Ow, that sucks.
When my parents have came to visit me, I would stay up till three or four in the morning playing Super Smash Bros. Brawl. I would get very annoyed when they tell me to go to bed or I should go to bed.
When I was 20, we came out to Portland to visit and we stayed at my Dad's friend's house in our RV. We were in downtown waiting for the train to come and I see these teens at the drinking fountain. They are playing with the water, one of them puts her finger over the hole where the water comes out and makes it squirt up in the air. I wanted to do it too but my mother kept telling me "no." I saw the other teen do it too. My mother kept yelling at me to not do it. I never did it because I was afraid of what would happen if I did. I had let her treat me like a child.
I did get to do it later on, when I was 21. I did it and it got my ex in the face and he thought I did it on purpose. Well, I was laughing and smiling so I guess I can't blame him. I also did it to my current boyfriend but this time it was intentional except I didn't get him in the face. He doesn't drink out of those fountains.
AND had my older brother as a baby at the same time.
So he is not that much younger than your mother.
This shit is going to go on forever. My mom is a pain to me, my grandma is a pain to her, my great grandmother was a pain to my grandma and we
can all get bitter at times and not letting go of things.
Sounds like a tradition in your family. Your great grandmother did the same to your grandmother. Your grandmother did the same to your mother. Now she is doing it to you. But how did they all manage to escape?
Maybe you should try talking to you mother about how she is treating you. Ask her if she liked it when her own mother treated her that way she is treating you now?
