You don't have much of a choice if you're diagnosed as a child like I was.
Of course not. Have not only seen adults seeking affirmation, but also a bit of pressure from the autistic community, aspie wannabees and such. It's very important for some who have never belonged anywhere to feel they belong among autistics; that can be a great thing. Still, whenever encountering a self-sufficient parent seeking affirmation, it's hard not to mention their risk.