riled up about my own particular issue.
But suicide is a tough thing for me...it's pervaded my life for a very long time.

[Calandale]

Seemed like you were tossing shit at
both of us. Seems to bug him. I get
off on the abuse, so don't worry.

I hardly notice when I bug people.  I'm usually too riled up about my own particular issue.
But suicide is a tough thing for me...it's pervaded my life for a very long time.

Mine too. I've got it running on both sides
of my family. I'm too weak though.

[Calandale]

Do you think McJ will spank me for posting a question to someone else in his Ask Away thread?

(oops, there's another question...it might be a hard spanking!)

and you care?   

i'm a cappie.  and so's dunc, in case you hadn't worked that one out.   

what are you two (eclair and calandale) then?

I'd take whatever he'd have to give me, like the naughty girl I am.

Fishy.

I think she was asking astrological sign,
not scent.

[purposefulinsanity]

Ohhh I thought you were a bird not a cat? 

[purposefulinsanity]

Are you ever going to fill us in on the details of your biker gear fetish?