Some people here were homeless, some had kids taken off them, some went through divorces and so on.
Even I had shite in my life: I had an abusive narcissistic dad, almost complete lack of social life (until now), the inability to go down my last town without getting abuse hurled at etc. etc. etc. There are times I felt fucking awful and it's occuring more often, to the point were I can't be arsed trolling people or even getting out of bed.
The point is here that everyone has had shite in their life, but we simply don't choose to whine about it in possibly the *worst* place possible, were EVERYONE will most likely not give a shit: a public forum such as i2. Keep it to the people who do bloody care or get a shrink, chin the fuck up and sort out the problems. That's what I (and most people) do. It's bloody hard but you'll be thankful you did.