now, she aint taking any of my shit.
i don't know what to do...
stop giving her shit.
(sometimes, you just have to point out the obvious...).
i am not sure what you're getting at with this post???
??/
I'm not a mind reader, but I would guess you need to get really good at responding, "Yes, dear," for the next few months.
For example when your wife is feeling like a beached whale and says, "All men suck! You did this to me!" then you say, "Yes, dear. It's awful you are having to go through this but just think, soon this will all be over and we will have Boston and he will give us a lifetime of love."