For the whateverth time, I wanted to know if lot of people find these phrases graphic. After asking around I have concluded it's all her opinion that lot of people find them graphic and "lot" has a different meaning to her than it does to me. Only some people find them graphic and some find them tame or vulgar.
Geez can I even ask a question without anyone thinking I give a shit about someone or that they are bothering me? I guess I'll dummy things up next time by leaving them nameless, even if you do know the person.