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Re: How much about this fucking WAR should I tell my young son?
« Reply #105 on: May 04, 2007, 11:46:55 AM »
do any of you have kids that are giving dirtdawg advice?

No, my kids haven't given DD any advice. :P
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Re: How much about this fucking WAR should I tell my young son?
« Reply #106 on: May 04, 2007, 12:12:01 PM »
Hi Calamity,

It really is frustring when you feel that your child is being taught by simpletons, isn't it? 

My recommendation to you would be to probe the intelligence that your son already has about the war...what makes you think the war is over?  etc. and try to see within what context his information is framed.  We know the war is not over, the men and women who are there still fighting know the war is not over...so when he answers (it may be something like "We were shown a picture of Geo. Bush on a ship with a sign that says 'Mission Accomplished.'")  you can ask him follow-up questions, like why do you think the war is over? And so forth.  These questions will serve several functions:  1)  They will give you an understanding of his knowledge base of the issue and what he is being taught.  2)  They will give you some indication of the political ideology of his teachers/school.  3)  They will teach your son, implicity, to question his own basis of knowledge and to question what he is intellectually fed by others...teach him to be a critical thinker...

Rhonda

Hi, Rhonda, Glad to see you here. Hope you're tough enough inclined to stay a while.

Your comments sum up where I am trying to get to with my son. He is an autistic eight year old, quite advanced, beyond believability, in some areas and somewhat hindered in others. We have made progress this week, as much as he is receptive to. Going can be slow and that is what shocked me so - how far he had been taken, before I "clued in" to what was happening.

If it was simpletons I was dealing with, I could just take up the slack from time to time, but they know what they are doing. If I sound paranoid, it's because I am, but with reason.
Thanks for your insights.
« Last Edit: May 04, 2007, 12:24:51 PM by Calamity Jane »
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Re: How much about this fucking WAR should I tell my young son?
« Reply #107 on: May 04, 2007, 12:19:34 PM »
do any of you have kids that are giving dirtdawg advice?

Hey Richard, thanks for watching my back, but I would welcome any comments from anyone. At the end of the day we can all sift through them, if needed.

What about you? What do you think?
I know you don't care much for current events, which is fine, but go ahead and speak out as a young, "invulnerable" man, please.
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Re: How much about this fucking WAR should I tell my young son?
« Reply #108 on: May 04, 2007, 12:24:23 PM »
do any of you have kids that are giving dirtdawg advice?

No, my kids haven't given DD any advice. :P

 :clap:

They have given advice to you, though. I hope you have learned as much from your kids as I have from mine. I did not know that Class 101  went at this pace.
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Re: How much about this fucking WAR should I tell my young son?
« Reply #109 on: May 04, 2007, 03:59:50 PM »
do any of you have kids that are giving dirtdawg advice?

No, my kids haven't given DD any advice. :P

 :clap:

They have given advice to you, though. I hope you have learned as much from your kids as I have from mine. I did not know that Class 101  went at this pace.
 :laugh:

Shock treatment, I believe it's called. :)
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Re: How much about this fucking WAR should I tell my young son?
« Reply #110 on: May 04, 2007, 04:34:02 PM »
do any of you have kids that are giving dirtdawg advice?
Hey Richard, thanks for watching my back,.
its what i do 8)

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Re: How much about this fucking WAR should I tell my young son?
« Reply #111 on: May 04, 2007, 04:36:01 PM »
I don't think he meant backside.

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Re: How much about this fucking WAR should I tell my young son?
« Reply #112 on: May 04, 2007, 04:37:23 PM »
no. he ment watching out for him. + intrests

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Re: How much about this fucking WAR should I tell my young son?
« Reply #113 on: May 04, 2007, 10:22:41 PM »
Hi Calamity,

It really is frustring when you feel that your child is being taught by simpletons, isn't it? 

My recommendation to you would be to probe the intelligence that your son already has about the war...what makes you think the war is over?  etc. and try to see within what context his information is framed.  We know the war is not over, the men and women who are there still fighting know the war is not over...so when he answers (it may be something like "We were shown a picture of Geo. Bush on a ship with a sign that says 'Mission Accomplished.'")  you can ask him follow-up questions, like why do you think the war is over? And so forth.  These questions will serve several functions:  1)  They will give you an understanding of his knowledge base of the issue and what he is being taught.  2)  They will give you some indication of the political ideology of his teachers/school.  3)  They will teach your son, implicity, to question his own basis of knowledge and to question what he is intellectually fed by others...teach him to be a critical thinker...

Rhonda

Hi, Rhonda, Glad to see you here. Hope you're tough enough inclined to stay a while.

Your comments sum up where I am trying to get to with my son. He is an autistic eight year old, quite advanced, beyond believability, in some areas and somewhat hindered in others. We have made progress this week, as much as he is receptive to. Going can be slow and that is what shocked me so - how far he had been taken, before I "clued in" to what was happening.

If it was simpletons I was dealing with, I could just take up the slack from time to time, but they know what they are doing. If I sound paranoid, it's because I am, but with reason.
Thanks for your insights.

Well, I hope you are able to stay ahead of the game now that you know what's going on there!  It would be very frustrating!!!  I feel for you Jane.  I'm sure I will be in similar shoes in another five years.  We have to stay vigilant.

RJ