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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #45 on: October 14, 2006, 08:24:53 AM »
I'm not mad, but i am lonely.

But i'm not expecting you guys do anything about it, i'm just remarking upon the fact.
And as always, these are simply my worthless opinions.
Reverence is fine, Sanctity is silly.
We're all fucked, it helps to remember that.

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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #46 on: October 14, 2006, 08:28:22 AM »
For one thing i have almost no money.  I want to be able to buy her things, treat her to dinners and shit.  I don't want to buy her exactly, but i'd like the freedom that money gives.  Another thing is that I don't want to find a girl then get a job which puts me out of convenient driving distance, or have her get a job somewhere that i have to move to.  And lastly, i can't even imagine finding someone outside of a working environment.  I figure once i get a job, i will have the money to blow on trying to find her, because i can't think of any cheap, easy ways to find people with a certain personality, intelligence, and goal in life.

you can treat her right, emotionally.

that would be better than any gift you could purchase.
please, do not ask me for advice on 'how to' since, i am still learning myself.
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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #47 on: October 14, 2006, 10:50:15 AM »
What's so wrong with dating in college?

I don't know. McJ thinks he's the seer of all knowledge just because he's been a man-whore since puberty.

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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #48 on: October 14, 2006, 01:35:02 PM »
What's so wrong with dating in college?

I don't know. McJ thinks he's the seer of all knowledge just because he's been a man-whore since puberty.
or the fact that i have had opportunity, and you are jealous because you would rather self loathe.
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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #49 on: October 14, 2006, 01:41:49 PM »
What's so wrong with dating in college?

I don't know. McJ thinks he's the seer of all knowledge just because he's been a man-whore since puberty.
or the fact that i have had opportunity, and you are jealous because you would rather self loathe.

You wish I was loathing.

God, what a bitch. Give this man a medal for using the tired "jealous" comeback.

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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #50 on: October 14, 2006, 01:42:57 PM »
the pattern speaks for itself.
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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #51 on: October 14, 2006, 01:43:39 PM »
the pattern speaks for itself.

As per usual, empty assumptions from people online whom I haven't met.

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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #52 on: October 14, 2006, 01:48:06 PM »
the pattern from your prior posts.
now i get it, its your online personality, and nothing like the real you.

sporry, i have a life and things to do now.  you will have to wait for my next, mean spirited reply.
yes, since i have a life.
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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #53 on: October 14, 2006, 01:49:57 PM »
the pattern from your prior posts.
now i get it, its your online personality, and nothing like the real you.

sporry, i have a life and things to do now.  you will have to wait for my next, mean spirited reply.
yes, since i have a life.

If your life is so fantastic, why do you constantly waste your time at berating other people online, then?

Can't anyone get enough of this idiot?

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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #54 on: October 14, 2006, 01:50:34 PM »
i will challenge you, you bitter little prick.
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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #55 on: October 14, 2006, 01:51:58 PM »
i will challenge you, you bitter little prick.

You have contradicted yourself and lied about your busy life schedule, too. Congratulations.

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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #56 on: October 16, 2006, 05:11:15 PM »
building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.

As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?

so you are sayging that i am feminie?

I'm saying you're running as hard as you can away from the suggestion that you might possibly be feminine.
You'll never self-actualize the subconscious canopy of stardust with that attitude.

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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #57 on: October 16, 2006, 06:09:54 PM »
building more walls, which could be used as defensive mechanisms.

As opposed to the walls you build around any semblance of gentleness, mercy, or femininity?

so you are sayging that i am feminie?

I'm saying you're running as hard as you can away from the suggestion that you might possibly be feminine.
in your opinion.
sources please.
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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #58 on: October 16, 2006, 06:39:26 PM »
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Re: Advice to desperate aspie guys
« Reply #59 on: October 16, 2006, 08:57:40 PM »
Quote from: Pyraxis
I'm saying you're running as hard as you can away from the suggestion that you might possibly be feminine.
in your opinion.
sources please.

Every comment you've been making here is a source. You're on the defensive. You're demanding explanation. If it wasn't a big deal to you, you would have ignored it, or maybe made a joke about it. Instead you chose the word "femininity" to question me about, instead of either of the other two I mentioned, "gentleness" and "mercy".

QC sees it.  ;D
You'll never self-actualize the subconscious canopy of stardust with that attitude.